u better let him go now
becos once u enter into it, its 4 beta 4 worse
women like u tend to flirt later, becos u are not sat satisfied wit wat u have
Like i wld always say God's time is d best
Marriage is not a contract

u better dont rush into anytin becos u might meet ur choice later.

The outlook is registered in your brain already. No matter how much you spend on renovating him, you'll still keep seeing the same ugly face even in your dreams.You'll need to take your time and get someone you'll be attracted to, it really matters unless you're really pressed for a man and I don't see that happen in a normal situation. In a lighter mood, I'll suggest you trade the guy for a candy box or pass him down to those who are more desperate on N/L .

Its tough.
What are you considering?
The ugliness or lack of love?
If its the ugliness, that ain't enough reason not to wed him.

BlueDiva:

Its tough.
What are you considering?
The ugliness or lack of love?
If its the ugliness, that ain't enough reason not to wed him.

She doesn't love him either

If you get money - plastic surgery
If you no get money - buy him a mask

This is hard.

You've already condemned sm1 you're about to spend the rest of ur life with. Why can't u see past beauty?

And u could say "He is on the ugly side" and not presentable?

Na wa 4 u.

@poster, dear it is impossible to love wholeheartedly someone you are not attracted to. I will advise you let the relationship go, do not get commited due to desperation to settle down.

some girl thinking she is a woman. i say u wait grow up a little and know what marriage is all about.

So Nairaland is the ultimate human problem solution finder,can solve all human problems.@poster na face you dey use collect Akamu or na Yash?

Na wa ooo. So its fine boy you are after now,not love? so funny!!!!

i belive you lust after fine boyz cuz i dont understand your point in trying to reject him just because he is ugly. what has ur former fine boyfriends all done for you? are u still with them?

if you want,Leave the guy and just pray that one much more uglier does not come again since i dont even understand what u call ugly.

i hope ur bo is nt a nairalander, tis thread will be hard to miss. but come o, u, u fine? , hmm i hear by wat standards

Sky-walker:

Na wa ooo. So its fine boy you are after now,not love? so funny!!!!

i belive you lust after fine boyz cuz i dont understand your point in trying to reject him just because he is ugly. what has ur former fine boyfriends all done for you? are u still with them?

if you want,Leave the guy and just pray that one much more uglier does not come again since i dont even understand what u call ugly.

I GUESS SHE MUST 32 NOW, BY THE TIME SHE TURNS 40 SHE WILL COME BEGGING TARIBO WEST.

My own advice on the matter is for you not to get married to the man because you will not be happy with him. why? because you will be feeling shy going out with him. And if the man finds out that you are avoiding him he will not be happy with you.

Please do not marry him Married is forever only death can separate you. And also if you truly want happiness don't marry him.

Post his picture, lets analyze

akinalabi:

Post his picture, lets analyze 

the lady pics preferable.

Cover his ugly face with a pillow when foking the moda foker - you dig?

spikedcylinder:

To me, attractiveness is one of the key factors in any relationship, if its not there, its not there and its usually difficult to grow. Whats the use of getting married when you're going to get divorced later because you irritate the sh!t out of each other? Which stigma is worse socially - never married or divorcee?

Haba Never married is worse ooooo

at least for a divorcee, u can brag u have tasted what marriage looks and feels like

Most women pray hard not to marry attractive men, so that they dont loose him to those small small girls out there, you are here saying you dont like what God has given you, me I don tell you, when it is foking time, plaster his face with soap or cover his face with pillow.

i_laugh, am sure u talking from xperience

chei thats funny

Yes na, after we don give am advice tire, she still dey talk, una sure say she herself no ugly so?

@ poster,

you are very lucky that you have someone proposing marriage to you even though he is ugly, believe me so many beautiful girls are out there that are not even approached by men at all , so please make up your mind yourself.

It depends . . . @ Poster, are you attractive yourself? If not, then you shouldn't be bothered. Take myself for an example, I know I am very very ugly, so I decided to date a lady equally as ugly. Over 3 years now, we have not had any problems with our relationship. I know we were simply meant for each other.

server34:

It depends . . . @ Poster, are you attractive yourself? If not, then you shouldn't be bothered. Take myself for an example, I know I am very very ugly, so I decided to date a lady equally as ugly. Over 3 years now, we have not had any problems with our relationship. I know we were simply meant for each other.

You have got to be kidding me

Define ugly? i dont understand what people say there are ugly

i have never seem a fellow human being who does not look appealing to the eyes if that what u mean by ugly

I think this topic should be put to rest because the poster is not even responding.

For her to have come out and say the guy is ugly, guys, forget it, the lady does not deserve that guy.

@Sky-walker ,

Man, there are ugly pple in this world, its not their fault really. Thats how they were created.

server34:

It depends . . . @ Poster, are you attractive yourself? If not, then you shouldn't be bothered. Take myself for an example, I know I am very very ugly, so I decided to date a lady equally as ugly. Over 3 years now, we have not had any problems with our relationship. I know we were simply meant for each other.

wor wor amalgamation!!!

anyways,if u see the ugliness now,its gonna be worse afta marriage, so give him up for anoda person.

@ Negro_Ntns / @ Poster

Lady,

I think you’ll do him the HEIGHT of injustice if your marry him – (Because you want to be married), but if another guy comes along that you’re really attracted to  before your wedding day, I bet (99%) you’re let this guy go.  Even if he’s good in bed, but for the fact that you can’t stay in bed 24 * 7, what are you going to do when you’re not in bed?  also, I believe having sex and making love are to different extremes, and if you really love a guy you’re make love to him as a wife (That’s not to say you wouldn't have sex) but it really takes a level of physical chemistry to want a guy in a certain way to make love, ELSE, it’ll only be a better of time and you’re start going out of you’re matrimonial home to fine the one who you’re really attracted to physically.  

If you find him attractive, but he needs to improve in his addressing style that’s different, but if you don’t that him attractive THAT’S WHERE THE PROBLEM LAIDS.

A guy can wear jeans, a t-shirt and trainers and really look sexy, and a guy can wear a suit and look terrible, it’s not really about his addressing; the true question is IS THERE SOMETHING ABOUT HIS PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTES THAT TURNS YOU ON TO WANT HIM? If not let him go because with time you would not really be able to support and love him in the way that someone who finds him physically attractive and loves him would (And that’s where the injustice comes in).  Physical looks is a small % in marriage, but there should be enough for establish a chemistry.  There are so many more important attributes that you need to weigh up.

Pray about your choice,

I think marriage shouldn't be all abt attractiveness if you know what I mean. I'll tell u something my mom always tells me. No matter how ugly a man is, it's inside that counts. Better u marry a man who's not that hot and who'll look very attractive to you down the road cos of his virtues than a man who's an extremely hot SOB that you'll later hate.

As long as you're not embarassed to be seen by his side, then you're good to go.