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Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 8:25am On Sep 19, 2015
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Re: Help I'm Confused. by munchfani: 8:27am On Sep 19, 2015
GO OUT AND GET A REAL BOYFRIEND NOT A RE..TARDED SCAMMER

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 8:28am On Sep 19, 2015
if you like his online personality and you want to date him then give him a chance of meeting him. You might not like what you see those undecided but whatever your conclusion is after meeting let him know immediately.



Not only guys are scared of commitment these days and I think the reason for that is the fear of heartbreaks. Moreover some people can't combine relationship with other things like school, work etc with one affecting the other


Good luck lady smiley

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by ifex370(m): 8:32am On Sep 19, 2015
don't bring up the topic again... guys normally originate the topic of meeting if they interested

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 8:36am On Sep 19, 2015
He's probably a catfish. Have you actually seen what he looks like? It makes no sense that you still haven't met all this time even with plenty of opportunity to do so.

Someone once told me that, to know the genuinity of someone, watch & see if their words match up to their actions. Talk is cheap. Action speaks louder.

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Slimzjoe(m): 8:40am On Sep 19, 2015
You're in Love with a 'FAKE' the Dude is Probably not all he has made you believe
Re: Help I'm Confused. by pet4ril(f): 8:44am On Sep 19, 2015
This one fit be one chance oooo in your next meeting day, disappoint him too to see his reaction. Butt I will advise you remove anything called like for now
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 9:20am On Sep 19, 2015
PunkyVeer:
He's probably a catfish. Have you actually seen what he looks like? It makes no sense that you still haven't met all this time even with plenty of opportunity to do so.

Someone once told me that, to know the genuinity of someone, watch & see if their words match up to their actions. Talk is cheap. Action speaks louder.
in terms of seeing what he look like tru pictures, yes i av buh we both knw i could use some1 else's pix.
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 9:23am On Sep 19, 2015
pet4ril:
This one fit be one chance oooo in your next meeting day, disappoint him too to see his reaction. Butt I will advise you remove anything called like for now
i doubt Der would be a nxt meeting, dude says he's waiting for a special moment or right tym for us to meet.
Re: Help I'm Confused. by UnknownT: 9:26am On Sep 19, 2015
Lol. Maybe the guy doesnt have the amount he feels that is enough to cater for the "meeting" expenses. He keeps postponing it till the money he is saving completes then he will start disturbing you and may start sounding desperate to meet you

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by UnknownT: 9:28am On Sep 19, 2015
Ego2:
i doubt Der would be a nxt meeting, dude says he's waiting for a special moment or right tym for us to meet.
he dey wait make em money complete. or else una go wash plate cos u guys will prolly meet in a eatery at first grin
Re: Help I'm Confused. by twixx(f): 9:31am On Sep 19, 2015
you can try skyping, to see if he is really the guy in the pictures and if he refuses to video chat then he is Definitely a catfish

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 9:34am On Sep 19, 2015
UnknownT:
Lol. Maybe the guy doesnt have the amount he feels that is enough to cater for the "meeting" expenses. He keeps postponing it till the money he is saving completes then he will start disturbing you and may start sounding desperate to meet you
lwkmd
Re: Help I'm Confused. by cruzyteejay(m): 9:35am On Sep 19, 2015
This guy is probably my type just that i don't disappoint as far as am the one that wants to meet you,i may put up excuses if its the girl that wants to meet me......................my style tho






JUST WANNA MAKE COMMON SENSE
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 9:35am On Sep 19, 2015
twixx:
you can try skyping, to see if he is really the guy in the pictures and if he refuses to video chat then he is Definitely a catfish
that's one idea i didn't think about. Thanks:*
Re: Help I'm Confused. by cruzyteejay(m): 9:38am On Sep 19, 2015
twixx:
you can try skyping, to see if he is really the guy in the pictures and if he refuses to video chat then he is Definitely a catfish

the girl is using Nokia c3 while the guy is using asha 205 angry
twixx:
you can try skyping, to see if he is really the guy in the pictures and if he refuses to video chat then he is Definitely a catfish

the girl is using Nokia c3 while the guy is using asha 205
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 9:39am On Sep 19, 2015
cruzyteejay:
This guy is probably my type just that i don't disappoint as far as am the one that wants to meet you,i may put up excuses if its the girl that wants to meet me......................my style tho






JUST WANNA MAKE COMMON SENSE
your style huh? To the girl u claim to love after all the sms, chats, voice notes, calls burning ur airtime talking for hours nt minding ur airtime huh

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 9:40am On Sep 19, 2015
cruzyteejay:

the girl is using Nokia c3 while the guy is using asha 205 angry
the girl is using Nokia c3 while the guy is using asha 205
wicked

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 9:42am On Sep 19, 2015
Ego2:
i doubt Der would be a nxt meeting, dude says he's waiting for a special moment or right tym for us to meet.

He's full of jokes. What a clown! Special moment? Like when pigs fly? He's not eager enough, which means he's hiding something. It's either he's in a relationship or that's not really him on the pics he showed you. I hope you haven't fallen for him just yet. Please cut him loose & save yourself the heartache of coming to terms with the fact that he's an illusionist that's busy blowing smoke up your @ss with some BS fairytale about a "special moment".

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by cruzyteejay(m): 9:50am On Sep 19, 2015
Ego2:
your style huh? To the girl u claim to love after all the sms, chats, voice notes, calls burning ur airtime talking for hours nt minding ur airtime huh


sorry to say,i enjoy chatting and calling online friends(unknown),the only difference from mine is that i hardly say "I LOVE YOU".....and if dares say then reverse will be the case,we will meet right away
Re: Help I'm Confused. by cruzyteejay(m): 9:54am On Sep 19, 2015
Ego2:
wicked

like me now,i fitn't skype grin
Ego2:
wicked

like me now,i fitn't skype
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 9:57am On Sep 19, 2015
PunkyVeer:
He's probably a catfish. Have you actually seen what he looks like? It makes no sense that you still haven't met all this time even with plenty of opportunity to do so.

Someone once told me that, to know the genuinity of someone, watch & see if their words match up to their actions. Talk is cheap. Action speaks louder.

Who taught you sense overnight? grin
Re: Help I'm Confused. by omoseth(m): 10:03am On Sep 19, 2015
Maybe he's somebody you know from a distant and he's probably afraid of showing up.
Seriously,I think the Dude is just playing with your emotions.

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 10:11am On Sep 19, 2015
Sabrwahaqqo:


Who taught you sense overnight? grin

The dreamcatcher over my bed tongue
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 19, 2015
PunkyVeer:

The dreamcatcher over my bed tongue
I was thunderstruc
grin ... I mean Awestruck cheesy
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 10:19am On Sep 19, 2015
PunkyVeer:

The dreamcatcher over my bed tongue
I was thunderstruc
grin ... I mean Awestruck cheesy
Re: Help I'm Confused. by pet4ril(f): 10:40am On Sep 19, 2015
Ego2:
i doubt Der would be a nxt meeting, dude says he's waiting for a special moment or right tym for us to meet.
then ignore him and everything about his social networks... this life in too. sweet to be. Wallowing in imaginations

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Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 12:16pm On Sep 19, 2015
HMMMMM, girls with there internet dating, u never know he is an old man or not, an image u just like. oky oo
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Ego2(f): 8:36pm On Oct 09, 2015
Justinzki:
HMMMMM, girls with there internet dating, u never know he is an old man or not, an image u just like. oky oo
lolz
Re: Help I'm Confused. by 247notire(m): 5:29pm On Jan 24, 2016
Ego2:
[i][/i] my plight goes like this, i got into a relationship with this guy on the 14 of Feb 2015 buh it was tru d net n our means of communication have been over d phone and any social platform, he claims to love me n all, and to b sincere i kinda like his personality or do i say is personality over d net( we haven't met). Now this is where I'm having problem wif him, whenever we fix a date of meeting he blows it up or comes up with silly excuses, now that got mi thinking probably he's a ghost or an alien cos its weird how u claim to love some1 buh meeting the person becomes a problem to you, thinking about all dis had brought me to the conclusion of putting an end to the whole tin tho he's been pleading for a second chance wif the excuse of been scared of commitment @1st n nw he's ready for 1, how do i know if he's been serious or not and secondly why are guys scared of commitments.
Hi dear. Can I meet u? Are u on bbm pls?
Re: Help I'm Confused. by Nobody: 5:35pm On Jan 24, 2016
Things like this means the guy doesnt love the girl at all !

If u love someone u will b eager to meet the person no matter ow anxious

Or he prolly have another gf just using u to while away time mayb cos d gf is far away too


He is a player leave !

Well d worst feeling in life is d feeling of been used up!

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