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Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nonycool: 11:18pm On Jul 10, 2015
I really need some serious advice on what to do.

I broke up with my ex girlfriend sometime this year after I observed that her attitude changed. I tried to find out what was wrong but she said nothing. After the break up i investigated to see if she have a new boyfriend but she haven't got any.
The problem that I am having now is that I can't stop thinking of her even though I have tried hooking up with other girls to replace her. I hangout alot and keep my self busy. But I can't move on. I think of her all the time even while at work. I

Please i need serious advice on how too overcome this issue as I have prayed several times about it but no avail
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Cutehector(m): 11:22pm On Jul 10, 2015
Time heals

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Hazardd(m): 11:22pm On Jul 10, 2015
you wouldnt value what you have until you lose it...

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Starships4u(m): 11:25pm On Jul 10, 2015
Well lemme state it clear here, she aint you EX in your heart.... But she is just in your eyes...

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nigelcoop: 11:26pm On Jul 10, 2015
What kinda thoughts do u normally hv?
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by gracile(f): 11:43pm On Jul 10, 2015
well, op, that makes the two of us.. and i did the breaking up in my own case as well which makes us the more similar smiley
good news is I'm getting over him quite well this past few days, all thanks to 'a craze-guy'
howbeit, I'll follow this thread!
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nonycool: 11:43pm On Jul 10, 2015
nigelcoop:
What kinda thoughts do u normally hv?

She spoilt the plans I had for us. I was planning on getting married and spending the rest of my life with her. Felt so bad that after all her promises of love she still failed
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Brugo(m): 11:48pm On Jul 10, 2015
cheesy

Man face your work. Relationships are like addiction. Once discontinued, there would be withdrawal symptoms.

You need something else to occupy your mind. Don't look back.

She has not changed and the very thing that led to the break up will come up again if you get back together.

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by delishpot: 11:50pm On Jul 10, 2015
nonycool:
I really need some serious advice on what to do.

I broke up with my ex girlfriend sometime this year after I observed that her attitude changed. I tried to find out what was wrong but she said nothing. After the break up i investigated to see if she have a new boyfriend but she haven't got any.
The problem that I am having now is that I can't stop thinking of her even though I have tried hooking up with other girls to replace her. I hangout alot and keep my self busy. But I can't move on. I think of her all the time even while at work. I

Please i need serious advice on how too overcome this issue as I have prayed several times about it but no avail

I still dont get why you broke up with her sha. What change did you notice?
Change in attitude may mean sge became withdrawn, rude, outgoing, not allowing you dictate the pace or direction of her life like she used to let you do before, having a say in what she wants do do with herself unlike before when you decide what she should do, not dropping everythibg she was doing abd racing to you as soon as you call like she used to do before, becoming born again and not wanting to bang you again etc. A change in attitude may be a good thing for the girl. Anyhoe try to move on. I hope you two find vetter people to be with soon.
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by libertyfather(m): 11:59pm On Jul 10, 2015
wait for a while or format memory
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Nobody: 12:07am On Jul 11, 2015
gracile:
well, op, that makes the two of us.. and i did the breaking up in my own case as well which makes us the more similar smiley
good news is I'm getting over him quite well this past few days, all thanks to 'a craze-guy'
howbeit, I'll follow this thread!


bae, so u're on nairaland?
I've still not gotten over it ooo....u really hurt my feelings.. embarassed

I hope this ur new guy is half as good as I was....*sobs* *blows nose*

Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nigelcoop: 12:13am On Jul 11, 2015
nonycool:


She spoilt the plans I had for us. I was planning on getting married and spending the rest of my life with her. Felt so bad that after all her promises of love she still failed

u said u broke da whole thing up and now ur saying she failed...sorry I dnt get how??...anyways if your thoughts isn't that of hate 4 her I suggest u gv it a try again and dis time dnt be quick to break it if ur not sure ur ready 4 it to be over!
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by gracile(f): 12:15am On Jul 11, 2015
oseod:


bae, so u're on nairaland? I've still not gotten over it ooo....u really hurt my feelings.. embarassed
I hope this ur new guy is half as good as I was....*sobs* *blows nose*
xboo, yu know bigboiz don't cry? oya wipe those tears b4 iyawo sees u grin and don't budge, you remain unrivalled

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by adedayourt(m): 12:20am On Jul 11, 2015
jus wana read comments
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Nobody: 12:26am On Jul 11, 2015
gracile:


[size=15pt]xboo[/size], yu know bigboiz don't cry? oya wipe those tears b4 iyawo sees u grin
and don't budge, you remain unrivalled

I'm finished ooooo!!!! *sobs profusely* *blows nose until it falls from socket*

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by gracile(f): 12:31am On Jul 11, 2015
oseod:


I'm finished ooooo!!!! *sobs profusely* *blows nose until it falls from socket*
Lol, your nose sha, haven't seen anything grin

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Nobody: 12:55am On Jul 11, 2015
gracile:

Lol, your nose sha, haven't seen anything grin

U know, I've been plotting a way to win you back and just came up with the perfect plan.....*evil smile* cool

I'll pretend to be terminally i'll and I'll tell my friend to call you to meet me on my sick bed......
he'll be like.... "gracile rush over oooo!! Your bae is about to die oo!!!!

U'll be like ......"omg!!, this can be happening...i'll be there asap"

Then u come over.... and i'm like......*shivering* "gra...cile is.... that really you?" cool

Gracile: yes dear, take it easy eh, don't stress your self"
Me : *shivers* I thought you were really going to leave me for real" *shivers* cool

Gracile : ahn ahn., don't talk like that, you know i'll never leave you for the world"

Me: *mision accomplished* cool cool



What dyu think............foolproof abi? grin

Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nonycool: 4:01am On Jul 11, 2015
delishpot:


I still dont get why you broke up with her sha. What change did you notice?
Change in attitude may mean sge became withdrawn, rude, outgoing, not allowing you dictate the pace or direction of her life like she used to let you do before, having a say in what she wants do do with herself unlike before when you decide what she should do, not dropping everythibg she was doing abd racing to you as soon as you call like she used to do before, becoming born again and not wanting to bang you again etc. A change in attitude may be a good thing for the girl. Anyhoe try to move on. I hope you two find vetter people to be with soon.

Her attitude was really bad. 1st she stopped the banging thing which I didn't object because I thought was for religious sake. Then the rudeness and finally she only pick my calls when she felt like an when I ask her such would reply that the was playing music or should doesn't want to talk at that moment. It continued for a while until I couldn't bear it any longer. So I am asking what can I do to forget her. Time have not make any difference. Pls help because I cannot move on
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Nobody: 5:39am On Jul 11, 2015
It has happen 2 me b4, Just try and move on wit ur life, whenever the thought cum tryin do sumthing to keep u busy..if u get video game or handled game trying playing FiFa 15 career mode, move on wit new friends, try gym, stop checking on her page on facebook, stop it. Or u delete her frm yah facebook account. Stop checking her picture on whatsapp or yah device. Buy sum new cloth and take gud care of yah self. Remember she may nt be thinking bout u. And only u owns yah self.. If u die today my brother dat gurl gonna get another boo. den tym heals. Sum gurl sha dat remind me of Deola now she want me back, never.

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nonycool: 8:10am On Jul 11, 2015
sicobamty2:
It has happen 2 me b4, Just try and move on wit ur life, whenever the thought cum tryin do sumthing to keep u busy..if u get video game or handled game trying playing FiFa 15 career mode, move on wit new friends, try gym, stop checking on her page on facebook, stop it. Or u delete her frm yah facebook account. Stop checking her picture on whatsapp or yah device. Buy sum new cloth and take gud care of yah self. Remember she may nt be thinking bout u. And only u owns yah self.. If u die today my brother dat gurl gonna get another boo. den tym heals. Sum gurl sha dat remind me of Deola now she want me back, never.

OK bro thanks
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by delishpot: 8:21am On Jul 11, 2015
nonycool:


Her attitude was really bad. 1st she stopped the banging thing which I didn't object because I thought was for religious sake. Then the rudeness and finally she only pick my calls when she felt like an when I ask her such would reply that the was playing music or should doesn't want to talk at that moment. It continued for a while until I couldn't bear it any longer. So I am asking what can I do to forget her. Time have not make any difference. Pls help because I cannot move on


Haba, she was over pushing it na. Anyway sha, you can get over her by developing some new hobby. Try to learn something new and focus on it. It helps. Pkele time will surely heal ya broken heart. Pkus anytime you miss her, remember the drama she gives you.
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nonycool: 8:25am On Jul 11, 2015
delishpot:



Haba, she was over pushing it na. Anyway sha, you can get over her by developing some new hobby. Try to learn something new and focus on it. It helps. Pkele time will surely heal ya broken heart. Pkus anytime you miss her, remember the drama she gives you.

OK
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by BANGERLEE1(m): 8:27am On Jul 11, 2015
Guess yu not busy enough...
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by octopusfreaky(f): 8:29am On Jul 11, 2015
awwwwwwww,Pele,,,I din throw my ex insyd atlantic ocean,,,not too be recovered again....u call one ex she should be in history not your present...
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by solodox(m): 8:43am On Jul 11, 2015
nonycool:
I really need some serious advice on what to do.

I broke up with my ex girlfriend sometime this year after I observed that her attitude changed. I tried to find out what was wrong but she said nothing. After the break up i investigated to see if she have a new boyfriend but she haven't got any.
The problem that I am having now is that I can't stop thinking of her even though I have tried hooking up with other girls to replace her. I hangout alot and keep my self busy. But I can't move on. I think of her all the time even while at work. I

Please i need serious advice on how too overcome this issue as I have prayed several times about it but no avail

if what you posted here is errthang that happend, there shouldnt have been a break up in the first place! search your heart and if its justifiable i think you should get back with her! the heart wants what the heart wants! nairalanders wont be there when youre hurting!
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by nonycool: 8:59am On Jul 11, 2015
solodox:


if what you posted here is errthang that happend, there shouldnt have been a break up in the first place! search your heart and if its justifiable i think you should get back with her! the heart wants what the heart wants! nairalanders wont be there when youre hurting!

Her attitude before we broke up was too rude and it gave me sleepless night. But now I can live and sleep well but only can't stop thinking about her
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by pretydiva(f): 9:04am On Jul 11, 2015
Y don't u go back 2 her since she's stil single
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by solodox(m): 9:21am On Jul 11, 2015
nonycool:


Her attitude before we broke up was too rude and it gave me sleepless night. But now I can live and sleep well but only can't stop thinking about her

in a nutshell, you are still not sleeping well! did you do the ultimatum thing with her before you broke it off!? thats where you tell her to change something unbecoming with consequences if she doesnt?
and are you certain she doesnt have a new bf or gf for that matter?
be sure yar jux not wasting ya time o!
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by gracile(f): 5:12pm On Jul 11, 2015
oseod:


U know, I've been plotting a way to win you back and just came up with the perfect plan.....*evil smile* cool

I'll pretend to be terminally i'll and I'll tell my friend to call you to meet me on my sick bed......
he'll be like.... "gracile rush over oooo!! Your bae is about to die oo!!!!

U'll be like ......"omg!!, this can be happening...i'll be there asap"

Then u come over.... and i'm like......*shivering* "gra...cile is.... that really you?" cool

Gracile: yes dear, take it easy eh, don't stress your self"
Me : *shivers* I thought you were really going to leave me for real" *shivers* cool

Gracile : ahn ahn., don't talk like that, you know i'll never leave you for the world"

Me: *mision accomplished* cool cool



What dyu think............foolproof abi? grin
I'll say I've come to ease ur pain by making ur death quicker tongue your friend will thank me

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Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Vado(m): 6:02pm On Jul 11, 2015
pretydiva:
Y don't u go back 2 her since she's stil single

You don't get it. The chic no longer gives a fffff about him. Reason he dead the relationship in the first place.
Girls smh...op she doesn't worth it. Move on!
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Heineken(m): 6:16pm On Jul 11, 2015
Brugo:
cheesy

Man face your work. Relationships are like addiction. Once discontinued, there would be withdrawal symptoms.

You need something else to occupy your mind. Don't look back.

She has not changed and the very thing that led to the break up will come up again if you get back together.
mehn you get sense.
Re: Help. I Can't Stop Thinking Of My Ex by Brugo(m): 6:39pm On Jul 11, 2015
Heineken:
mehn you get sense.

grin thanks bro

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