luvinhubby:

sauron, i mean what is wrong in a slap?

luvinhubby:

i don`t slap and will NEVER slap my wife as matter of personal principles, but, people get what they deserve, and her threat to terminate the pregnancy shows her mindset. ' Vindictive and Contentious"

invisible!:

What are these gurls thinking, it is wrong to slap your wife but what of the girls that runs their mouths like tap, it is very condemnable also.

invisible!:

What are these gurls thinking, it is wrong to slap your wife but what of the girls that runs their mouths like tap, it is very condemnable also.

luvinhubby:

I am not foolish, just practical, have`nt heard of the word, " last straw that broke the camel`s back". Whatever lead to the slap did not start that night.

**osisi:

I tell women all the time to weed off these losers at courtship.
Most of these efulefus can be spotted at the initial times and kicked to the curb.

~Sauron~:

Stop being a hypocrite.
Are you trying to say you have never been slapped before??

**osisi:

Not every woman is in your mother's category.

Or you mean they are more subservient. Lets face it, we have a culture that has inculcated into most women that their place is behind and not beside their husband, his slave and not his helpmeet, his quiet little mouse and not his brave shoulder to cry on. Even as teens our girlfriends then would scuttle around to make us happy, anytime we sneezed they jumped in fear, our parents raised them to believe that marriage even when u're not happy and your husband treats you like death is to be cherished . . .

lets put ourselves in their shoes for just 2 mins. Can you imagine what its like to be Dellynash right now? Afraid to go home, afraid that she may be slapped any minute for the slightest infraction, afraid to look her husband in the face, increased heart rate anytime she hears him walk in the door . . . sleeping with one eye open just in case he got angry enough to give her a wack across the face.
Our women have been traumatised enough, there is no justification for treating them like slaves. I wish to have daughters when i start a family, i would rather they married Americans than marry men who feel "this is Africa" so they shld get with the program of being second-class citizens in their own home.

A woman's home shld be her refuge, a woman's husband shld be her tower of strength, a woman's husband shld be the one person she feels safest with . . . no matter the provocation.
The bible says that men are to love their wives even as Christ loved the church . . . many christian men have deleted that portion from their bibles and yet quote "wives submit to your husbands" every time she puts too much salt in the rice.

Well how did Christ love His church?
1. He was humble and thought nothing of washing the feet of His disciples.
2. He died so that they could live (no greater sacrifice than this).
3. He was willing to correct them in love and not in anger and fear.

When are we christian men going to start ruling our homes like this? Ah yeah this is Africa . . . i forgot!

**osisi:

I tell women all the time to weed off these losers at courtship.
Most of these efulefus can be spotted at the initial times and kicked to the curb.

**osisi:

I tell women all the time to weed off these losers at courtship.
Most of these efulefus can be spotted at the initial times and kicked to the curb.

~Sauron~:

U are very stupid.
Not every woman is in your mother's category of jumping from one husband to another.
We can always tell women raised from broken homes. . . . .They are the first to scream D-I-V-O-R-C-E.

I may be talking to teenagers sef

DeReloaded:

Lmao tell us the many signs of "efulefus". You know they hide it well at first

**osisi:

Not every woman is in your mother's category.

JustGood:

So much mouth running here with half (even quarter) of a story. The woman has left without telling exactly what she did to the man.

I have never been violent in my life but there are certain things that will produce evil in any humn being. The guy has absolutely no right to slap his wife but the wife has not told us EXACTLY what happened before the slaps

**osisi:

My parents have been married for donkey years and counting
glory be to God.

You obviously are a product of some deranged wife battering male and probably saw your mother pummelled to the ground like malu constantly.
You have unashamedly told us how you slapped a girl at a bar.
psychotic idiot.

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**osisi:

listen to Sauron.
He is a typical example

~Sauron~:

U have shown no evidence of that. . . . .
A woman and her husband had a small altercation and you want her to leave her husband so you can move in??
U have shown the traces of a kid raised by a mother who kept jumping from one married woman to another after any small family problem.
Osisi, u need to clean up your act. . . . . U don't know the value of marriage. Kids raised from broken homes wouldn't know that so it's not surprising.

You are a product of a broken home.
Always ready to break people's home with your moronic drivel and misguided advices.
Why ain't i surprised?? A depraved female like you who has counted 17 husbands and 33 boyfriends of your mother can NEVER value marriage.
What a SLUT!!!

I have never been violent in my life but there are certain things that will produce evil in any humn being. The guy has absolutely no right to slap his wife but the wife has not told us EXACTLY what happened before the slaps