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Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:31pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:ur husband, then how do u react? |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 10:32pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad:He's just passionate about his club and getting more Supporters for Arsenal.. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 10:39pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:The first time I will let it pass, *2nd time report to his parents, *third time think of my children and still stay *Fourth time runaway... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:41pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7: 1 Like |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Oahray: 10:43pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Stellaenefa:tell that to the stammerer who can only manage two words for every ten the wife spits. Generally women are better at being verbal and men more physical. When the shyte hits the fan, it's only normal to reach for one's favourite weapon. Women would go physical too, if they had the strength. If Mr Y slashes at Mr Z with a razor-sharp knife, and Mr Z cuts off the offending hand with a razor-sharp sword, I do not believe Mr Z is more evil than Mr Y. They both used weapons on each other with the intention of causing harm. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:43pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:really? I dont believe it! I think ur first, u will let it go 2. U will report him to his parents 3. U will react and retaliate. Come on gal, i know u. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by LadyAimy: 10:46pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225: Lolll, he can compete for it |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:48pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
LadyAimy:hahaha, the lady says no so its of no use. He will jux be wasting his time. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:49pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7:Why did you try to hide this in the first place? We need more people with good heads. Thanks for this. Like you, I would take a hit rather than verbally abused. Not because I can't stand verbal abuse, on the contrary, nothing can make me change my stand of making sure I never hit a woman I love or care about. But, verbally abusing me would call for my full wrath. Not with any form of abuse (maybe emotional abuse), but with something more lethal and painful. Something that might just make her hate me for life. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 10:53pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Oahray:Nice analogy. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 10:56pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:come on boy, you don't know me.. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by LadyAimy: 10:57pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225: Maybe he needs a cuc |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 10:57pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:i do, atleast i know u dont go down without a fyt. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 11:02pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
LadyAimy:whats cuc? |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by UyiIredia(m): 11:02pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad: I think physical abuse is worse NOT verbal abuse physical abuse can be fatal, but not verbal abuse. I do believe that verbal abuse can be very damaging psychologically, and have experienced so myself, but verbal abuse doesn't translate to physical injury although it could cause stress. Physical abuse OTOH in most cases comes along with psychological harm. Depression, stress suicidal tendencies etc are possible results. BTW I think men are far more guilty of physical abuse than women are of verbal abuse. In fact, as is seen clearly on Nairaland, men can be verbally abusive. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by UyiIredia(m): 11:06pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad: True talk. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 11:06pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:uuhhh true... I still don't know anything about you,, very soon I will |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 11:08pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:that will be ur second assignment. I hope u succeed like u did in ur first assignment. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 11:08pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
UyiIredia:Lol, I Like your last sentence... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 11:15pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:That can't be an assignment!!!!!! abegi,, I.have things to do observing you is not on my list..... height of joblessness... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 11:18pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:ur mouth. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 11:24pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
Captainswag225:Okay ooo good night Take it easy with First she needs your full attention 1 Like |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by Captainswag225(m): 11:25pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:yes madam |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 11:25pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
dmcdad: We are on the same lane bro. The truth is, I ve never raised a hand on a girl except my ex gf( u know the lovey dovey kinda play, I am d playful type, I can wrestle wella, and she enjoys it,we both enjoy it). To surprise u, she has never ever abused me verbally. sound weird? I just hate it when u justify certain things that does not need any form of justification, justifying some things makes it seem cool and normal and right. I ve been abused verbally,by certain female folks,but certainly not my GF(ex), but the worst verbal abuse Is from my Dad,he practically does that to everyone, and he believes its normal to him(and I can't abuse him as well either physically or verbally and that's very painful and demeaning) , that's why I ve been trying so hard to make people see to it that it is not normal. It is just as bad as physical abuse. All d same bro, let's say no to any form of abuse. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by UyiIredia(m): 11:28pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7:Thanks. But that one no mean say women no get their own comma o ! |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 11:31pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
UyiIredia:Yes, I know am just saying men also abuse verbally is not peculiar to only women BUT na women own plenty pass... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 11:34pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
UyiIredia: Nice write up, I know u do not support any form of abuse. But please stop making preference of one to the other, they are very very very bad in all aspect of being bad. I doubt if u ve been abused verbally, I mean, in the real context of verbal abuse, until u experience such (I pray u don't my dear) u will know that most of the suicide cases are as a result of verbal abuses. Come to ireland here, u will know what I mean by verbal abuse being synonymous with suicides, especially amongst the teens. They just can't handle it, and its the same all over. Let me not go further. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by shizzy7(f): 11:35pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
chigoizie7:@dmcdad, you see Verbal abuse is not just peculiar to women... You guys abuse physically and verbally while for women its just Verbally.... When I said to some people its like a way of life I knew what I was talking about You have a lot of work to do with your awareness campaign... |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by chigoizie7(m): 11:41pm On Aug 24, 2015 |
shizzy7: Please, stop justifying any of it. Men? , women?, abuse is abuse, be it physical or verbal, it does not matter who they come from, it just has to be stopped. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 5:38am On Aug 25, 2015 |
chigoizie7:Nice one broda. We kinda have the same Fathers. Hmmm |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 5:47am On Aug 25, 2015 |
chigoizie7:Well done bro. The devastating effects of verbal abuse cannot be overemphasised. Physical abuse is as dangerous, but seems to get all the attention. Cc lalasticlala fynestboi Please we need this on the front page, as more people need to be educated and fully aware of the dangers these pose to relationships, marriages, and even friendships. |
Re: Physical Abuse From The Man, Or Verbal Abuse From The Woman. Who Is More Guilty? by dmcdad: 5:55am On Aug 25, 2015 |
shizzy7:I guess someone is ignorant of the fact that women physically abuse too. That's the height of it all. Some abuse you both physically and verbally. I know of some men who suffer from these. Imagine, if verbal abuse from women has devastating effects, how much more incorporating physical abuse to it. The few men that are guilty of verbal abuse do so to kinda be armed with something. Some of them know physically abusing a woman is not just right, but the best and only way to fight back at such instance would be to resort to the woman's major weapon, which is to verbally abuse. These set of men think the best way to beat these women is to beat them at their game, hence the need to fight back with verbal abuse. |
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