7 Unspoken Needs Ladies Yearn For In Their Guys

There are some things that no matter what you write, say or do, just can't change; one of them is the needs most Ladies expects to see in their men. The rest are temporary and short lived.

Her needs are some times ridiculous and a bitter pill to swallow for some guys; but, understanding those needs and meeting them is gonna reduce stress and avoid issues.

The truth is, women are 'kinda' powerful in a certain way; by that I mean, positive or negative owing to the depth of your knowledge about their imperceptible and consequential needs.

Below are some of those salient needs she might not want to lecture you about but wish you know;

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1. Care

'Care' here could mean calling or being there when needed. The reason most guys don't graduate from being "zoned" to be "owned" is because they fail this test year in, year out. Try and be Caring. Don't be stingy to even the girl you claim to love. You mustn't sleep with a girl to pay her fare. Hian!


2. Understanding

Being understanding is knowing what she needs and without being told taking steps to meeting 'em. This is often difficult because of our "busy schedule" as we claim. An understanding guy plans ahead to pleasing her, studies her and want to always make her happy and comfortable. There are times she needs to hang out with other friends or even her family because she "needs a break". Allow her! It's not easy to play her role.


3. Apologize even when she's wrong?

Ok! Not every need must be met ALL THE TIME. I'm including this but I won't always do it. She will not expect it either...when I give it, it will be a surprise to her. I like surprises and so she does.


4. Never to tell her the "truth" when she needs a lie

Most ladies don't like hearing the truth because of their nature- "gullible", I must confess. For peace to reign, I'ld advice every guy obey this rule. Make compromises for her. Flattery might not be the exact Truth but it's what she needs. Give it cheerfully.


5. Be a good listener and be attentive too

The reason most ladies are unfaithful is because the guys are not giving them enough listening ear so they look out for "greener pastures". If you have to fake listening to her, go ahead THE LIFE OF A LADY IS TIED AROUND ATTENTION! In NL, which gender wants to be FTC? (They're already manifesting their skills) Females. Which often say, I'm the most beautiful? She. I'm not saying...They thrive on attention. I call them, "Attention Seeking Spirits" (_-_). Therefore, give it to them



6. Take her out more often.

Don't think she is an indoor girl. Take her out. Sometimes, to uncommon places like Mama Adijat "Restorant"

Most times, alot of these girls aren't exposed as you mistake them to be. They're just fine for sitting at home all day forming Cinderella on their tecno torch lite

7. Give her full access to your ATM

If I catch myself say I didn't mention this enh... This is by far the easiest way to steal her heart sef. Just give her full and equal access to your LOADED ATM cards and she'll love you forever
My ATM card is missing sha


In conclusion, this varies with ladies so you had better find out the one which concerns your bae so as to make her happy and you too can be happy.

I nor say some guys go dey form King Kong... Well, ride on! "When I was a child..."

Very true.

I like the ATM own

Number 4 is very crucial if you want a lasting relationship.
I often scoff when I hear ladies talk about wanting a honest man.
Sure I'd tell you the cold truth if I don't give a fvck about how you feel even if it hurts.
Too bad a hoe would take a sh*t load of crap from her tall , rich and handsome b.f.
A main chick always knows the side chick while the side chick knows who the next chick is.
It's a doggy doggy world and ain't nothing a legion of feminists can't do about it.

Number 3 makes you look like a wussy tho'.

ladyF:
Very true.

I like the ATM own

I doubt you've read it...

Number 1 is very true.

Give ha ur ATm? Op do u really mean dat? Ha fada neva trust ha wit hin ATm na me go con fal victim abi sorry i cant

Number 7 tho

Off topic... three females don run say very true... why e no go true


Topic...
I don't want to agree with you with that understanding them. You can't understand a lady because she doesn't understand herself too.
Imagine her crying and you'll ask her why, she'll say nothing because she doesn't know whether she's happy or sad.
What I'm trying to say is understand the situation on ground and not understand the lady. She can swing mood at any time. What makes her happy today might make her moody tomorrow.
Even the Bible doesn't advice us to understand them but to understand this situation attached to them in love!


I love ladies thou...

Comes into thread sees "giv her full access to atm"





*faints*

ladyF:
Very true.
I like the ATM own

U again
Wel u forgot ur usual style....d blue bolded LadyF logo

Gurgle:
Number 7 tho

U wuld lov to b given one ryt....atm

DharmyYinks:


U wuld lov to b given one ryt....atm

lol can you imagine

make I just coolly withdraw that money and disappear into town this night...HM!

would just go and eat myself to death

why, you wan dash me

adebayo201:
Off topic... three females don run say very true... why e no go true


Topic...
I don't want to agree with you with that understanding them. You can't understand a lady because she doesn't understand herself too.
Imagine her crying and you'll ask her why, she'll say nothing because she doesn't know whether she's happy or sad.
What I'm trying to say is understand the situation on ground and not understand the lady. She can swing mood at any time. What makes her happy today might make her moody tomorrow.
Even the Bible doesn't advice us to understand them but to understand this situation attached to them in love!


I love ladies thou...

Can you quote that part ASAP?

understanding is necessary. All those, "you can't understand a lady" are scams! You can understand a sincere one, maybe not a hoe...but a honest one, you can. Happy New Month

Number 3 N 7 though, I can give my babe ATM card, but not the main acct

Number 7 will only happen if the ATM card is expired or blocked.

Deejavuu:
Number is very true.

Number what?

BTW, why did you do that?

Brandnew2:
Number 7 will only happen if the ATM card is expired or blocked.

As in enh...

emusmith:

As in enh...

Na so my brother.

emusmith:


Can you quote that part ASAP?

understanding is necessary. All those, "you can't understand a lady" are scams! You can understand a sincere one, maybe not a hoe...but a honest one, you can. Happy New Month

check these Eph 5:22; Col 3:18..
Yes, understanding is necessary. In short after love is understanding!
Honest or not honest isn't what I'm saying here. It's about their state of mind... Ask a lady if she truly understand herself and see the reply. Especially when it comes to mood swinging!
A minute they're happy with you, in another minute they're sad. For what? They do know.

Women are just too complex of a being. That you want to understand them then you'll have to be Methuselah of our time.

Happy New month too!

Gurgle:


lol can you imagine

make I just coolly withdraw that money and disappear into town this night...HM!

would just go and eat myself to death

why, you wan dash me

Api New Month


Eat ursef to death cos its free



Wuld ve dashed u if only I knew wer I kept it

.

DharmyYinks:

Api New Month


Eat ursef to death cos its free



Wuld ve dashed u if only I knew wer I kept it

thanks, happy new month to you too

Of course

don't worry, give me your card I go locate am sharp sharp

Gurgle:


thanks, happy new month to you too

Of course

don't worry, give me your card I go locate am sharp sharp

Lol

D village witches don tak am

DharmyYinks:

Lol

D village witches don tak am

Ehen

make I go fight them

or don't you know my reputation as a night crawler

Gurgle:

Ehen
make I go fight them
or don't you know my reputation as a night crawler

Shuo!

I dey fear oo

DharmyYinks:


Shuo!


I dey fear oo

emusmith:


I doubt you've read it...

Emusmith, number three is very wrong o, how can you apologize to someone that is at fault? I dey craze?


Make I talk my mind sef.

Women are the most greedy being on earth .

You have me ,take my energy and care but you still want my attention all the time .....haba! Maybe you need to employ me, lemme take it as a job then.

Do you know my number one philosophy in life,
No woman shall ever have direct access to my personal account atm, even my mum. (mummy am sorry).
Take her out MORE often , you want me to accumulate the salary of one of mister biggs staff monthly? When I develop that as a habit and fail to fall through she will announce her break up plans. It's only naija love that is one sided, me the things I want in a lady don't cost a dime, like
I will give everything to have a girlfriend that will play play station with me, go watch football with me,and give me my free space when I need it,

I really like the idea of taking her out especially to some uncommon places. Most fine ladies have not really visited some of the nice spots in lagos. in may, I took a lady out to shoprite, lekki and she confessed it was her first time. Smh but it was d fact

Ok, we have heard...
What if the LADY in question is USELESS... in terms of common sense...?