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| HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 2:20am On Jul 21, 2015 |
How can we make our relationship exciting and interesting without intimacy (sexxx). My girlfriend does not consent to sex and i try to be understanding but i gotta admit, its quite difficult.... she even gave me the green light to cheat and that didn't really go down well with me. we get to meet up a like twice a week due to our different work schedule. I am a business man; while she works for an organization. This whole "no-sex" thing is beginning to cause some friction in our relationship. ... talk about sexual frustration!!... Matured advise would be appreciated. How can we make this work without sex? How can we build other forms of attraction outside ourselves? I dont need moral advise here okay. If u wanna preach, please take it to your worship house! |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by techcoms: 2:21am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Pay her bride price bro, that;s the only way. No other Way 4 Likes |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 2:48am On Jul 21, 2015 |
techcoms: Makes no sense!! How could you possibly get married just cos of sexxx   1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by techcoms: 2:49am On Jul 21, 2015 |
If she is good for a gf than she can as while be good for a wife. Don't waste her time dating her and leave her for someone else. Goodluck bro magicminister: 2 Likes |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 2:59am On Jul 21, 2015 |
techcoms: Update your OS hommie. This is 2015 for christ sake!!. I am not ready to get married anytime soon. Does that mean i can't have a girlfriend?? Have you ever heard of what we call long term relationship? 1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by techcoms: 3:03am On Jul 21, 2015 |
googluck magic magicminister: |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by mokset123: 3:06am On Jul 21, 2015 |
magicminister:My brother even if this is 2015, sorry to say this is Nigeria and not America. Long term girl friend won't take you anywhere other than it ending with a baby mama. In the long run you want a wife and not a baby mama. |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 3:11am On Jul 21, 2015 |
mokset123: i am not ready to get married.... my business involves that i travel alot. This year alone, i haven't been in Nigeria for 3 months straight!!.... how can i possibly raise my children?? Right now, i am stacking cash and saving for my unborn kids. I cannot be a husband and father in absentia!! Right now, what suits my lifestyle is a good girlfriend!!... I dont need any advise that is outside the question i asked!!! Is it too much to ask for?? Do not offer me advise on moral grounds. I am only trying to find how to cope in a sexless relationship and possibly get to meet other people going through same! 5 Likes |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Olagbenga95(m): 3:16am On Jul 21, 2015 |
came to read comments like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by AgbenuAnna(f): 3:20am On Jul 21, 2015 |
it would not be easy but my advice,do things that made u fall in love,be determined to make it work and let her know what exactly is going on in your mind,#do things that will keep her in your mind # 1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by MRBrownJ: 3:47am On Jul 21, 2015 |
@magicminister why do you stay in a r/ship where you are miserable? i dont get it... the minute this lady told you that there will be no sex before marriage (while sex is important to you) then you should have bounced out of this unfulfilling r/ship. there can be no excitement here since you are obviously lacking. she brught a carrot out and has you running after it in vain like a donkey excuse my french). you are now going as low as bringing BS issues to this issue, lol... (what does going the extra mile got to do with sex?) there will always be frictions and frustration in your union because your AIMS are different. the only way to make it without sex is by keep on being miserable, and dreaming of her cootie cat. there are many ways to ease your sorry situation but you have to be with an open minded lady (who cares fo you) for that... example: hand-j0b, bl0w-job, tit job, foot job and even an.al imagine if after marriage you realise that this lady is a frigid wood plank in bed, KAI! |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Nobody: 4:10am On Jul 21, 2015 |
magicminister: You're just a thieving nigga, Marry the girl or get used to Vaseline 1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by udemzyudex(m): 6:11am On Jul 21, 2015 |
magicminister: Stay away from relationship till you're ready for intimacy |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by TheresaPete(f): 6:35am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Relationships are not all about sex. I want you to know that. Just think about valuable she is to you. The world we are now are making the bad things look good in the site of men. Do not please the flesh. Be yourself and be the best friend she's ever had and things will work out fine. Check out my blog on relationship matters, Teresasam's bloga 1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by valyzubxx(m): 8:30am On Jul 21, 2015 |
TheresaPete:[/s] If you want a r/ship without intimacy then you shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place... How can you be suffering and smiling?  1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by ivyT(f): 9:37am On Jul 21, 2015 |
valyzubxx: I wonder o,or he shld find sum1else |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by ivyT(f): 9:42am On Jul 21, 2015 |
magicminister: U'll definitely want it at 1 point,so if u can't cope_get a new gf who wants 'it'.unless u wan look outside #LoveIsInTheAir 1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by robosky02(m): 10:28am On Jul 21, 2015 |
ivyT: and what do you do at that point to keep it clean and safe |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Nobody: 10:49am On Jul 21, 2015 |
Op, Is she a virgin? |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 12:42pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
tunnamania11:So she said |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
magicminister:I hope this helps https://www.nairaland.com/2463868/when-she-says-she-virgin |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by iwatchandlisten(m): 2:47pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
bros marry her na? abi you just wanna be chewing her oshofree in the name of modernity? I am sure you would have been telling "i love you, I love you", is that not enough to marry her...Just take a look at the 10 Commandments in EXodus chapter 20, you will find God saying to you, "Thou shall not commit fornication". If you dont understand take up your dictionary it explain what fornication means. FEAr God and be wise. "The fear of the LORD is the begining of wisdom". If you are bent on sex outside wedlock, why not let her be and find people like you...there are many girl who will buy the market you're selling. But remember, Repent ye, for the kingdom of God is at hand... |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Stoja: 2:52pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Do you doubt the strength of your relationship? Do you believe it would last as long as you hope? Sometimes you might be unclear on whether or not your union will stand the test of time, but these signs below should give you a pretty good idea. 1. You Communicate: All couples that have been together for long will attest to the fact that the number one sign of a good relationship is communication between both partners. When you talk about everything, big or small, you are sure that you are both on the same page, and you find it easier to resolve all issues. 2. You Fight Fair: All couples have disagreements, but to keep your relationship strong, you should make sure you fight fair. Instead of attacking each other and hurling insults, you should politely express why you are are upset and come together to a compromise. 3. You Laugh Together: Being able to hang out and laugh with the one you love is a very good sign. It shows that you are not just lovers, you are also good friends. Friendship is a great foundation for all relationship and if you both enjoy a good time, you know you are going strong. 4. You Support Each Other: Being together as a couple means you both have to be there for and support one another. You listen to each other’s dreams and ambition and make sure you be each other’s Number One fan in the world. It would certainly keep you bound for life. 5. You Trust Each Other: Like they say, Trust is earned. And if a finally get to the point where they absolutely trust their partners, then they would surely be together forever. 6. You Share Intimacy: And not just the sexual kind. You find a way to make sure you bond emotionally and physically. Your partner should be the only one that knows you through and through. http://getlistednigeria.com/?p=31972 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 3:08pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
iwatchandlisten:I didnt come here for your moral advise. You should he able to figure out from my post that I am willing to let the relationship remain sex free and im only here seeking advise on how to spice things up without sex.... |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by BANGERLEE1(m): 3:15pm On Jul 21, 2015 |
Brb |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
magicminister: You cannot possibly be serious. Why are you here trolling innocent people? You just love to be at the receiving end of opinions? You want spot light right? *Clears throat* Ahem! Peeps in case you dont understand whats going on, this guy is just trolling you. He is a popular prostitute patronizer and his exploits are well documented at the ashawo thread in the sexuality section. He sexz prostitutes every day so whats up with coming here to form 'my girl friend denies me sex?' He is notorious and also posts pics of his escapades. Just visit their dungeon thread and you will find out. If semen is measured in litres, this guy discharges 7 tankers of semen in a year with prostitutes. He discharges and sprays semen every where like father christmas. Tap with no control. He even claimed to have slept with one nairalander by name call***spice*** and believe me this claim was verified as real! His former username is icedbeatz. I can see he is advertising himself here as a young rich bachelor. Single girls beware! Fall for this trick at your own risk. You had better not take him serious. He is only trolling. He is oversexed! DON'T FEED THE TROLL!!! 1 Like |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by ghuzy01: 7:33pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Newcreature07:Whoever u re , u no well o, u just dey beef d guy.and I no say na guy u be u just dey use female moniker to decieve.mtchew |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by magicminister: 11:33pm On Jul 22, 2015 |
Newcreature07: Take it easy lest you die of hypertension. |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
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| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
magicminister: What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his own soul. Tell me Mr Magicminister. What exactly have you against the gospel? You hate to hear it or read it. What is your faith? What do you believe in? I guess I have read it somewhere that you are a christain and believe in spiritual things. Am I wrong? What is your idea about God, Sin, Hell, afterlife and Rapture? I would really love to hear or read your opinion on these. I want to understand you. |
| Re: HOW DO I STAY IN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT INTIMACY??? by SenJoe(m): 2:53pm On Jul 23, 2015 |
Must every relationship before marriage indulges in sex? Grow up Mr Magic. |
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