I was only replying to some who think cooking is regarded as a role for African women - like the men force them to do it, or they cook to make their men happy.

That wasnt what I was implying and you know it unless you can show me who these "some" are that you were directing the comments towards.  I said if you learn, your son will wanna learn. Then the beat goes on. Nothing wrong with learning new things abi? You decided to make assumptions instead, na your own business be that. Like I said before, nevermind.

ANYWAY

Do they still show Maggi Cooking competitions in Naija? I used to see those when i was in secondary school. men and women trying to outdo each other. Hilarious.

Dammy_ray:

some women laisy enn see watin seant21 talk anyway the big deal is that that wife should be ashamed of her self where where you the day you knew it he nows than you am sure he as not been doing it now

wat are u sayin

Dereloaded,

Dereloaded,

Dereloaded,

ee melo ni mo pe e?

  take am easy o. fi ara buruku e bale

My post was directed at Omar22 and Sisterwoman and not even in a negative way.

See who's assuming now?  Na wah for you o.

I pity your _{I dont even know if I should say man or woman.}

And I'm sure there's a sweet girl behind that front.

My hubby a better cook? I swear I will die!!

I mean if I can't cook for him. . . what is my usefulness?

Well maybe my laundry and foot massaging skills.

Whew!!!

Sisi Jinx:

My hubby a better cook? I swear I will die!!

I mean if I can't cook for him. . . what is my usefulness?

Well maybe my laundry and foot massaging skills.

Whew!!!

Sorry o

You will soon be crucified for this post by some of your gender

kokoye, sisi jinx i'm sure is being sarcastic.

kokoye. ta lo ni 'ara buruku". seriously ma jekin sepe fun e

Dont try to sweet talk after insulting me.

"pity all you want", as long as he hasnt slept with his cousin like some people, all will be well 

Sisi Jinx:

My hubby a better cook? I swear I will die!!

I mean if I can't cook for him. . .  what is my usefulness?

Well maybe my laundry and foot massaging skills.

Whew!!!

Rofl, sisi. How many times will I tell you that your sarcasm doesnt work on NL.

anyway where have you been? 

I LOOOOOOOOOVE cooking and I hate the tidying up of pots and pans afterwards. I would prefer my man outdo me in the washing up and I will cook to his hearts delight.

what food are you making me when i get there

@post

i wouldn't mind if he knows how to cook well, but bragging bout it? that i wouldn't like

~Sissy~:

@post

i wouldn't mind if he knows how to cook well, but bragging bout it? that i wouldn't like

excatly. . . .its the braggin bit i dont like

kini big deal, nothing new.voooooooooooooom

wetin me I Kno be say me I sabi COOK.

Ha, If I cook for you hem. . .

Hmmm. . . I no no why anytime I cook finish like this emmmm, whewww. . .

The aroma na die

You know the whole compound ppl dem all dey con beg food.


==If I cook pass my woman I go gladly teach am to cook like me. 50-50==

Am Alone:


==If I cook pass my woman I go gladly teach am to cook like me. 50-50==

That is what distinguish a man from a boy

To the man who brags about his cooking, does that mean that is all he is good 4?

Amigoz:

That is what distinguish a man from a boy

To the man who brags about his cooking, does that mean that is all he is good 4? 

However, a man willing to teach his woman to cook instead of reprimanding her for her lack of cooking skills has a lot to be said about.

Sisi Jinx:

My hubby a better cook? I swear I will die!!

I mean if I can't cook for him. . . what is my usefulness?

Well maybe my laundry and foot massaging skills.

Whew!!!

I agree with you family is a team and in a team you have division of labour or call it roles and responsibilities. Some women would not even allow another person touch their pots of stew! Just like normal man would feel relegated if the wife pays the rent or children school fees, African woman would want to be able to take care of her home.

Remii:

I agree with you family is a team and in a team you have division of labour or call it roles and responsibilities. Some women would not even allow another person touch their pots of stew! Just like normal man would feel relegated if the wife pays the rent or children school fees, African woman would want to be able to take care of her home.

sisijinx was being sarcastic

@topic

i agree with sistawoman no roles in the house
i believe each person should do what he/she enjoys doing or can do best
if my hubby cooks better than me but his work schedule is not as flexible as mine then as team i expect that we work something out

What's important is that my family eats great meals

A male chef will obviously brag about it to his wife

what if the d man is pretty damn sure that the wife doesnt know how to cook.
I think a man hav to tease his wife if she doesnt know how to cook.

just wondering what will be happening at the homes of all the guys that are proffesional chefs, will their wives not cook just becos their husbands are better, just wondering

If my husband cooks better than i do, i will make him cook most cook most of the time pretending to enjoy his food while discovering his secrets. Afterwords, I will go enroll for cooking lessons. By the time i combine my skills and the ones i learnt from him, he will bow out.

Man in the house, If your wife cannot cook, pls send her to catering school, else hunder will kill you or have effect on you at old age when u can no longer do the cooking.

kritikul:

If my husband cooks better than i do, i will make him cook most cook most of the time pretending to enjoy his food while discovering his secrets. Afterwords, I will go enroll for cooking lessons. By the time i combine my skills and the ones i learnt from him, he will bow out.

good point

Chei, See lazy women wishing there husbands were a better cook

Dereloaded,

ta lo ba ara ile e sun ??

and everyone is saying sisi jinx was being sarcastic with her statement. Are you guys saying she cant cook, she is useless and no good?

ehn, ehn . . is that what you all are saying?

PurestBoy:

Chei, See lazy women wishing there husbands were a better cook

see man wey tink say women must do evertin, cookin inclusive.

ko so ro nbe! So what if he can cook better?

good 4 him,he must av learn dat back in his bachelor days so wataguan.

Chei! See wetin Oprah cause o.

No wonder she's happily married

It will be fun u know, just sit ad cross my legs while he does the cooking.

Huh, INTERESTING.

cook all d way,be better even but braging about it is a NO NO.