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Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad:Actually if I get to marry of which am not interested in anyway.. I cannot in anyway for any reason displease my wife talkless of physically abusing her it's like putting ones hand in fire and blaming ones brain for it. To me as far as I am concern both parties should see each other as their very self they need for complete existence. And if any case I convince myself in Loving any Lady I had give her my whole self with no restriction....After God she will be the one I will treasure than my own soul. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 9:24pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Stellaenefa: Lolz, fight u say? The last time I checked, during a fight, u come with the best weapon so as to enable u Win. So, if u come with ur "MOUTH" as ur weapon,? I will come with my "FIST" as my own weapon too. My point is, None of the two forms of abuse is good in any form. The same way a physical abuse is so bad to ladies is d same way the verbal abuse is so lethal to men. None of them should be encouraged in any form. And none of them should be justified in any form. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 9:25pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Mznaett:You are very correct. I hate all forms of abuse. And I will never be a party to any form of abuse. Yet, these are salient things that are killing relationships and marriages today without being taken cognizance of. Thanks for your honesty and objectivity. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 9:26pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:ahahah Physical Abuse is actually worse than Verbal abuse Its her major form of defence just like her nails and teeth because she know she can't beat you ...But if the lady is not abusing you down to your lineage/generations she doesn't warrant Beating,, It all depends on the type of guy some are actually aggressive,,, There are other ways to punish a lady who abuses you verbally than Beating her... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7: You just did sweerie |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 9:32pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:lol, i dont support beating a lady no matter how verbally abusive she can be..... With that said i agree with u, some ladies were born to insult.... U jux have to ignore them. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 9:36pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17:go to bed lol... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 9:37pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17: Yes love, I can't help it. That's why I said "Not Again". I don't know why some people will see certain things to be good for A and not good for B. It sulks. Women just think that verbal abuse Is their birth right and with that, they see nothing wrong with it while there is everything wrong with it. Well, to answer OP's question, VERBAL abuse Is the worst form of abuse. As 80% of physical abuse today is caused by a verbal abuse. Hardly will u see a man just beating a woman without the woman saying a word to him in the first place, that is to show u how BAD it is to men, we all have our soft spots, What is good for the goose is good for the gander. U will never know how the shoes pain unless u wear them. To me, I would rather u beat/hit me than abuse me verbally. @times it brings out the beast in me. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 9:44pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad:You see I understand what you're saying BUT there are various factors to be considered such as the *kind of home the man/woman is coming from *The possessive man *The bossy woman *The kind of advice you get from friends Its all about individual perspective,, How do you intend to raise awareness? you should Start with the illiterate/semi-illiterates 'Cos its very common amongst them.. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 9:47pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17:huh? Ur what? |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 9:54pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad:Okay, ooo but I believe him when it comes to FB because he's a diehard Fan and he actually paid me to support his club, so my loyalty remains...... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 9:56pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7: I agree with you my love |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:02pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17:awww, heartbreak for my guy. Why na! |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 10:02pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17: SHarp my love, now come to bed, we ve got a long ride till d next morning |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7: Lollll, hope you won't ask for water this night |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 10:07pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17: Have u forgotten I am on water therapy? Of course I will always ask for water. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7: You no well,loll |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 10:15pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:That's you But many people won't think the way you do when you say you want to create awareness,fine that's good BUT Men will have their own stories justifying the abuse and women will also have their reasons justifying the abuse...I watched a programme and they were interviewing people asking why they abuse physically and a man said he's just training her- imagine that kind of thought/mentality... I think the abuse is inevitable it can only be reduced |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 10:16pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:16pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:so what will u do when a man tries to abuse u? |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 10:17pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17: U are enough dose of my medication, if I no well, then u treat me. *winks |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:17pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17:i no gree oo. It must be reversed. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:20pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7:Well said. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:21pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:Paid you to support his club? |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:26pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:You are right. Still weighing options or means of disseminating such information. Time will tell how this can be achieved. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 10:26pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:it depends;; if it's my husband OR just any Man ~ different rules apply.. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:27pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:Very well sir. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:30pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oyind17:then u have to stay away from my friend! I dont want u to destroy his heart. |
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