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14 Signs Your Spouse Maybe Cheating ( A MUST READ) by SexySilifa(f): 1:04pm On Jul 24, 2015
You’ve suspected for days, maybe weeks. Something is wrong or off between you and your spouse, and you’re beginning to wonder if maybe they might be…. NO! That’s not possible. Other people have affairs, not you two; what you have is special. Then again there was that thing last week, and when you brought it up, your spouse twisted it around as if YOU were the one with the jealousy issue! “You’re just being paranoid–you’re crazy for thinking like that!” they said. Still there’s that nagging doubt in your mind.

Here are some of the signs of a spouse that may be cheating. These behaviors are only indicators of a cheating spouse and are not absolutes! If your spouse has one or two of these behaviors, and there is a legitimate reason and a mutual agreement (such as you two talk about it and agree to try to lose weight…and they’ve gone a little obsessive about it), these signs do NOT prove infidelity. But when you observe several, or maybe MOST, of these behaviors, your marriage may be in trouble! Again, let me reiterate that these behaviors are only indicators of an affair.
The Classic Clue:
When you see lipstick on your husband’s shirt or strange hairs on their clothing or in the car.
Sign 1–Gut Instinct:
The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.
Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
You find intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that are gifts for someone else and have not been given to you.
Sign 2–Behavior That Is Not Their Usual Character:
When your partner shows up without their wedding ring or suddenly stops wearing it and makes lame excuses as to why. This also goes for jewelry you might have purchased for them and you catch them not wearing it when they go out when usually they wear it at all time.
When they break their established routine at work and home for no apparent or logical reason; erratic behavior.
When your mate becomes suddenly forgetful and you have to tell him/her everything several times; their thoughts are obviously elsewhere.
When they appears distant, show a lack of interest, or develop an unexplained aloofness that wasn’t there before.
When their behavior just doesn’t add up.
When your wife sleeps with her purse by the bed, or your husband sneaks out of the house.
When your spouse suddenly starts completely ignoring you and not listening to what you are saying -OR- when they suddenly begin to treat you extremely nicely…more so than usual.
When they encourage you to have a social life and go places out of town, and it seems like they’re trying to get you “out of the house.”
When your husband or wife begins to intentionally look at or flirt with the opposite sex when in the past, this is something they would not have done.
Sign 3–Birth Control:
When you find birth-control pills in the medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy -OR-
When you find condoms in the car or in his pockets, and you are on the pill.
Sign 4–Showering/Cologne:
When he or she leaves the house in the morning smelling like their usual fragrance and returns in the evening smelling like something else.
When they arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath, and they work an office job.
When your spouse’s clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave used by the opposite sex
When he or she has worn the same fragrance for years, and suddenly they are wearing something new and wearing MUCH more than usual.
Sign 5–Uncomfortable Around You:
When your mutual friends start acting strangely toward you, because they either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible spouse you are.
When your spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence, because either they know about the afair or have heard horror stories to justify it.
When your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
When your spouse avoids social events with you, as if they want to cover up that they are with you.
Sign 6–Electronic Clues:
Email clues~
When your spouse sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
When your spouse spends all their time on the email, checking their email, or fooling with email somehow.
When your husband or wife suddenly deletes all emails from the email account (and it’s not just a clean up) and in the past they used to let them accumulate.

READ MORE HERE>>>> http://www.silifa.com/2015/07/14-signs-your-spouse-maybe-cheating.html[b][/b]

Re: 14 Signs Your Spouse Maybe Cheating ( A MUST READ) by sinaj(f): 1:06pm On Jul 24, 2015
Agat a thing for niggaz cool


not with my eyeglass cry

someone should summarise it for me...
Re: 14 Signs Your Spouse Maybe Cheating ( A MUST READ) by Nobody: 1:12pm On Jul 24, 2015
There may be many more and this much may be untrue. But you've done just fine.

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Re: 14 Signs Your Spouse Maybe Cheating ( A MUST READ) by SexySilifa(f): 1:12pm On Jul 24, 2015
SexySilifa:
You’ve suspected for days, maybe weeks. Something is wrong or off between you and your spouse, and you’re beginning to wonder if maybe they might be…. NO! That’s not possible. Other people have affairs, not you two; what you have is special. Then again there was that thing last week, and when you brought it up, your spouse twisted it around as if YOU were the one with the jealousy issue! “You’re just being paranoid–you’re crazy for thinking like that!” they said. Still there’s that nagging doubt in your mind.

Here are some of the signs of a spouse that may be cheating. These behaviors are only indicators of a cheating spouse and are not absolutes! If your spouse has one or two of these behaviors, and there is a legitimate reason and a mutual agreement (such as you two talk about it and agree to try to lose weight…and they’ve gone a little obsessive about it), these signs do NOT prove infidelity. But when you observe several, or maybe MOST, of these behaviors, your marriage may be in trouble! Again, let me reiterate that these behaviors are only indicators of an affair.
The Classic Clue:
When you see lipstick on your husband’s shirt or strange hairs on their clothing or in the car.
Sign 1–Gut Instinct:
The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.
Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.
You find intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that are gifts for someone else and have not been given to you.
Sign 2–Behavior That Is Not Their Usual Character:
When your partner shows up without their wedding ring or suddenly stops wearing it and makes lame excuses as to why. This also goes for jewelry you might have purchased for them and you catch them not wearing it when they go out when usually they wear it at all time.
When they break their established routine at work and home for no apparent or logical reason; erratic behavior.
When your mate becomes suddenly forgetful and you have to tell him/her everything several times; their thoughts are obviously elsewhere.
When they appears distant, show a lack of interest, or develop an unexplained aloofness that wasn’t there before.
When their behavior just doesn’t add up.
When your wife sleeps with her purse by the bed, or your husband sneaks out of the house.
When your spouse suddenly starts completely ignoring you and not listening to what you are saying -OR- when they suddenly begin to treat you extremely nicely…more so than usual.
When they encourage you to have a social life and go places out of town, and it seems like they’re trying to get you “out of the house.”
When your husband or wife begins to intentionally look at or flirt with the opposite sex when in the past, this is something they would not have done.
Sign 3–Birth Control:
When you find birth-control pills in the medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy -OR-
When you find condoms in the car or in his pockets, and you are on the pill.
Sign 4–Showering/Cologne:
When he or she leaves the house in the morning smelling like their usual fragrance and returns in the evening smelling like something else.
When they arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath, and they work an office job.
When your spouse’s clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave used by the opposite sex
When he or she has worn the same fragrance for years, and suddenly they are wearing something new and wearing MUCH more than usual.
Sign 5–Uncomfortable Around You:
When your mutual friends start acting strangely toward you, because they either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible spouse you are.
When your spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence, because either they know about the afair or have heard horror stories to justify it.
When your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.
When your spouse avoids social events with you, as if they want to cover up that they are with you.
Sign 6–Electronic Clues:
Email clues~
When your spouse sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
When your spouse spends all their time on the email, checking their email, or fooling with email somehow.
When your husband or wife suddenly deletes all emails from the email account (and it’s not just a clean up) and in the past they used to let them accumulate.

READ MORE HERE>>>> http://www.silifa.com/2015/07/14-signs-your-spouse-maybe-cheating.html[b][/b]
Re: 14 Signs Your Spouse Maybe Cheating ( A MUST READ) by donholy28(m): 1:27pm On Jul 24, 2015
Op wan turn married people to CIA or sss...make una start investigation

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