In so many cases we've seen a man and a woman who claim to love each other deeply before marriage and after marriage they divorce. Can u say they had true love at all? Does true love fade away?

You can divorce someone you still love

Well, I guess not.

Love is not the no 1 criteria of a long lasting marriage.... WISDOM...IS THE FOUNDATION OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.....

No, I don't think real love exists, because love is a choice and not a feeling. You choose the person that you fall in love with and you choose the 'reasons' that you love them for. True love itself would be an act of chance, where you fall in love with your perfect mate devoid of foretaste. But that could never happen, because you fall for the person that you are physically attracted to and that meets your 'requirements' and find ways to become emotionally attached, instead of finding that person that really completes you. But you wouldn't know who the person that really completes you either, because you can never really be that open minded.

Love or the lack of it is subjected to ones circumstance and favourable conditions and if this desirables changes to an unfavourable one love becomes sour and unsuitable. With couples feeling the need to move on with their individual lives as the circumstance isn't friendly anymore. This alter any 'real' in the love as for something to be real it has to be able to undergo and overwhelm every situation/challenges. No clause would have been attached to it.

Conclusively, there's nothing as real love or whatever it's called. Love is a game of interest and until it's reverted then it will continue to be a hoax. Until a barrow pusher and that stark illiterate palm wine tapper in the village start facing equal chances of dating/marrying that charming academic scholar damsel who has a lucrative job then love will continue to be called what it is, a joke. And vice versa.

1bkaye:
You can divorce someone you still love

That is if the person is being remote controlled from village..

These comments before me are coming from people who have never been in love.

One cannot divorce easily who she/he loves.

Sometimes u find that u still do love the person, bt u just find out that he is not who u thought he was. Dis is y u shud take time to know him or her, becoz honey, marriage is no child's play

You can divorce someone you love. Haven't you heard of separated and divorced couples getting back together. Love can be forever while divorce is just a marital status.

paul288yahoo:
Love is not the no 1 criteria of a long lasting marriage....
WISDOM...IS THE FOUNDATION OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE.....

I agree with this right hurr.



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Op,yes what they had was true love. U can't be in love with someone for 50years.

Op! You no sabi say love dey tire person? Wait till you marry sha! U go learn!!!!

I pray God never let me tell d girl I once love.... I don't love u no more.... let me never go Dat lane...

It's hard to answer this question without actually having the experience. You can't tell someone who was not part of the relationship to actually tell what really happened between the couple. I think it's between the couple to tell actually if what they had was true love or not.... But for me oo, I don't think TRUE LOVE can end in divorce.

Yeah its possible to divorce someone you love. Ego, pride, anger, immaturity amongst other things can get in the way of love.