I have watched many marriages be torn apart
because of infidelity. It is heart wrenching to
witness beloved friends having to live their
worst nightmare as they discover their spouse
has been selfish and unfaithful. I would never
wish it on anyone. Because of this, I have used
these awful experiences to collect advice and
tips on how to catch a cheater before it is
too late in hopes that it may help someone in
the future.

Here are 10 of the most common signs that
your spouse is cheating:

1. Frequent change of passwords
If you notice your spouse changing their email,
cell phone, computer or social media passwords
more than usual, chances are they are trying
to hide something.

2. Social media profiles
If a spouse is unfaithful, they will most likely
make their social media profiles look very
"single." Updating their profile picture to a
solo shot or a picture with friends and hiding
photos of you as a couple should be a big red
flag. Also take notice if there is an obvious
increase in the amount of time your spouse
spends on social networks each day.

3. Cellphone habits
A healthy relationship is an open one. When
your spouse answers the phone and immediately
moves to a room where you cannot overhear
the conversation, watch out. Unless they are
planning a surprise birthday party for you,
your spouse should feel comfortable talking
to anyone on the phone in front of you.

4. Decreased or increased desire for
intimacy
In some cases the desire for sex may decrease
since the cheater is already getting their
pleasure outside the home. However, there is
also the possibility that his or her interest in
having sex may increase, because of feelings of
guilt.

5. Cleared history
A big sign that someone is being unfaithful is
when you find their computer or phone
history cleared regularly. Though your
spouse might be doing this for security
reasons, it is more likely that they are trying
to "cover their tracks."

6. Increase in social activities
Take note when your spouse starts attending
more social gatherings alone. A guys' night
out or a business party are commonly used
cover-ups.

7. Increase the extra costs
If it seems you are a little tighter on money at
the end of the month than normal, look at
where your extra money is going. Cheaters will
often take out cash to make it more difficult
to track where they have spent the money.

8. Physical appearance
Be careful not to jump to conclusions with
this one. Your spouse's newfound desire to be
more physically attractive might be a result of
trying to look more professional for work, or
maybe they are just trying to catch your eye.
However, if you have noticed any of the other
signs on this list, you may have a problem.
When seeking a new relationship or adventure,
people usually take extra care in managing
their outward appearance.

9. Blame you for everything
No matter if something happened at work or
away from home, they find a way to blame
you and make you feel lousy.

10. Increase in gifts
Spouses who are being unfaithful will often
try to cover their guilt with splurges of gifts.
If you are surprised by the sudden amount of
attention and gifts your spouse is giving you,
you might want find out what the motive
behind them is.

If you find four or more of these signs in
your life, something strange is happening. It
doesn't guarantee that your spouse is caught
up in an affair, but they are the beginning
steps towards infidelity. Be careful to avoid
outright accusing them of being unfaithful.
Instead, talk to them and try to understand
what is going on. If there is a problem, try
your best to work through it with your
spouse, forgive their mistakes and save your
marriage.

some thru sha

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