C2H5OH:

How has the automatic divorce made you happier in your life?  You think running away from the problems that occur in your life will make them subside? No.  You will not reap some progressive rewards until you start facing them head on.  The problem that plagues your current relationship will probably hamper the next one you run into.   you can continue leaping from one relationship to another like a gazelle, or you can choose to sit your ass down and fix what is wrong with you.

davidylan:

Do men have any responsibility in marriage at all?

davidylan:

Do men have any responsibility in marriage at all?

luvinhubby:

America has flushed Africa out of Nigerian ladies, ,so the woman should now dominate a man, incredile !!!  ejikwam okwu oooo!!

LadyT:

Osisi can you please tell her she doesn't need to listen to the motherfuckers telling her she needs to apologise.

Could he not shout at her? Must he slap her? And while she is in a delicate position.  This is outrageous and disgusting no one should be hitting anybody.  

Respect must be mutual.

~Sauron~:

They do but today's women hinder them from perform their social responsibilities.
These are the seeds of sexual equality. When a woman feels she is equal to her husband, conflict starts.

C2H5OH:

That's what happens when you make assumptions.

Guess what happened to her?  It landed her two dirty slaps and a relationship in jeopardy.
People are unique.

~Sauron~:

They do but today's women hinder them from perform their social responsibilities.
These are the seeds of sexual equality. When a woman feels she is equal to her husband, conflict starts.

Badriyyah:

So a woman is not equal to her husband huh?

davidylan:

what is she to her husband? an inferior half? This is unbelievable!  

davidylan:

what is she to her husband? an inferior half? This is unbelievable!  

~Sauron~:

She is not.

C2H5OH:

By all means ebony, go and tell your husband that he stinks. He will worship, adore, celebrate you, and then some. I'm finding it hard to drill into your head that words are mighty powerful, but you fail to see the impact that your words might have on others.
Depending on what she said, it might have been condescending, damaging, embarrassing, depressing. Verbal abuse is just as detrimental as physical abuse. Be considerate towards other people's feelings.

you can be biased in favor of the woman. That is your choice. I will stick to maintaining a level head by looking at both sides of the coin.

**osisi:

I know the man I'm married to
women ought to pick spouses carefully and leave the psychia ones for Yaba

~Sauron~:

She is not.

The Scriptures say she is the neck while the man is the HEAD!!!

MeGaStReEt:

I suppose your husband is not a mad man "God 4bid"

How can a man in his right senses slapp a woman, his wife for that matter just becos u asked him to take his bath

i never _stand

**osisi:

Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.

now ask yourself,How did Christ love the Church?

Ebony-Silk:

I'd rather have him walk out on me than to harm me and my baby, Simple.
Ok, so you may be right. Verbal maybe as harmful as physical.
However, with verbal abuse, we easily forgive and we eventually forget.
Verbal does not break the bones in your body, it does not leave bruises on your body, and it's won't cause miscarriage.
You've said some profanity and vulgar words to others before, the other person still lives on with unaffected health.

However, if someone beats you down once, he'll do it twice. Until it becomes lethal. Until you're repressed, until you're withdrawing from yourself, from your mind.

In court, which do you think weighs more? Verbal or physical abuse?
Am not saying either is justifiable, but I am saying, domestic violence is a result of one losing him mind. When he lost it completely, what control doe she have not to kill her?

~Sauron~:

The Scriptures say she is the neck while the man is the HEAD!!!

Funny how the scriptures have become very convenient to quote!

spikedcylinder:



Funny how the scriptures have become very convenient to quote!

~Sauron~:

I am on the Lord's side.

C2H5OH:

ebony, abuse be abuse. mental, physical, child, you name it

~Sauron~:

1 Corinthians 11:3. . . . .
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.