The post is quite long but pls read because ur advice is needed Iam kinda new on Nairaland, been reading lots of advice request frm peeps hia and i tink i really do need one.....my bestfriend from childhood has always bn Chidera, we hav bn very close friends for abt 17yrs now, but later on i noticed i had developed a very strong feelin for her but cudnt tell her because we wia more like siblings and family frnds. Moreova she wont bliv me because bn a cute boi i had quite a number of girlfrnds already in secondary school which she knew of. We got into the university d same year and graduated the same period, but i noticed dat wen we wia posted for our NYSC she stopped really having my time or spendin time wit me because she had fallen in love wit another corper guy dat isnt half as cute as iam. This guy took away d only person dat matter'd to me apart frm God and ma family, weneva i come around to her lodge she was always abt goin out to hang out with dis guy, i died several times. And knowin fully well dat Dera is still a V!rgin am scared of her loosin it to someone dat might not love her dat much. Dis guy made her even forget my birthday for the 1st in 17yrs and i felt like dying, i only got a birthday text later in d evenin.....now the problem started wen she came to my apartment the next day to give me ma present i lured her into the kitchen in pretence dat i wanted giving her, her own share of the bithday cake and immediately we got into d kitchen i cudnt help but swallow her mouth in mine with a very hot deep kiss. Mehn in all d girls i hav dated and had flings with none had a soft and succulent kiss as hers. Afta alot of struggle frm her i free'd her and she ran off. Bn callin her line since den and she isnt pickin hav gone to her lodge severally but always meets it locked. She isnt replyin ma txt msg, bbm pings or whatsapp chat and its killing me.....i need an advice on wat to do pls peeps

All I see is a sex-starved, self-acclaimed "fine-boy" who is desperately trying to escape from Chidera's friendzone when she is not ready to grant him bail.
My bro, just walk away. It's already late. 20 friends can't play together for 20 years. Just let her be. Don't stress yourself. You have already sent the message with that KISS. If she wants to be more than just friends with you, she will come back. But nevertheless, don't act like a normal friend henceforth. If you want the cookie, you must act like someone who deserves it.

She is shaking her head right now and saying



"SO THIS FOOLISH BOY BROUGHT THIS THING TO NAIRALAND"

THEN she blocks your a$$ on all social media. And says "IDIAT"

op is still a child...instead of u to tell her since u wr delaying and dying several times..now she came to ur house,a good chance for u to open up yet to chose to act stupiidly...she fit tink say na rape u wan do...in short op u fvck up

vizkiz:
I have watched this movie before. Jim ike is the guy and tonto dike is the girl. Desmond eliot is the new boyfriend.

Abeg somebody should remind me the title of the movie

WILL LOVE EVER COME 1,2,3 and I think 4 is out but not Sure.

vizkiz:
I have watched this movie before. Jim ike is the guy and tonto dike is the girl. Desmond eliot is the new boyfriend.

Abeg somebody should remind me the title of the movie

Foolish love

See me see trouble oh, if she dey avoid u re-avoid her nah..

Lol. . What kind of foolish love is this?



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Tychinzy:

bro somebody is serioisly fcccking her good than u can ever fccck her

you just lost your childhood your friend

This is really pathetic i kno hw u feel but giv her some little space den u make a way out and hav a discussion wit her one on one, tell her how u deeply feel nd watch the out come.... Goodluck

vizkiz:
I have watched this movie before. Jim ike is the guy and tonto dike is the girl. Desmond eliot is the new boyfriend.

Abeg somebody should remind me the title of the movie

Bascard ... THE CHILDHOOD FRIEND, THE GIRL , AND THE NEW BOYFRIEND SEASON 5

obontami:
bro somebody is serioisly fcccking her good than u can ever fccck her

I kno Dera more than she even knows herself, she isnt keen on sex. And it is not possible

missmary:


Bascard ... THE CHILDHOOD FRIEND, THE GIRL , AND THE NEW BOYFRIEND SEASON 5

it isnt funny i need an advice not mockery comments

Tychinzy:
I kno Dera more than she even knows herself, she isnt keen on sex. And it is not possible

guy if dem fccck her toto for outside she go come tell you ??


Omoba forget dat thing jooor

SUGARBEE:
Lol. . What kind of foolish love is this?



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U may call it foolish but i know exactly how i feel and of all d gurls i hav had, neva loved any the way i love dis girl

Tychinzy:
The post is quite long but pls read because ur advice is needed Iam kinda new on Nairaland, been reading lots of advice request frm peeps hia and i tink i really do need one.....my bestfriend from childhood has always bn Chidera, we hav bn very close friends for abt 17yrs now, but later on i noticed i had developed a very strong feelin for her but cudnt tell her because we wia more like siblings and family frnds. Moreova she wont bliv me because bn a cute boi i had quite a number of girlfrnds already in secondary school which she knew of. We got into the university d same year and graduated the same period, but i noticed dat wen we wia posted for our NYSC she stopped really having my time or spendin time wit me because she had fallen in love wit another corper guy dat isnt half as cute as iam. This guy took away d only person dat matter'd to me apart frm God and ma family, weneva i come around to her lodge she was always abt goin out to hang out with dis guy, i died several times. And knowin fully well dat Dera is still a V!rgin am scared of her loosin it to someone dat might not love her dat much. Dis guy made her even forget my birthday for the 1st in 17yrs and i felt like dying, i only got a birthday text later in d evenin.....now the problem started wen she came to my apartment the next day to give me ma present i lured her into the kitchen in pretence dat i wanted giving her, her own share of the bithday cake and immediately we got into d kitchen i cudnt help but swallow her mouth in mine with a very hot deep kiss. Mehn in all d girls i hav dated and had flings with none had a soft and succulent kiss as hers. Afta alot of struggle frm her i free'd her and she ran off. Bn callin her line since den and she isnt pickin hav gone to her lodge severally but always meets it locked. She isnt replyin ma txt msg, bbm pings or whatsapp chat and its killing me.....i need an advice on wat to do pls peeps

take it from me..

donholy28:
Foolish love

You're wicked

Tychinzy:
it isnt funny i need an advice not mockery comments

SORRY BACK TO THE MATTER
She knows you thoroughly... You may be cute but your not what she wants or with the way she has seen you with other girls she probably learned to take her mind off you thinking you didnt like her that way....Might not make sense telling her how much you love her now cos when she needed to Hear it you werent giving it... You were not bothered since there wasnt into any guy... Na she had moved on too.. And you are worried.. Talking to her(if possible sleep in front of her place) is an option at the same time letting her go is advisable....

REMEMBER chidera is no more a child...

what is LOVE?

missmary:

SORRY BACK TO THE MATTER
She knows you thoroughly... You may be cute but your not what she wants or with the way she has seen you with other girls she probably learned to take her mind off you thinking you didnt like her that way....Might not make sense telling her how much you love her now cos when she needed to Hear it you werent giving it... You were not bothered since there wasnt into any guy... Na she had moved on too.. And you are worried.. Talking to her(if possible sleep in front of her place) is an option at the same time letting her go is advisable....

Tnx plenty but it cud be really painful watchin someone dat has always bn part of u for long part of ur life go just like dat.

tell her how u feel about her, text it if u can or email her but let her know how u feel about her. you took her by surprise and that's why she's reacting that way, don't give up on her because according to your writeup you've known her for a long time and she will be a good partner to u. u should have told her of your feelings long before now. goodluck.

Y didn't u tell her how u feel, d least she would have done is say NO or she might surprise u nd say YES

But u were too forward, now ur best friend is angry with you, just pray u don't loose her friendship, try nd give her some time, den u talk to her, don't invite her over to ur house, cos am sure she will be having doubts in her mind after wat happened

my brother don't be stupid! Let her go.

"He is not half as cute as you are"...........i pity guys that thinks all a lady is drawn to is their handsomeness..........smh

Hmmmmmm,op u r mumu. Y don't u let dis girl knw u love him wen u were in sch? U r now crying,u better leave her nd move with ur life.

SMH
U NEVA KNOW D VALUE OF WHAT U GAT TILL IT'S GONE
U R JUST ONE JEALOUS BUTTHOLE
Y u no tell her ur mind since?
Now u r only jealous
VIRGINITY ON UR MIND
AFTER U DIS VIRGIN HER...SHE AUTOMATICALLY BECOMES A SIDE CHICK
LET HER
U DON'T DESERVE HER
U R JUST LUSTIN AFTER HER NOT LOVE
ADVICE
STAY OFF HER
GOD SAVE U SAY NO B MY BABE
DAT UR MOUTH FOR NO EAT FOOD FOR A WEEK COZ I GO SO BUST AM EHN!!!

My dear nairaland is the worst place u can bring ya problem to.. back to the topic tell her ya sorry bfor jumping into all dose i love u stuff and if she doesn't love u den u free her..Life is too short abeg

vizkiz:
I have watched this movie before. Jim ike is the guy and tonto dike is the girl. Desmond eliot is the new boyfriend.

Abeg somebody should remind me the title of the movie

Movie title : ... LIE AnD DECEIT pt1