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My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by folajoseph(m): 9:28am On Jul 21, 2015
https://www.nairaland.com/2359015/dilemma-can-find-love-again

For all those who remember the topic with the above link, this is the part 2 of it, I want to thank you guys for reading my story, making comments and your prayers.

I want to use this medium to tell u guys that this incident happened almost 5 years ago and the kids are going to be 4 this month. Immediately after their birth I did a DNA test in 2 hospitals to be sure if I'm truly their father and the answer was in the affirmative.

(Story contn'd)

I was 25 years old then and the only person I could think of marrying was my x girlfriend (the Igbo lady) at the time she was the only one I could share my life with besides whenever she breaks up with me or whenever we make up, I sometimes want to date someone else but I find it impossible because I'm a one woman man.

So the last time we broke up I knew it was finally over so I decided to have a couple of drinks alone after work in a place not far from my house, so that was where someone introduced my clepto baby mama to me.

Story continues shortly, I'm at work....
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by shalomm: 9:28am On Jul 21, 2015
continue
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by folajoseph(m): 9:31am On Jul 21, 2015
shalomm:
continue
I will, please give me a few more minutes
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by Nobody: 9:50am On Jul 21, 2015
M waitin
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by folajoseph(m): 11:43am On Jul 21, 2015
So while drinking I was thinking of all the good times we had together and it made me want to drink more because our relationship is finally over, I felt some kind of peace and disappointment at the same time.

I felt peace because she has been tormenting me with breakups for 4 years and I wanted out even though I Loved her.

I felt disappointed because I had wasted 4 years of my life with someone and I did not know where to go from there and me being a shy guy and all I didn't know how to go about finding another lady for a relationship so I drank a lot that night so a neighbor came to the bar where I was hanging out with her female friend and when she saw me she said Hi and introduced her friend, she came to meet her boyfriend and she left her friend on my table, so we got talking.

One thing led to the other and we decided to get a room where we slept together overnight and 2 or 3 times after then but later I didn't want to have anything to do with her again because of the hurt I still felt inside due to my breakup so I stopped picking her calls so unknown to me she was pregnant and I had travelled out of the country.

So when I came back I just received a call from her mum saying she's pregnant, I was like what!!! And the mum was just too annoying with her approach so I listened to her till she cut the call then I called back hours later to fix a meeting.

We met discussed the whole thing and i told them I will take care of the children but I can't marry the girl cos I don't Love her and I can't be trapped in such relationship for a lifetime (who does that)

Their mum after few months of delivering the kids started sleeping with different men, stealing from her workplace and disgracing herself everywhere so I banned her from seeing her kids for like 2 years, I gave her permission to go check her kids few months ago and guess what! She has not changed, so I think I don't want her around my kids, I know she's their mother but she's a bad influence on them as well.

By Gods grace today the kids live with their grand parents (my parents) and they attend one of the best schools in Lagos even at their Level, I'm still single and searching but I'm not desperate, just trusting the Lord for the right woman.
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by Nobody: 4:58pm On Aug 03, 2015
IT IS WELL BROTHER
Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by misspicy(f): 5:13pm On Aug 03, 2015
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Re: My Dilemma-can I Find Love Again Pt.2 by Ariaa: 4:52pm On Feb 15, 2018
Wow, quite an intriguing story. I know this is 2018 but did you eventually find the right woman you were looking for or you ended up being with the mother of your kids after all. Your story got me hooked, such is life though.

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