I dialed my mother's number on my wife's phone and found out she saved it as 'old witch". Granted my mother has her attitude but is it fair to save her name like that? I am thinking of creating a storm because I am really upset.

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/07/dear-lib-readers-my-wife-saved-my-mums.html

lalasticlala ishilove

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Hmmmmm

lol..this pple ehn

v

maybe she also stored urs as NEW MAGA

hehehrhehe lobatan!

sure - lere *caro*
op beta dial ur number

Yay!....I smell Gobe!!!!

Simple, save same name for her mum

Did you say WIFE?

And you never terminate her Contract?

tuffgongjo:
And you never terminate her Contract?

I wonder o, that is a red card offence.

D poster above me, thinks marriage is as simple as in relationship were u can easily dump ur girlfriend or boyfriend at any point in time....Op' but ur wife no try at all

Maybe she feel s that way Instead

izaray:
D poster above me, thinks marriage is as simple as in relationship were u can easily dump ur girlfriend or boyfriend at any point in time

Maybe she feels that way Instead of attacking her y not look for the root of the conflict between your wife and your mother and resolve it.u said your mother is not the easiest person so maybe u have been sweeping some of yr wifes complaints under d rug without looking into it.just talk to your wife

@OP Don't touch dat innocent woman..she has da right to save contacts anyhw she likes..its her fvcking phone

Very simple. Re-save the number for her (she'll surely notice the change) and discuss ur discomfort with her much later when u are calm.

No need to start a storm.

Surulere2:
I dialed my mother's number on my wife's phone and found out she saved it as 'old witch". Granted my mother has her attitude but is it fair to save her name like that? I am thinking of creating a storm because I am really upset.

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/07/dear-lib-readers-my-wife-saved-my-mums.html

lalasticlala ishilove

Divorce her

Surulere,

First of all, I am not happy that you feel your mother has her issues. You are not perfect nor your wife not to talk of your mother. To call your mother "old Witch" is the peak of it all. You are where you are today due to some contribution from your mother. She could have aborted you before nine months yet she didn't because I am sure she loves you. Your wife now calling her "old witch" but calling her own mother Mummy means she is only interested in you and not your family.

Please I won't advise you to declare 3rd World War with her but try and make your wife understand that you are not happy with that. I must advise you to treat your mother with respect before your wife. Let it not be that you gave your wife the audacity to insult your biological mother.
I love my Mummy, wife or no wife. I respect my mother as my Mother and my wife as my Wife. I hope you do same.

Durent:

Funny right? Marriage is not a contract, its an institution wer u get d certificate b4 enrolling on d studies, so wat dat lady did, is one of d difficult courses u must try to read hard and understand inorder to enable u clear ur papers

But women can be so annoying ehn, forgetting d fact dat, she will also became a mother some day, if she is not 1 already even.. Abeg hit ur likes if i just made some little sense..make i take enjoyed my wkend jor

I bet the person is more likely to be yoruba.
No, don't get me wrong cos am fully YORUBA myself.


Yoruba Wives and Mother-in-laws are always at par & this, is probably due to the possessive nature of many yoruba Moms and defensive nature of Yoruba wives. Till my Grandma(paternal)ALMOST died, my mom hated her & she hated Mom. Same goes for people around that i know.

What you can do - that dad did is : Tell your Family members including your mother-- yes, mother to always respect your wife's choice(s) heck!! As soon as i my wife says YES & I kissed her, MY MUM'S JOB IS DONE. SHE SHOULD FVCKING LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE & NEVER INTRUDE OR VISIT UNLESS INVITED. except, that, Am sorry, till your mum dies, they will be enemies

in essence, SIDE WITH YOUR WIFE even if wrong(she CANNOT BE 100% WRONG)

@Izaray, You made sense jawe.

Your name here says Surulere, you need all the patience you can get at this period.
You need to take your wife on vacation(anywhere outside home) and then calmly confront her with the case.
Make her reason with you as she is only being childish.
Please do not share this info with any family member not even a mutual friend of the extended family.
In the interim reduce interaction between your mum and your wife.
Everything will be fine.

You must be a sincere person with your comment. I am yoruba also and can relate with what you are saying.
Our mums are important and dear to us but they should not come between us and our happiness in marriage.
As men we need to protect out spouses from interferences from our mums.
Our Mums in a bid to over-protect us from a perceived bad wife go off board in harassing their daughter-in-law.
When women interact too closely they are liable to envy each other. Of course NOT all yoruba mums have this issue.

Dekatron:
I bet the person is more likely to be yoruba.
No, don't get me wrong cos am fully YORUBA myself.


Yoruba Wives and Mother-in-laws are always at par & this, is probably due to the possessive nature of many yoruba Moms and defensive nature of Yoruba wives. Till my Grandma(paternal)ALMOST died, my mom hated her & she hated Mom. Same goes for people around that i know.

What you can do - that dad did is : Tell your Family members including your mother-- yes, mother to always respect your wife's choice(s) heck!! As soon as i my wife says YES & I kissed her, MY MUM'S JOB IS DONE. SHE SHOULD FVCKING LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE & NEVER INTRUDE OR VISIT UNLESS INVITED. except, that, Am sorry, till your mum dies, they will be enemies

in essence, SIDE WITH YOUR WIFE even if wrong(she CANNOT BE 100% WRONG)

Save her own mummy's number with 'oldest witch' on your own phone and give her to help you dial her mum's number. Am sure she will see it and be shocked, check out her reaction some women are just simply nut

Ishilove lalasticlala

Give me your wifes number,let me give her sum advice

Lolz

No matter whats btw ur mother and ur wife, it does not justify her saving ur mums number like dat. 2 wrongs does not make a right, do not save her mothers number like dat, instead call and sit her down.