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This Is Definitely The Craziest Way To Find Out Your Boyfriend Is Cheating by 360jamng(m): 7:25pm On Aug 29, 2015
This is definitely the Craziest Way to Find Out Your
Boyfriend is Cheating

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Ayanna Dookie, 33 and pictured above, thought her
man
was the perfect guy – until this dramatic incident
happened
to her. She shared her story with the NY Post. Y’all
need to read this…
It was an early Sunday morning in April 2008 when I
received a text message from my friend Ryan. “So
sorry
about what happened,” it read.
“What are you talking about?” was my response.
“Just Google Spike’s real name,” was all Ryan would
say.
So I booted up my computer and typed in the name
of
my boyfriend of three years. I froze as I read the
chilling
words — it said he was “being held for the murder of
his
girlfriend’s ex- boyfriend.”
It didn’t make any sense. I was Spike’s girlfriend. I
didn’t
even have any ex-boyfriends. The reporter must have
made a mistake.
But it turned out that the news story was correct.
Spike had allegedly killed his girlfriend’s former lover.
Except the girlfriend wasn’t me. Of all the ways to
find
out that your boyfriend is cheating on you, this one
took
the cake.
When I met Spike in 2004 at the age of 24, I’d
never
had a real boyfriend. I’d had countless one-night
stands
and “uhhh, it’s complicated” situations, but never
anyone
steady.
So when I met Spike at a party and we went out
once
and then started dating, I couldn’t believe my luck. He
was
the boyfriend I’d been craving for years.
But there were warning signs that things weren’t
right.
About a year into the relationship, a girl I’d never met
before took me aside at a party and said, “I know
where
I know your boyfriend from.”
The implication was that she’d seen him with another
woman.
Without missing a beat, I said, “I don’t want to
know,”
and walked away.
What was important to me was that I had a man.
So
what if there were other girls?
I was fine living my life in denial — until that fateful
text
message.
It turned out that one of the women who Spike was
cheating with had a crazy ex- boyfriend who broke into
her house when he was staying over. There had been
a
fight and Spike shot the man eight times, killing him.
At the time, it was devastating — not because what
happened confirmed that Spike was cheating, but
because
my boyfriend was locked in jail on $100,000 bail.
At first, to the disgust of my friends, I decided to
stand
by my man. But a couple of weeks later I had a
wake-up
call. Did I value myself so little that I was going to
play
the part of the loyal girlfriend when he had treated me
so
badly?
I never contacted Spike again, but I heard through the
grapevine that his lawyers were able to get him off
on
grounds of self-defense.
Now, I can’t believe that I once suffered from such
lack
of self-esteem. Today, I have a steady boyfriend, but I
don’t need a boyfriend to define me. In many ways,
Spike
did me a favor.

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Re: This Is Definitely The Craziest Way To Find Out Your Boyfriend Is Cheating by 360jamng(m): 7:26pm On Aug 29, 2015
lalasticlala, seun,
Re: This Is Definitely The Craziest Way To Find Out Your Boyfriend Is Cheating by chomytex(f): 7:33pm On Aug 29, 2015
This ur story get kleg...the topic is quite misleading.
Re: This Is Definitely The Craziest Way To Find Out Your Boyfriend Is Cheating by SUGARBEE(f): 7:57pm On Aug 29, 2015
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Re: This Is Definitely The Craziest Way To Find Out Your Boyfriend Is Cheating by Nobody: 8:04pm On Aug 29, 2015
Ok

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