what will i do when my girl of 4 years that i sacrificed everything for till she graduated recently said 'she is young and has 2-3years to enjoy herself so she needs a break from emotional attachment.please what do you think is wrong with her and what am i to do. i cant really focus at work and my friends recently said i unconsciously talk while walking .

phylp:
what will i do when my girl of 4 years that i sacrificed everything for till she graduated recently said 'she is young and has 2-3years to enjoy herself so she needs a break from emotional attachment.please what do you think is wrong with her and what am i to do. i cant really focus at work and my friends recently said i unconsciously talk while walking .

She is young?? But has graduated?? She must be confused! Pls how old is she??

BTW take it easy on urself... U need ur sanity and job

Awwww...a sugarcoated way of saying 'i'm tired of you'


Take heart, all will be well

Maybe ur frnds are absolutely right cos i dinor even understand wah you just typed here



Brah......if u spent on her...u're stewpid..m sure most of ur family members are not true with their sch nii.......anyway...ur buzinezz....none of ma weedy buziness




#sips WeeD

Guy.....

Move on,its part of life,hrtbreak,so wen d one that genuinely loves u come around,you'd appreciate her.

She needs a break, give her the break, hustle hard and when the time is right, go find yourself another girl who is worth it.

trust me she's seeing someone...she wants to be let go bruh...

Smh difficult!..who knws? Karmal might be paying you back for your past sins...take heart

phylp:
what will i do when my girl of 4 years that i sacrificed everything for till she graduated recently said 'she is young and has 2-3years to enjoy herself so she needs a break from emotional attachment.please what do you think is wrong with her and what am i to do. i cant really focus at work and my friends recently said i unconsciously talk while walking .

lol, u are on a long thing, dis is one of d hilarious break up lines ever, take heart bro. and go 4 another girl.

phylp:
what will i do when my girl of 4 years that i sacrificed everything for till she graduated recently said 'she is young and has 2-3years to enjoy herself so she needs a break from emotional attachment.please what do you think is wrong with her and what am i to do. i cant really focus at work and my friends recently said i unconsciously talk while walking .

guy it happens. Just take a break from work.
Be urself. someone better will com

abimbawealth:
Awwww...a sugarcoated way of saying 'i'm tired of you'


Take heart, all will be well

sugarcoated indeed....I fear ladies

Never invest too much emotions into a relationship until you’re married.
It saves you from emotional wreck and a possible sudden death.

OP…move on, get distracted, think of things u never liked in her or about her (thats why God made us with the good and the bad), so that we can always find a way out for ourselves. Go out and make enough money, girls yapa!

it baffles me d way some pple comment on a simple question of advice..its not everyone on nairaland dat is supposed toav access to d comment box..i swear...@Op, take heart & be strong...it jst destiny's way of telling u she's not urs..probably u deserve better...funny enuf, pple like dat end up wit wife beaters.

StPete:
Never invest too much emotions into a relationship until you’re married.
It saves you from emotional wreck and a possible sudden death.
OP…move on, get distracted, think of things u never liked in her or about her (thats why God made us with the good and the bad), so that we can always find a way out for ourselves. Go out and make enough money, girls yapa!

prettysassygirl:
Move on,its part of life,hrtbreak,so wen d one that genuinely loves u come around,you'd appreciate her.

DuchessLily:

She is young?? But has graduated?? She must be confused! Pls how old is she??
BTW take it easy on urself... U need ur sanity and job

Thanks@all who insisted on me moving on but where will i start from.i gave everything into that relationship. from abiding with No sex policy, didnt cheat on her, supported her financially(though she also reciprocate), wrote the whole of her 400 level project, she has low self esteem but i was always there to encourage her when she's down et.c When i think of her statements, nuffin else enters my brain but why now!!

balogundayo:
trust me she's seeing someone...she wants to be let go bruh...

A female colleague echoed this same thought

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@op...start frm sumwhr..dnt be alone...have it at d back of ur mind dat she isnt coming back..start being very friendly with pple..go out wit friends and erase anytin dat will kip reminding u of d girl..period!

prettysassygirl:
Move on,its part of life,hrtbreak,so wen d one that genuinely loves u come around,you'd appreciate her.

Thanks.i will try

phylp:

Thanks@all who insisted on me moving on but where will i start from.i gave everything into that relationship. from abiding with No sex policy, didnt cheat on her, supported her financially(though she also reciprocate), wrote the whole of her 400 level project, she has low self esteem but i was always there to encourage her when she's down et.c When i think of her statements, nuffin else enters my brain but why now!!

That b1tch ain't loyal. I hope you get a better lady.

abimbawealth:
Awwww...a sugarcoated way of saying 'i'm tired of you'
Take heart, all will be well

I want to believe so.Thanks

Chai... some ladies sha.

No girl is predictable..your mistakes
1.Dating an undergraduate(most of them(0-23yrs old) still gat fish bwean.Make one course mate dey help me service my package.
2.Investing too much(I know you don't give your folks money)
3.Not fucking her(girls think with their pussy)
Solution
1.start investing more in your self and your family
2.Find a good Bleep mate(it's called emotions eraser)
3.Don't get serious too soon.
4.Pls don't beg her at all.begging her would turn you to a door mat(if per adventure she comes back begging(1hr sex..you heard me right)

eeyah. Honestly,i feel what u're going tru. It must be so hard for you right now. D bitter truth is she is done. When a lady ask for a break,she actually means a break up. It will be well. Its a lesson for you so you can learn. You'll be alright that i'm sure of

phylp:

Thanks@all who insisted on me moving on but where will i start from.i gave everything into that relationship. from abiding with No sex policy, didnt cheat on her, supported her financially(though she also reciprocate), wrote the whole of her 400 level project, she has low self esteem but i was always there to encourage her when she's down et.c When i think of her statements, nuffin else enters my brain but why now!!

i swear to God i know how you feel. Be more interactive your friends, or better still, let some close friends live with you for a while. Btw, are you her father?? Why did u invest in her when you don't own her?

Jollyjoy:
Smh difficult!..who knws? Karmal might be paying you back for your past sins...take heart

so this is your Opinion ...
Chaii ..

phylp:

Thanks@all who insisted on me moving on but where will i start from.i gave everything into that relationship. from abiding with No sex policy, didnt cheat on her, supported her financially(though she also reciprocate), wrote the whole of her 400 level project, she has low self esteem but i was always there to encourage her when she's down et.c When i think of her statements, nuffin else enters my brain but why now!!

Nobody is worth your sweat except your Sis or Mum...
One Thing is Constant in Life *CHANGE*
She is still young... She wanna explore..
Bad-guys free experimental dish
U need to Delete every her Contact... First
Then go out maybe a Comedy show...
Go crack your Ribs..
Go out.. Have fun..
With time u will see her as a Lesson Learnt..
Actually she did you more Goood than Bad... If you ask me ...
But that a story for another day
Take-kia

phylp:
what will i do when my girl of 4 years that i sacrificed everything for till she graduated recently said 'she is young and has 2-3years to enjoy herself so she needs a break from emotional attachment.please what do you think is wrong with her and what am i to do. i cant really focus at work and my friends recently said i unconsciously talk while walking .

That last bit cracked me up
Dont worry you will soon start controlling traffic

You have a good job and she de misbehave, is it when you are jobless she ll stay Please focus on your job and consciously uncouple from her.

Thanks @all..m moving on..i just discovered she met another guy on facebook who resides in US...she told me she doesn't know why she is falling inlove with him(d yankee guy).that maybe God is involve cos its mysterious to her too..soro niyen but i told her av heard n wished her best of luck

pwettyaura:
it baffles me d way some pple comment on a simple question of advice..its not everyone on nairaland dat is supposed toav access to d comment box..i swear...@Op, take heart & be strong...it jst destiny's way of telling u she's not urs..probably u deserve better...funny enuf, pple like dat end up wit wife beaters.

my fwend i changed ma phone just ping me on 567237D5

phylp:
Thanks @all..m moving on..i just discovered she met another guy on facebook who resides in US...she told me she doesn't know why she is falling inlove with him(d yankee guy).that maybe God is involve cos its mysterious to her too..soro niyen but i told her av heard n wished her best of luck

wow just like that. Women can never stop to entertain. Am sorry bro you don't deserve her at all

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