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Dont Let Your Yesterday Control Ur Tommorrow by oluwatoyinadeola(m): 1:56pm On Jul 11, 2015 |
Many ladies are married today simply because they got
pregnant for a man they would naturally not want to marry.
Many men are married also because they impregnated a girl
they just wanted to date not marry, but they had to marry
since a baby was coming.
Their reason for ending up as a couple is in the first place
misplaced, hence there is a tendency they would have very
troubled marriage, as both of them would see gaps and find
faults with each other.
The why for their getting married is not the reason for
marriage; so they'll end up as parents to their children but
hardly see themselves as the right husband or wife for
themselves. The mistakes and weaknesses in each of their
lives would be looked upon with dismay and regret; each
party believing if they had married who they really wanted,
these gaps wouldn't be there.
When the reason for a choice or decision is not concrete or
sensible enough, you would eventually feel disappointed,
discouraged and down cast. You will feel used, abused and
misused, you'd become upset and sensitive and you would
begin to develop a victim mentality – you'd feel as if the
whole world is against you.
This is because your lack of understanding of your life due
to flippant choices made in time past is rendering you
helpless and your life is out of your control; you're not in
charge anymore, you have become a victim, in fact a tool of
your own life.
Too many people today are angry because their lives are
out of control, hence they hold those they feel are now in
charge of their lives responsible for all that happens to
them. They have become experts in blame games, finger
pointing and criticism.
Their parents are at fault, their rich uncle is at fault, the
government is at fault, their spouses are at fault, their
employer is at fault, the devil is at fault, somebody is
always at fault when things don't go well; it's never their
own fault, its someone else that is always responsible. A
sure mark of loss of control.
Ladies and gentlemen, it's time to put ‘the whys' behind
‘the what's' in your lives. It's time you define clearly the
reason and objectives for everything in your life. This is the
first line of action in regaining control of your life. |
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