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Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Mzdivacious(f): 7:51pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
midehi2:
nice write-up girl thanks dear its an old thread tho |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by midehi2(f): 7:57pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
Mzdivacious: thanks dear its an old thread tho yea, just stumble on it now |
Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by uche92(m): 8:05pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
Lol going by this list I am never getting married Ni wahala Mzdivacious: The way some guys act clearly indicate that they will end up as chronic headache for their wives in the nearest future if care is not taken. I can’t really blame guys who are involved in the act of humiliating ladies in public and online because these ladies in question must have torment their heart but going to the extent of destroying their intrinsic values is the major concern here. Therefore let’s take a look at signs that indicate a guy will become an irresponsible husband.
1. Extremely stingy Some guys are so stingy to the extent that they can’t call their girlfriends for just 1minute in a day. The only time they call for long period is during free night calls or bonus awarded from telecom providers. If they call for 30secs, they will hang up and later explain through whatsapp/BBM that it was network failure.
2. Highly promiscuous This issue is common to perverts who has never zipped up for once in their life by chasing every tom and harry in skirt. These are the kinds that will eventually become sugar daddy, chasing ladies who are young enough to be their daughter in future.
3. Very lazy Some guys are so idle to the extent that they have no goal, vision and purpose in life. They are just too lazy to seize opportunities around them as they are only seen in betting shops like nairabet, etc. to make money.
4. Ridicule ladies I hate when a guy beat or disgrace his girlfriend in public just because she hangs out with a guy. I consider this as a dysfunctional act because a man in making will not stoop so low to involve himself in this thrash. Meanwhile on nairaland some consider all ladies as whores of which we still have the rare and good ones like mhizkel, prettythicksme, redgem, aminat508, midehi, adeh39 and others.
5. Habit of alcoholism and smoking For a guy that consume too much alcohol and smoke probably in the bid to control his anger is not a man. Such guys cannot become responsible husbands to their wives because they can use children’s school fee and other budgetary money to drink and smoke.
6. Wrong lifestyle Some guys rock and roll with the wrong peer groups who have influence them to have shameful lifestyles like yahoo yahoo occupation, rape gangs and area touts.
7. Careless attitude The way some guys behave can be likened to a voracious animal. They dump and change ladies like sanitary pads as they care less about their emotion by suggesting abortion for any sex journey that becomes foetus.
8. Poor financial planning Some guys blow money like trumpet without thinking about future investment. They spend their money on vague things like phones, prostitutes, etc. Such guys will eventually become an irresponsible husband.
9. Bad listening habit: most guys have this habit and it results in ineffective communication, which usually have an adverse impact on the productivity of the individual and their relationships. Poor listening definitely make a huge, negative impact on team morale and productivity. This situation usually results in conflicts and misunderstandings among partners , and it creates a negative environment.
10. Lack of Self control : some guys lack the ability to control their emotions, behavior, and desires. Guys should constantly be striving towards self-control and discipline, because these are foundations of integrity. One thing they need to understand about self-control is that it is not as much about saying no to certain fleshly desires, lusts and cravings but more about living and abundant life free from addiction regret and shame.
11. Interrupting a conversation: guys are good at Interrupting a conversation with improper body language or inappropriate words and this has a negative impact on their relationships. My bf does this a lot and it annoys me… I’ve told him severally yet, he can’t stop it.
12. Dirty: some guys are so dirty that if they should pass you, oh my God! you won’t be able to breathe for hours and most of them term it sexy…. Imagine animal odour is now sexy ta…go and sleep it’s a turn off to we ladies.. We love guys that are neat, guys that organizes their home. 13. Bragging : some guys brag a lot eg MrCork I have no problem with a guy having money. However, I do have a problem when you decide to treat women like gold-diggers whose eyes are bound to widen at the mention of “Bugatti”. Yes, we like money, just like you men, but that doesn’t mean you should also shout it…. Brags are a turn off for me
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Re: 13 Signs That Show Your Boyfriend Will Make An Irresponsible Husband by Rapsowdee01(m): 8:19pm On Jan 31, 2016 |
Mzdivacious: lol,im a mess atm...normally its instagram,nairaland n twitter in that order when im fully active,id inform u,maybe even add u on bbm That'll be great... I just hope i've fixed my phone by that time |