I’m a married woman of 35 years of age; I have a loving and faithful husband. He is five years older than me and he is a big businessman with branches outside the shore of this country. I met my man in one of my friends’ party we got attracted to each other and started a relationship. He told me from the onset that his intention is marry me as he is not interested in any “fling” relationship. I was so happy that I have finally met my dream husband. But three years into the marriage we are yet to be blessed with the fruit of the womb and I know I’m the cause of his childlessness considering the wayward life I lived during my university days. I will be as brief as I can; it all started when one of my friends, introduced me to one of her men friend, and we started dating. He showered me with gifts and cash. Along the line I got pregnant for him and he told me frankly that I must abort the pregnancy which I rejected but after much pressure from him and my friend I agreed to their wish. As if that was the licence key, I took my prostitution to another level, I dated different men, got pregnant, aborted them (after all I couldn’t really know who was responsible for them). It was during my sixth abortion that the doctor told me that it will take only a miracle to get pregnant again. Now I’m married, no issue. I always block the idea of going for medical check-up any time my husband brings it up. Friends and family have also recommended different doctors and gynaecologist but I always assure my husband that God’s time is the best. I’m really scared now; will my past not expose me one day?


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Hmmm

Carry your cross.

6 abortions, its too much.just tell your husband everything, and as God for forgiveness there is nothing he can't do.

Wow @ 6 abortions. Nuff said.

NNE, u aren't the only one with this past. There r lots of other women caught up in this past. It's always best to be honest with ur partner concerning fertility issues.

Who knows, if u had, he would come up a solution to the issue on ground and even protect you from his people if need be.

6 abortions . Well can't judge tho.

Go and see a gynaecologist first. You can't just sit at home and say"God's time is the best" Hear from other specialists too and see if your case has remedy ...

Lessons to other women, the men don't go through abortion trauma and pains. It's the ladies that suffers it. Be wise!!

BellaSwan:
NNE, u aren't the only one with this past. There r lots of other women caught up in this past. It's always best to be honest with ur partner concerning fertility issues.

Who knows, if u had, he would come up a solution to the issue on ground and even protect you from his people if need be.

Good advice, but man, she needs to go easy on that number. Maybe minus 4 or 5. It's very easy to be judgmental when someone has been irresponsible that many times. Dare I say, it's disgusting. If I was a man I'd be appalled to hear my wife has had that many terminations

U been don chop life o now na time for life to chop u..

I pity that innocent man wey go acquire porn star for a wife ...

6 abortions? Mi o ti e le pa enu de sha!!!. Aye ma buru ju lion lo

at this point in time, whether you are infertile due to your reckless past (or else) is irrelevant... that man must be stressed out of his mind because of this issue, so i suggest that you "at least" finally tell him that you are barren so that he understands the issue at hand and stop hoping/dreaming/stressing for nothing.

I pity your husband and not you. You deserve what has befallen you.

Karma is a biatch mehnnnn

6 abortions
holy cow

that much abortion,just great! well the truth will always prevail.I wish you luck for when he finds out

Some women sha...

HornyAnnabelle:
6 abortions holy cow

hello anabell

princealexndre:
hello anabell

hey princealexndre

this serves as a lesson to all ladies,wen u be dey do d fucking,i be no dey for d center o,y kill an innocent child,u have done more than 6 abortions and naw u are looking for a child,i am so sorry for u just pray to God that he will just give u d fruit of d womb. SAY NO TO ABORTION.

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

by d wayu just 3yrs into marriage nd u already complaing, tut its 10 sef

just send me a text on dis no. then i wil tell you what to do but before then which church do you go to. my no. na 09090750807