Is he playing pranks on me or am I just wasting my time with him. Does he have a sidechick? Apologies for my too many questions. I'm totally confused. I have been engaged to my man for over two years yet he is not ready to settle down. So why did he propose to me? I've been dating him for six years now. He is financially stable, he works in a telecommunication company while I also work in an indigenous company. He proposed to me over two years ago and when he did I thought wedding bells would ring like six months later but there was nothing like that. After waiting for a year, I discussed the issue with him, he said I should give him more time, and that has always been his response. We had a serious argument over the same issue two weeks ago and his response shocked me. He said I can find myself another man if I can't be patient with him any longer. I was annoyed and sad, though he later apologized for making such comments. I asked him frankly his plans for me, he said he is working on some things-which he refused to reveal to me- that we will get married when he is done. Am not getting any younger, I will be thirty years old this November. Should I drop him and move on with my life before its too late? After all I have other suitors!!


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Is he playing pranks on me or am I just wasting my time with him. Does he have a sidechick?

Apologies for my too many questions. I'm totally confused. I have been engaged to my man for over two years yet he is not ready to settle down. So why did he propose to me? I've been dating him for six years now. He is financially stable, he works in a telecommunication company while I also work in an indigenous company. He proposed to me over two years ago and when he did I thought wedding bells would ring like six months later but there was nothing like that.


After waiting for a year, I discussed the issue with him, he said I should give him more time, and that has always been his response.

We had a serious argument over the same issue two weeks ago and his response shocked me. He said I can find myself another man if I can't be patient with him any longer. I was annoyed and sad, though he later apologized for making such comments. I asked him frankly his plans for me, he said he is working on some things-which he refused to reveal to me- that we will get married when he is done. Am not getting any younger, I will be thirty years old this November. Should I drop him and move on with my life before its too late? After all I have other suitors!!


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See how easier your story is to read if you add paragraphs?

You dated d guy for six years, u r now 30 and desperate to settle down, what hapnd d six years b4 dat six years, Mr. Right abi

If u hv other suitors den say yes to any of them

Sorry Op I understand your pain.

But my concern about all this "should I drop him and just move on" is so who do you expect to wife the remaining you.

You said you've bn with him for 6yrs, I am sure you cant count the number of times you have bleeped each other.

More than the times "OUR MOTHERS" were bleeped after having us as children.

Please stay with him, don't leave him for anoda person, please pity us.

He has enjoyed the yoke, he should have it all for life.

Abeegii pity us

Make I book space first incase u make fp den I ll cum bck to comment

Intrepid01:
Sorry Op I understand your pain.

But my concern about all this "should I drop him and just move on" is so who do you expect to wife the remaining you.

You said you've bn with him for 6yrs, I am sure you cant count the number of times you have bleeped each other.

More than the times "OUR MOTHERS" were bleeped after having us as children.

Please stay with him, don't leave him for anoda person, please pity us.

He has enjoyed the yoke, he should have it all for life.

Abeegii pity us

Lmao!!! Op he's trying to build an empire for you both to live in..

It’s easy to spot a confirmed bachelor. He’s so used to living alone that he will list the pleasures of the solo life-coming and going as he pleases, not answering to anyone-as reasons for not marrying. But there’s still hope. To me, it’s easier spotting a bachelor for life than a pseudo-bachelor. Pseudo-bachelors are very sneaky and dangerous. This is one of the most common form of relationships women find themselves.
Who or what is a pseudo-bachelor? If you’re dating a man who has had one or more long-term relationships with other women and didn’t marry them, there’s a real possibility he’s a pseudo-bachelor or ‘hope bearer’. He likes having a woman, sleeping with a woman, eating with a woman, possibly sharing his life with a woman without ever making a real commitment. He often tells women, up front, he never intends to marry, so if and when he decides he wants to cut out, she has no reason to complain. However, depending on some variables, he may not tell you upfront, for example, if he considers you hot and sexy, rich and sociable…the fear of losing you too early will permeate through him.
If you think you may be involved with such a man, establish a deadline. If he doesn’t understand that, you haven’t done your job. Don’t think his affirmative response to such a declaration is a precursor to his making a commitment. He has a long list of many women along, and he may try it with you. If after six months you don’t have a firm commitment, leave.
These guys can be very dangerous. I estimate each one of them is responsible for at least 2-3 women remaining single. They are destructive because they lure women into wasting their time during the years when they are most attractive and most likely to get a proposal. They stay with women, live with women, promise them marriage, and string them on and on indefinitely…apart from different religious and personal beliefs that may set it.
Be wise, so says the sage.

For more details: https://www.nairaland.com/1894608/why-men-marry-some-women

Hmmmmm!!!!! What can i say?

Would you crucify me if i tell you to expect a heart break ahead.....

He is financially OK. What is stopping him? Maybe he has put someone in a family way and is trying to figure out to deal with the messs......

I guess he loves you but there's clearly something he was not telling you.or something he is reluctant to tell you.

Please do not kill yourself if you wake up one morning and he tells you there is someone else...

I am not a prophet of doom but the earlier you start pitching your tent on another fertile soil, the better for you.