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| 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 10:40pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
About 75% of divorces stem from cheating, either from the woman or the man. Men have been accused more of cheating than women, but you will be surprised to know even women cheat more these days and here are the reasons why. 1. Complacency When you were together before marriage, you were probably miles apart and so seeing each other always appears fresh, but now you’re married and you wake up in each others faces. You always see each other and so couples don’t mind or pay attention to what the other does. Sometimes things that would have made you rush out to help her aren’t there anymore. When this continues for long, the bliss in the love reduces and women will want to find it elsewhere. 2. Lacking The Fear of God (Very Dangerous) When a woman is prayer-less, goes to church only on Sundays and does not have the consciousness of God in her, any thing can happen. Majority of women who are able to remain faithful despite the challenges or temptations do so not because they feel their man deserves their faithfulness but purely because they do not want to offend God. A spirit filled born again woman who fears God understands that cheating on her husband is not just a sin against man but a sin against God. Being born again drags you to church services , midweek prayer and constant reading of the bible. These small thing may seem common but the constant awareness of the divine has reportedly kept the sanity of many marriages. 3. Not Helping Her Out Before marriage, she probably had sisters who were taking care of certain things for her, but after she got married, she has had to do everything on her own, coupled with taking care of a baby, so from time to time, she expects the man to help with the chores but if she is ignored for long and she’s overwhelmed by the workload, she’s likely to cheat with a man who will help her out. Yes it sound simple but women are complicated. A woman who misses some simple things in a husband will unintentionally begin to crave that particular trait and once she sees it in another man, She begins to compare and contrast. She begins to appreciate the vacuum more and if she does not watch it, She will only come to her senses when the other man mounts her cums. 4. Not Having Enough Relationship/Sex Experience Before Marriage A woman who has been around the block will find nothing spectacular about the next in line cock. She has seen her fair share and has realised that their is nothing left to explore. It doesn't really make much difference to sexual happiness whether you are an experienced lover or not. But there is such pressure to gain sexual experience that those who don't tend to wonder what sex would be like with someone else. Virgins are more prone to feeling the grass is always greener on the other side when they do have relationships. And, if their partner is sexually experienced, they're vulnerable to jealousy. 'They may feel they have to live up to their partner's previous lovers. This leads to the feeling they're always being compared and found wanting, which can make for much unhappiness. What's more important is to have had a wide range of life experiences before you commit to someone, rather than a wide range of sexual experiences. 5. Financial Situations Women just don’t know how to survive without money and they find it difficult if they are unable to buy some basic things such as panties, bra, make-up kit, dresses etc. and usually with marriage, some of these things come to a halt or are reduced. She doesn’t get the opportunity to go shopping and all that and before you know it, she’s cheating with a man who can satisfy those needs. 6. Limited Expectations Before marriage, women actually fantasize about marriage being rosy, like a fairy tale ending where they lived happily ever after, thinking the man will be so romantic after marriage, will lift them up every morning when they are pregnant. They actually daydream about this and when they finally get married, they realize it was indeed as it was, a fairy tale. Reality strikes and they realize, it’s nowhere near their imagination and before they know it, they are looking for it elsewhere. 7. Intimacy With time, couples become distant due to children, jobs and economic pressure, meanwhile, women love the intimacy and privacy you share together. When it’s not forthcoming, she’s likely to get someone who will provide her with that. 8. Sensitivity Women are actually a bundle of sensitive “creatures” and whatever you do or say to them can have an adverse effect on them for ages. Shouting at her or ridiculing her in an unpleasant manner is likely to make her want to find solace elsewhere and by now you know what she’s likely to do. Also if she finds a man who understands her sensitivity and surprises her all the time, she’s likely to fall for it. 9. Revenge If you’ve ever cheated on a stupid woman and she caught you, then prepare for payback. Being cheated on is a very difficult act to forgive. For those of you who have been cheated on, you know how awful it feels. You feel deceived, hurt, angry, sad, numb and even violated. It also affects your self-esteem. At the moment you find out your man cheated, your whole body begins to shake, you begin to sweat, your stomach drops, and you feel nauseated. Clearly, it negatively affects your relationship, your mood, behavior, and your ability to trust the cheater ever again. When you have been cheated on, some of you may want to get revenge by making them feel the way you felt. This can lead you, to do the cheating next. The biggest truth is that cheating never solves a relationship problem. Communication, assertiveness and increasing passion and romance in your relationship are a much better solution. 10. Sex When the sex gets boring and no more thrilling as it used to be, she’s likely to go find someone who makes her feel good. Women need to feel desired and experience REAL orgasms during sex. If women are getting bad sex, not enough sex, non-emotional sex, or "wham-bam-thank-you-mam" sex, you may eventually lose interest in the relationship and look elsewhere for GOOD sex! This creates a temptation to seek sexual or emotional satisfaction elsewhere. In my opinion, it's best to communicate your needs to your man with the hopes that he will step it up a notch. You can do this on your own or with the help of a sex therapist. 11. Weight loss/plastic surgery Male attention increases quickly after a boob job, a butt implant or weight loss, and so does your self-confidence. With all this male attention, your temptation to cheat rises, and it takes more self-control to resist some of those male offers. Once you realize other guys want you, your desire to act on it may have you feeling euphoric. However, be careful, act wisely and make your pros and cons list. 12. Financial independence: When you feel financially dependent on your husband or boyfriend, it's more difficult to speak up in arguments or leave the relationship. The fear of being alone and financially unstable keeps you in a one-down position. Now that women make their own money, enjoy working, and are good at it, the need to stay in an unhappy relationship is not necessary. That feeling of power and independence can be like seeing the red carpet laid out for you; all the way to those other fish in the sea. 13. Low self-esteem: This is the most dangerous. Run if you see this trait in a woman. When you feel insecure about yourself, you have a need to seek validation from others. This can be in the form of sexual, emotional, or intellectual attention. When you don't love or value yourself, you may project that onto the person you are in a relationship with, and believe they don't love or value you. Even if your husband or boyfriend loves you greatly, you still may cheat because you find it hard to accept their unconditional love. http://www.lailasblog.com/2015/06/13-shocking-reasons-why-women-cheat.html Lalasticlala  1 Like |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Dygeasy(m): 10:45pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Hmm |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 10:50pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
Fab write up Op  2 Likes |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 10:54pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
#rollin eyes #YOLO |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by goodmorning40: 11:07pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
So I shouldn't blame them then |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Vyolet(f): 11:13pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
There should be no reason for cheating,be you a man or a woman. @point 12, What do men really want? when she is financially dependent,you lot feel the need to tonguelash her,when she gets independent,you still feel insecure..too much expectation from women,SMH 1 Like |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by IamLEGEND1: 11:13pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
there is never a reason to cheat.... at least not one that is valid anyway 1 Like |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by vivypretty(f): 11:15pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
i was here.nice write up 1 Like |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by ellapius(f): 11:20pm On Aug 04, 2015 |
everyone is a marriage counsellor. I still wonder why marriages fail this days.a married lady with two kids has been on my brother's neck since march.he has said no severally,she as resorted to tipping him cash from time to time .I dont want to open a thread on this cos so many topics on that alone.i av asked him to read up tje thread and he has been appling it its working though but he said the temptation is unbearable cos the lady is pretty. hmmmm pls married people stay married oooo. |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Delusiongirl20(f): 1:06am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Nice one but i disagree with most |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by teddybear007(f): 2:08am On Aug 05, 2015 |
In as much as u made some valid points up there, some people will tend to disagree with u. Gracias. 1 Like |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by igboboy3(m): 2:14am On Aug 05, 2015 |
ellapius: Are you kidding?  |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by babyfaceafrica: 7:25am On Aug 05, 2015 |
There is no reason in the world why a married man or woman should cheat..so the post is crap....if you don't like your relationship..please leave!! |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by jamesharryson(m): 7:42am On Aug 05, 2015 |
No amount of pressure should cause a married man/woman cheat the spouse. This is one of the reasons why courtship should be encouraged before marriage (my suggestion though) so as to find out all about him or her before saying yes I do |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 7:43am On Aug 05, 2015 |
babyfaceafrica:Easier said than done! |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by babyfaceafrica: 7:47am On Aug 05, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:maybe for you...if I am having issues in any relationship that seems not to go away..I take my leave..I have a very funny conscience,it won't let me sleep!!! |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 7:50am On Aug 05, 2015 |
babyfaceafrica:U could leaave ur relationship if u're having issues buh u can't just leave ur marriage like dat. |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 8:24am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Hmmm............GOD help us choose da right partner |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Nobody: 8:45am On Aug 05, 2015 |
1 fuckingggg reason why they shudnt cheat is cos They are fuccckiing marrid when then knew they wud cheat why marry? They shd just av been single like an album wiv 32pussssy cats and 13bfs 42 sexxx mate 16 sugar daddies and 51politicians did i forget 20 sexxx toys Then they av a reason not to even cheat atall  |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by ellapius(f): 10:48am On Aug 05, 2015 |
igboboy3:m very serious he can't tell the husband cos he is our church member don't want to cause problem.am soo scared for him.cos he is just 28.the woman is 30 |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by Gurgle(f): 10:59am On Aug 05, 2015 |
ellapius:  that's terrible. hope he finds a way outwhat a woman. wonder how shes going to advise her daughter later on |
| Re: 13 Shocking Reasons Why Married Women Cheat by babyfaceafrica: 11:14am On Aug 05, 2015 |
lagmostkuit:maybe not...but I know I won't cheat!! |
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