PLEASE TELL HER TO GO AND TREAT HERSELF BE BLUNT. BE THE MAN

bigmill:
Dear Nairalanders, this is really disturbing me and I don't want to be too impulsive so as not to ruin my side chick's self esteem.

Before I mention exactly what happened, I beg anyone who will respond to keep abuses and blame away as I've already learnt my lesson and now ALL ladies to me are like filthy rags no matter how fine the face is (except my beautiful wife only). So please don't waste your time criticizing me.

I met a beautiful lady in church and by virtue of my position in the church, I had to relate with her. One day she suddenly called me and requested for airtime credit which I honoured. About two days later, she called again and said she needed me to lend her some money. I was skeptical and I didn't want to answer her call again. She disturbed my life with calls until I decided to give her the money so she could leave me alone but that was the beginning.

After some weeks, she began to call me again begging that the had been unable to pay back. To cut the long story short, the started raining compliments on my and my wife's beauty. We continued talking and we later arranged to meet privately. At the private meeting, one thing led to the other and we had sex. Though I was prepared so I went with a condom pack. I observed that she was always visiting the toilet after every 5 minutes and that went on until the end of the first round. She smelled so nice that I regarded her as one of the cleanest girls I've ever met. The second round was so long that she had to tell me to remove the condom so I could cum faster. As if I heard an angel's voice, I removed it and continued enjoying the flesh. At the end we went our ways. I really felt guilty.

Two weeks later, I felt some strange itches around by public area and I immediately knew it must have been an infection from the lady but before that time, I already made love to my wife. Another one week later, my wife woke up in the morning to say she couldn't sleep at night owing to very severe itching around and inside her vaginas. I immediately knew I had infected her. The next night was so horrible that I had to take her to our hospital. I was ashamed when I saw the culture in her vaginas. I am still feeling extremely bad. Now she has commenced the extensive and equally expensive treatment. I am being treated too.

My hatred for this disease vector escalated and I didn't even want to see her or remember her again. Now she keeps calling me for another meeting and I've been avoiding her and she has observed it too. She even said she noticed that since that day I had been acting funny towards her.

Dear Nairalanders, do you think she deliberately infected me? In case she is not aware of what she is carrying, do I need to inform her so she could go for treatment? If I need to tell her, how do I do that? I really don't want to do anything with her again.

OP,

Many of the fools on here calling you names are not any better than you. You have accepted your mistake and all you need is get some advice on what course of action to take. Get yourself and your wife treated and then help the other lady get treated. For your other paroles, make do with your condom to avoid stories that touch

Lyk rili??

U av 2 tell her dat she's infected na
Nawa oo, it's rili baffling on hw pipu cheat wit ease nowadays, if u dnt wnt tell ur wife wat hapnd den it means u r definitely going 2 cheat on her again, so d best tin 4 u is 2 jst tell her n face d result cuz if she finds out herself hmmmnnn
Lemme jst stop here

Your cross so carry it. You did not seek for advice when you were going to play the away match.

StPete:



OP,

Many of the fools on here calling you names are not any better than you. You have accepted your mistake and all you need is get some advice on what course of action to take. Get yourself and your wife treated and then help the other lady get treated. For your other paroles, make do with your condom to avoid stories that touch

And this clown calls himself St. Pete

Imagine!!!

mehhhh...hell fire will be overpopulated tho

Pls op go 4 Hiv tests as well. M really short of words. Confess 2 God n 2 ur wife. Be ready 2 bear d consequences of ur silly actions

OP may commit suicide if I comment.

This is terrible on your part o.

if na ur wife naw, u must have sent her packing and instead telling ur wife, ur God, u come dey tell us. all l can say is congratulations

@bigmill, All ladies including your mum and female siblings with the exception of your wife are filthy rags

Dirty pig!

Life of a cheat. please tell the lady in question to get herself treated before she infects every man like you in church.

Hmmm meanwhile a lady in Onitsha was just sent packing for destroying her womb and hiding it from her husband

This guy nko

please tell your family to take. you to the nearest psychiatric hospital ,before your condition get worse like mine.

OP, that you even had the mind to ask for people not to insult you is amazing.

You hold a position in church, but still go about defiling your bed.
You had unprotected sex with someone whose medical history you know nothing about
You had sex with your wife even after noticing the chances in your system

You are a wicked man jare. Whoever chooses not to insult you is holding back out of self-control. A family friend I know infected his wife with hiv years ago and now they are both no more. I pray that wnt be ur case.

If its d woman now nah different story
*sips tea*