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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Springz(f): 8:06pm On Sep 21, 2015
FriedPlantain:
You do know " no offeinse" is a popular phrase used by a popular troll on nairaland, right? undecided I only used it to mock the guy.
Okay.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by fajani(m): 8:20pm On Sep 21, 2015
FriedPlantain:
Ar u sayin u see nofin rong wen ppu abbrivte two letter words 2 u? undecided
it's not wrong if it's not an essay competition
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by xtervaganza(m): 9:02pm On Sep 21, 2015
pryme:
seems you are not being convincing. if you are, she will get the msg and leave you
] e em to me you have never been with a crazy chic
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by obontami: 9:38pm On Sep 21, 2015
FTBOY:
i don't know why i don't get this lucky. well...such is life. girls are always running after toothless bulldogs like severussnape and the op but when they see pvssy destroyers like me and my paddy, obon_tami, they go the opposite way
i dey tell u my brother, person see sara toto e still dey complain


people dey sha
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Sep 21, 2015
llaykorn:


#Miss

Ar u syn u c nfin rng wn ppu abrvt 2 wds 2 ltr u? grin
Chai, you don tey for this game mehn. grin grin
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 11:04pm On Sep 21, 2015
Afrok:
U are being gentle with her but she doesn't want to listen, why not try the HARD WAY, THE ONLY WAY.
Hard way is not better mister, he should be more concerned about what she would do to him if he succeeds with the hard way. E be like you don't know those people, if she vex for you e don be!.

Best is stay with her and keep reducing the attention, she go tire.

#MyOpinion

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by dhappyking(m): 7:57am On Sep 22, 2015
It not the dough , Bro. It will take more than your sermons, reasoning, beating or even blackmail to change her. You just can't! Scram while you've still got a chance. She will use every arsenal at her disposa, especially emotional black mail to keep you in this Mary go round of cheat- beg - forgive-cheat again- beg. Your time is ticking away and she can not take away the dream relationship you plan unless you allow her.
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 10:05am On Sep 22, 2015
To tell u the truth I have always had runs girls around me right from uni days whether I was dating at the time or not I quickly found out that these girls were the best friends (girls) u could have if there is no emotional attachments from urside oo.. while most guys where forming player back then I was playing & pimping more ..they are the best whether u are down or up they never let u fall,they could be ur eyes & ears although they mostly can't keep secrets except u know how to make rules and make them follow it..what am saying is no need to chase her away just detach urself emotionally and be a friend to her with benefits of course cos if u just stop to give am like that na war u go face o..lay down rules for her let her know her boundaries and if she can't cope she will find her way ... I believe she would back out early cos she wouldn't understand the transition cos u already showed her ur emotion...and don't ever try to change her or preach to her she knew what she was getting herself into initially..she will only change when the time comes..nothing u or anyone can do or say about that..its just the way it is.

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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Nobody: 11:18am On Sep 22, 2015
You mean your Inlove with Ashawoo? what is Runs girl? just say You love Prostitute and want to run away from her. undecided
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Geesanni: 11:28am On Sep 22, 2015
goodafter nairaland,i jst finised my nysc some few years ago,coudnt get a high paying job as an oil well engineer,i became fustrated but settle for an average pay job in an i.t company as a software engineer.i then needed an accomodation,so me and my new divorce aunty decided to stay together so as to save cost.Meanwhile she had travelled to bury her 11yrs daughter that jst died of accident,so i was the one that search for agent and secure a room and parlour self contain in lagos.my agent introduce me to the landlord(60yrs plus of age),i told him t point blank that it is me and my aunty that is staying together,showed him my i.d card and agree on the amount as(180k for house rent,agreement and agent fee 60k plus 10k refundable damages).Notwithstanding,i have missed 2 good houses i wanted initially even for 150k so i had no choice than to accept the 180k house because the house doesnt worth it.i was also travelling to kano for a field job of which am suppose to stay two weeks,so i called the agent dat am coming,with my money and but am coming with some of my loads because i wud be travelling for field work the nextday,and i dont want to miss the house again and need to sec ure the house with some of my load but am not sleeping or staying there till i come back from 2 wks travelling.the agent said no wahala since my coming with my money.
when i got to the agent with some of my loads,he said why should i come with load,i was so angry dat i said but the agent himself said i can come wth some of my load,(thank god i had a witness when i called the agent if i can come with load and dat same witness too was very angry because he came also with me.)so we headed to meet the landlord,i brought out the money(220k out of 250k i was suppose to pay in total sum and said after when i come back from travelling in 2wks i will balance up and also emphasized i and my aunty is staying together,he agreed ,i paid with an eyewitness and two agent present.i then made a wriiten statement of which we all signed (but the landlord refused to sign)and the landlord kept it,but on the landlord getting to know i came with my load,he changed his mouth dat rent is still 180k,agreement is 70k instead of 60k we agreed earlier,10k for damages and 12k for water yearly which i must pay with my rent,i was so angry,12k for water then why was it flat.i HAD NO CHOICE BUT I agreed(now total sum of 272k).i put in some of my load and left immediately back to my former house.i travelled 3days later and came back after two weeks and balance up,then i ask for receipt but he said he wud give me later(i taught d 12k water fee was for fuel incase there is no light because he sells water,but NO, and HE DOES not even pump water to the flat if there is no light) .After 1wks,my aunty came back to lagos and i brought her in.To my greatest surprise the landlord rebuke me,spark,rage and said i have no right to bring my aunty to stay with me with her(3kids).i go to work and come back late everyday so he want me to always leave empty house and stay only on wknd. i got angry called the agent and told him if i never said i was staying with my aunty,the agent confirmed i said dat but the landlord then changed his mouth dat he thought she was single and i should come and collect my money,i begged him(for 5days) like a cool dude of which am not suppose to do.
He disagree, because i dont want to go to the stress of looking for a house again.i ,my aGENT and aunty WENT TO search for a new house in dat area(because of job location)and got a good one better and cheap (150k).we approached my landlord he should give us our 272k which he said he wud give us,he said he must follow us to the new house and pay by himself.he refused to give us the money and later plead with us to stay.i was so pissed off dat my mind was totally not interested to stay again,but my aunty plead wth me dat we shud stay and 4get wat happen.we stayed, everyday was more fustrating in the house by the man.he wud never let my 3 nieces (little kid )be and get angry unneccesarilly.
Meanwhile i ask for receipt always and he refuses to give us dat he wud give us later. after 4 months(refusing to give us receipt),he called me oneday, when my aunty has travelled leaving his 3 kid with me and said i should fill a form,i read the form and saw dat it was agreement form.
To my greatest surprise,i saw dat he gave a condition in the form that anytime the he needs his house dat am entithle to one mouth quick notice only( instead of 6 months because we pay 1 year rent).i became mad again,but dis time i demanded we needed our receipt first,he said no until i fill dat his form b4 we will collect our receipt.DIS MAN PLEAD with US TO STAY,HE REFUSE TO REFUND OUR MONEY AFTER 2WKS WE PACKED IN,AND UP TILL NOW (4 MONTHS)HE REFUSES TO GIVE ME MY RECEIPT THREATENING ME WITH PARTIAL QUICK NOTICE DAT AM ENTITHLE TO 1 MONTH.PLS FELLOW NAIRALANDER AND NIGERIANS,AS A FELLOW FUSTRATED YOUNG GUY MANAGING HIMSELF,AN OLD MAN WANT TO TAKE AWAY D LABOUR I SWEAT FOR OUT OF FUSTRATION(272K, HE USE MY MONEY FOR BUSSINESS FOR 4 MONTHS AND WANT TO DUMP ME) NOW DAT HE FELT HE HAS USE ME FOR MAKING MONEY.I NEED A HELP URGENTLY,ADVICE ,AN NGO ,LAGOS STATE HOUSING MANAGEMENT,AND A CIVIL DEFENCE LAWYER TO COME TO MY HELP BECAUSE AM LIKE A WOUNDED LION PUSHED TO THE WALL DAT CAN DO ANYTHING TO REVENGE THE LANDLORD,I MAY MAKE HEADLINE(4 BAD NEWS DAT HAPPEN TO A WHOLE COMPOUND) SOONEST IF AM NOT BEEN HELP BY NECESSARY AUTHORITY because I CRY WHILE WALKING AND THE LANDLORD IS MAKING HELL OUT OF ME AND MY PPLE.PLS NAIRALAND AND NIGERIANS PLS HELP ME.u can email me on gee.koko@yahoo.com.au for help ,i stay in lagos, HELP ME ABEG ,NA OJODU BERGER FOR OLOWORA NEAR OMOLE PHASE 2 LAGOS STATE(INFACT N0 8 ALFRED AKEN STREET OLOWORA OJODU BERGER LAGOS STATE,HIS NO IS 08034343551),I HEARD FROM STREET PEOPLE DAT ABOUT FIVE CO-TENENTS HAVE PACKED OUT IN DAT HOUSE B4 THEIR HOUSE RENT EXPIRE DUE TO THE MALTREATMENT OF THE LANDLORD.THANKS
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by frankcris(m): 11:24pm On Sep 30, 2015
Runs girl na girl naw...
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by Enockia(m): 1:11am On Oct 01, 2015
ChiSun27:
It all started sometimes early this year...it just happend and we connected. On my own part....I never knew she was a runs girl. She's jovial and caring.

I actually took her serious until I discovered her true identity and ever since that day....my emotional attachment to her reduced speedily.

I confronted her and she admitted living such a life but that she's willing to change if I'm ready to make her my 'one and only'. But to my utmost dismay, this girl no gree change. Her urge for money is on the high side and she believes that all those her runs yields faster income.

Wetin dey pain me be say, this girl get better handwork. But she doesn't want to manage her life with the income that comes from her handwork as she tags it 'not enough'.

I have tried my possible best to advise her on how she can improve on her hand work because the income is mouth watering yet she is not satisfied with it due to her extravagant life style.


As a matter of fact, I don pursue her on countless occasions, but she will still come back with her stylish way of begging, change kwanu...she won't change.

Peeps, I'm tired...I want to send this girl away from my life (but not the wicked way) because her life style is gradually tarnishing my good image and reputation especially amongst my friends.

Don't know if anyone in the house has been in this kind of crossroads before...if yes....how did you solve the problem?


dont send her away...hehehe send her to me
Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by kennykg(m): 5:53am On Oct 02, 2015
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Re: A 'runs Girl' Is In Love With Me: How Do I Send Her Away? by africandictator(m): 6:31am On Nov 04, 2015
kennybrasco:
africandiicktator. Ha-ha...I can see am hitting you hard. But am yet to start. Lol

Shows how Angry you are now...Hehe.

For every 1 post I send...you reply with 2. Please make it 3.

Am sure your face is red now...Hopeless She-Goat. grin
it is evident in your write ups that you are nothing but a babylish self acclaimed adult who does not know his left from his right.. The way you express your self is very poor. My kid bro in the junior sec school cannot express his self like that. For you to be calling a guy a she goat, shows the level of your insanity. Perphaps you should consider getting a life.



"i am sure your face is red now"


Are you an albino?? who gets red often


"But am yet to start"

Where you even at the start line before.. Shows your joblessness


"I can see i am hitting you hard"


Are you gay?? Or you hitting your female ancestors/progenitors hard. bloody self-servicer!


"SHE GOAT''


This one is filled with humour. dude how old are you??


"Don't impinge on her human rights."

Its infringe not impinge dullard!

Well ermmm nairalanders the above person i am quoting is a gay dude! Follow up his recent posts and see his comments as regarding gay issues homophobic dudes like my self lets join hands and reorient his sexuality..

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