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What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by flamboyantOFR: 9:15pm On Sep 16, 2015
Dear reader(s),
I have a friend (lady) and we are so intimate. Infact, she is my best friend for now coz i understand her so much.

Secondly, i have a girlfriend I intend to marry and she (my friend) also have someone she intends to get married to. But we are so intimate, and we often spend time together.

Of recent, it appears we have real feelings for each other but our relationship status and religious differences are preventing us from going beyond that. But honestly, we are very happy with each other...

Now, considering the strings attached, what do you suggest we do?
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by adedayourt(m): 9:18pm On Sep 16, 2015
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Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by ammyluv2002(f): 9:19pm On Sep 16, 2015
Not clear
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by adedayourt(m): 9:21pm On Sep 16, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Not clear

he has a gf

his female frend has a bf


he nd his female frend seem vry close nd av feelins fr each oda but av differences in religion

wat sud he do

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Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by cozy7(m): 9:23pm On Sep 16, 2015
This religion factor Is a serious issue, u better mind your individual relationships. Let me simply advice u to break up your "friendship" with her so u both could mind your individual relationships. STOP BEING GREEDY.
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by Nobody: 9:24pm On Sep 16, 2015
Do your GF a huge favour & don't marry her. What you do with your "best friend" is up to you.
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by datYoyo2000(m): 9:26pm On Sep 16, 2015
You have a fiancee
And she has a fiance

Op, if you want to live longer than ur ancestors, don't take another man's wife okay.

For crying out loud you have someone already.
Lust is common to some persons but they call it Love.

Wise up man.

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Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by yanabasee(m): 9:40pm On Sep 16, 2015
OP.... One thing is certain... There is a huge difference between friendship and marriage. Being intimate doesn't mean true love... It's simply lust.

Well... The situation is in ur hands... You alone can decide as a man to move on with the one you'll be more comfortable living with the rest of ur life or the one that loves u and u dnt love her back!

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Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by Nobody: 9:48pm On Sep 16, 2015
This lady u claim to be ur bestfriend for now, how long have u guys known each other?
Have u guys really quarelled, have u guys tested each other's trust? It takes a lot to accept one as a bestfriend but I don't know ur criteria of one becoming ur bestfriend. I hope u ain't lusting over her.
Ur bestfriend is in a relationship, please respect that.
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by ksbusari(m): 9:55pm On Sep 16, 2015
Pls don't go into teachin profession
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by IamLEGEND1: 9:58pm On Sep 16, 2015
so basically u're telling her is u have a boo
and u got a side-boo
and ur side boo has got a boo...
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by flamboyantOFR: 10:06pm On Sep 16, 2015
castroevans:
This lady u claim to be ur bestfriend for now, how long have u guys known each other?
Have u guys really quarelled, have u guys tested each other's trust? It takes a lot to accept one as a bestfriend but I don't know ur criteria of one becoming ur bestfriend. I hope u ain't lusting over her.
Ur bestfriend is in a relationship, please respect that.

Seriously we've known each other for long and we've even intentionally try to provoke each other but its not working. These days, we r no longer hiding our feeling. We r just pretending to respect our individual relationships
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by flamboyantOFR: 10:09pm On Sep 16, 2015
ksbusari:
Pls don't go into teachin profession

Why please?
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by flamboyantOFR: 10:21pm On Sep 16, 2015
cozy7:
This religion factor Is a serious issue, u better mind your individual relationships. Let me simply advice u to break up your "friendship" with her so u both could mind your individual relationships. STOP BEING GREEDY.

You have a point...
Re: What's Your Advice On This Relationship... by ksbusari(m): 10:22pm On Sep 16, 2015
flamboyantOFR:


Why please?
i could nt understand wot u wrote ni. I'm a slow learner sha.

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