My bf is 40 in a couple of months i dont want to let it pass without doing some-thing special for him, i have suggested a party but he doesnt want one, so i need some suggestions of what i can do for him, so would love to hear any ideas you may have, thanks

what does he like?

how long have you dated?

Is it too late to get in touch with his family to find out things he likes?

sistawoman:

what does he like?

how long have you dated?

Is it too late to get in touch with his family to find out things he likes?

Start by supplying those infos and also what kind of person is he?
It will be useful in dispensing some advice to you.

I’m afraid there’s nothing I can really contribute since you’re the one dating him, so you should know what he likes and what he doesn’t like.

We have dated for 4 yrs i have not met his family as of yet , he is seperated from his wife, so he had certain issues to sort out, so will be meeting his family in the near future, he loves his designer clothes, listening to music, cars, football, hennesey

Does he like culture events, plays, live music?

find out what his fav. bands are and if they are in town.

Take him to a new play he has not seen

Get him tickets to his fav. football team play vs thier rival.

Get him some clothes from his fav. shop.

Buy him the lastest CD from his fav. artist or an oldy that is scrached in his collection.

If he listens to cd in the car and he does not have a cd case buy him one.

what has he looked at but could not buy that you can get him?
What things are on his I will have to do that one day list?

Thanks sistawoman, yeah he likes live music, he is a man u fan so will check to see if they are playing in aug, as for the cds and cases got him all them, just want to something different from the normal things you buy tickets for the footie is a good idea, once again thanks a million

since you live in Ireland maybe you both can have a romantic train ride to Paris and have a birthday weekend.

I did something similar for my 30th bday

do what ever you know he fancies

The big 4 - 0?

Only one thing for it, then.


Sun, sea, sand, sangria, blah blah yada yada.


You get the drift. You know the drill.

Romantic strolls along sun soaked beaches

Candlelit dinners

A little sailing in a boat?


And when the moon and stars are lighting up the night skies

















Y'all can bang like rabbits!

Please, don't thank me. It's all part of the service, luv

thanks guys i now have some food for thought, love the idea of a hol, so i think it will be of to sunny spain or where ever there is sun so we can have some fun in the sun,

~ ChuckWoody GOD help u. . . How do rabbits again? LoL!

which month is the bday?
what is the budget?
Any traveling limitations?

His birthday is in august, about 800euro budget, thats without the spends, chuckwoody i was talkin about sun sea sand & sangrea

xxcarolxx:

His birthday is in august, about 800euro budget, thats without the spends, chuckwoody i was talkin about sun sea sand & sangrea

€800? You got enough for a flight to Sevilla, Nice or better still Barcelona. Barca's a lovely city. Took a chick there once. Architecture, food, shops (for chicks), and a beach or two. Very pretty. And back at the hotel she let me know she appreciated it. A lot!

ChuckWoody:

€800? You got enough for a flight to Sevilla, Nice or better still Barcelona. Barca's a lovely city. Took a chick there once. Architecture, food, shops (for chicks), and a beach or two. Very pretty. And back at the hotel she let me know she appreciated it. A lot!

Yeah you are very right. Barcelona is sure a lovely city. Just that in my case, never took a lady there, rather I met a chic there. And sure, no need for ideas as she had all the ideas I could never even imagine.

I would cook something and bring him to the beach in the day time. And than buy movie tickets and bring him to a movie and than we go home, I'll give him a massage and a spa and then after the spa I would give him a gift basket with vouchers in it. Be creative. . . You can add some fruits, some flowers, a card to decorate the basket. . . Maybe a condom or sumthin. . .The vouchers can be as follows:-

1) Massage (yeah. . . U can indicate full body massage or head massage and how long the duration and stuff like that)
2) Personal space (Like he can use the cousher if he needed somespace from you. . . Like a time out. . . )
3) Mouth Action (Yeah. . . U know what I mean  )
4) hot sex (Eheheheheh!)
5) I'll do whatever you want me to do for a day     

etc etc. . . Just a few examples. You can put like terms and conditions and an expiry date and stuff liek that but dont be too fussy on this or he will loose interest in this gift basket.

After he thank you than you can finish off the night with hot sex.     

Thanks guys, gonna have sum fun puttin this together, put it this way he wont forget this bday in a hurry,