Question?
I have a very simple but serious question. What if you think you were gay, or might become, or maybe are gay? What should a person do? And what if you are bisexual, what do you do? Is there a solution to these problems? I hear you have to kill yourself or die or something, is that true? Thank You.

Answer-
As-Salamu 'Aleykum,

First of all, you should be thankful to Allah Most High for guiding you to inquire about this particular issue.

Coming to terms with one’s sexuality is challenging. For some, the challenge lasts a lifetime. For others, the challenge manifests itself at various points in their life, triggered sometimes by internal factors such as a desire to engage in risky behavior or sometimes by external factors such as exposure to a particular lifestyle. And for others, there is actually no challenge and they just engage in healthy heterosexual relations with their spouses. In the case you are mentioning, it seems to us that this person is still coming to terms with his sexuality. Let’s begin first with the Islamic view on homosexuality and bisexuality, and then we can offer advices on how to rid oneself of both diseases. We urge you to give thought to the following points we are making even if at first you think you know what we are going to say.

Muslims believe without a doubt that Allah Most High is the Creator of all creation. In addition to being the Creator, He is also the All-Wise and the All-Merciful. All praise is due to Allah that in His wisdom and mercy, He actually created males and females, and endowed them with a natural inclination towards one another. Of course, also in His ultimate wisdom, Allah created Satan who tests the faith of both males and females by tempting them to feel inclined towards members of the same gender. Being bisexual is no different, because even though one half of such a lifestyle is apparently normal (i.e. male/female relations), the other half is still no less a sin. We will therefore speak only of homosexuality, but by extension we are addressing bisexual relations as well.

According to Islamic teachings, homosexuality is abnormal, abhorrent in the eyes of Allah, and the cause of severe punishment and torment in the Hereafter for those who actively pursue such a lifestyle. The punishment for men or women who are unwilling to give up homosexuality and therefore are rejecting the guidance of Allah Most High is in fact death according to Islam.

What is the solution? It might sound obvious by now, but it is in fact to give up being gay or bisexual. Whatever evil inclinations Satan places in one’s mind to engage in relations with a member of the same gender must be fought and never followed. Repenting profusely to Allah Most High for having even thought that one is gay would be beneficial. The goal is to realize that Allah is the All-Wise and the All-Merciful. In His ultimate wisdom and mercy, Allah is well-aware of the inclinations that human beings might have towards risky and sinful behavior. Knowing the punishment that awaits a person who is openly gay or bisexual should be enough incentive not to even think about such lifestyles, let alone ever consider living out such lifestyles. Think instead of the unending mercy of Allah for those who repent and seek forgiveness day and night. Make constant du’a to Him and seek His guidance and mercy.

http://www.onislam.net/english/ask-the-counselor/sexuality/162573-whats-the-solution-for-gays-and-bisexuals.html

Do they themselves consider it as a problem ?

the solution is to send them to prisons coz on the inside, yansh(ass) is a necessity but its scarce.

Prayers and counselling.