In life there is nothing like a perfect relationship. The truth is everybody will hurt you, your parents, siblings, family relations, coworkers, neighbours including your best friend or lover as the case may be.
Now my worry is, most ladies want a perfect relationship. They will give you a litany of dos & don'ts of what you should and should not do at the genesis of the relationship. Then any little mistake the guy makes the "I warned you" alarm will begin to ring. Young people (especially ladies) have a lot of fantasies in their head when going into a relationship. They see being in a relationship as an escape route from boredom, stress, sadness etc. Yeah! a good relationship is supposed to be fun-filled & romantic. But most women tend to forget that every rose has a torn and every prize has a price. Very few ladies can endure stress. They want to be understood at all times but fail to understand when the need arises . I once asked a lady out & the first thing she told me when she accepted to date me was that all she wants from me was to always make her happy... that she wants to be happy at all times. Hmmm....... I began to ask myself what has happened to true love..... True love is supposed to be patient & kind. True Love is supposed to endure good & bad times. Young ladies of our time want it all rossy & smooth. I want to ask this question friends. Can two lovers misunderstand each other at times? Have you ever had a serious misunderstanding with the one you love and how did you overcome it? Matured answers please.... no insult.

The first misunderstanding i had wt my gal came in d form of an insult--a grave one at dt. Imaging ur gal telling u to ur face in self defense after bin found out cheating on u dt "I love u bt i love him more. I am more happier wt him bla bla .." Or d day she asked me to excuse her in my own room to answer a call! Up till tday she hails me for bin d best guy she has ever gone out wt. Any oda guy could hv beaten her up in dos instances bt i applied understandin n maturity. Today i am d one doing shakara as she has gone round and back again begging. I am comfortable now bin lonely bt nt alone
until d one meets wt me. Dnt know where n wen. In a nutshell,wisdom maturity n understanding are vital in any relationship. Ulo udo di onye ndidi biya. That is, in any peaceful home there's someone who puts in maximum sacrifices.

Its always normal to quarrel with the one u love and there is no perfect relationship

kahara:
The first misunderstanding i had wt my gal came in d form of an insult--a grave one at dt. Imaging ur gal telling u to ur face in self defense after bin found out cheating on u dt

"I love u bt i love him more. I am more happier wt him bla bla .."

Or d day she asked me to excuse her in my own room to answer a call!

That is not maturity .... that is dulling !!

...... how can your girlfriend ask you to excuse her to answer a call.... even in your own room.... na God dey call her?



hmmm...... Bro..... that kain girl if ask you to excuse her to tidy another guy on your own bed.... #justsaying#

Bibidear:
Its always normal to quarrel with the one u love and there is no perfect relationship

@Bibidear....... very few ladies understand that. Why?

niceguy4:



@Bibidear....... very few ladies understand that. Why?

those that are immatured,date matured gals

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Bollove:


That is not maturity .... that is dulling !!

U may be right,bt i am not a man of violence. I am peaceful. But he who laffs last laffs beta n bst. I am d one laffin now. So am i dullin now?

kahara:


That is not maturity .... that is dulling !!


U may be right,bt i am not a man of violence. I am peaceful. But he who laffs last laffs beta n bst. I am d one laffin now. So am i dullin now?

tis not about peace or violence ...
It is about taking charge and let your babe realise when to draw the line

tis not about this babe but other babes will still treat you same way if you are behaving like this !!!

Bibidear:

those that are immatured,date matured gals

what is your definition of maturity ?....... Don't tell me age... cos it has never been a function of maturity

niceguy4:
...... how can your girlfriend ask you to excuse her to answer a call.... even in your own room.... na God dey call her?

My broda that is to tell u how some ladies head contain notin bt water. She came for a visit oo. Dey oprss me fr my crib.

niceguy4:





what is your definition of maturity ?....... Don't tell me age... cos it has never been a function of maturity

nah not the age,a gal who learns to b independent and someone who thinks about other pple's opinion b4 doing stuffs and a gal who understands that a guy aint an ATM machine

Bollove:
tis not about peace or violence ...
It is about taking charge and let your babe realise when to draw the line

tis not about this babe but other babes will still treat you same way if you are behaving like this !!!

Bollove:
tis not about peace or violence ...
It is about taking charge and let your babe realise when to draw the line

tis not about this babe but other babes will still treat you same way if you are behaving like this !!!

Bollove:
tis not about peace or violence ...
It is about taking charge and let your babe realise when to draw the line

tis not about this babe but other babes will still treat you same way if you are behaving like this !!!

My dear bin in charge includes wateva u as a guy can do in a situation such d this to defuse tension fr peace sake. Mind u my reaction was directed to d question posed by the OP in d opening of dis thread wch asked to know weda two lovers can hv a misunderstanding and if yes hw can dey handle it.

Bibidear:

nah not the age,a gal who learns to b independent and someone who thinks about other pple's opinion b4 doing stuffs and a gal who understands that a guy aint an ATM machine

a virtuous woman...... who can find her

Bibidear...... have u ever had a serious misunderstanding with the one you love and how did you resolve it?

niceguy4:
Bibidear...... have u ever had a serious misunderstanding with the one you love and how did you resolve it?

yes,infact we quarrel a lot,it takes understanding and i am not proud,if i know i am at fault,i apologise