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gurunlocker:
plot Na how much

.5K for 1 acre in sambisa. you go buy? contact shekau for details

Women are sometimes unstable.

plot Na how much

money121:
The presence of single mothers is becoming a widespread phenomenon in Lagos. In the past, people look at them with contempt and speak of their situation with disapproval. Although the scrutiny hasn’t totally disappeared, their increased number is becoming a norm.


5. Relativity It’s all relative. What works for one man could be detrimental to the other. Some women choose to be single mothers all by themselves. This is single mother by choice; some women crave to be that. Some of these women have gone past the marriageable age but desire to have children. While some choose to be single mothers because they resent being controlled by men.

New Generation Madness

Tallesty1:
Test Abuja babes and your post will never remain the same.

You have said it all. Some will pack into a man's house, dat one is called paper bag marriage, once dey get the sperm necessary to fertilise that egg, even give birth, dey move on. OP, as suggested, try do a proper survey in abuja, and repost this post or modify it. Hehehe



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ecel:
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what kinda website is this...you are not a serious person

Very true, very few married women in Lag are chaste. No wonder its tagged the city that never sleeps. Its always bubbling. It aint only in Lag though, some other places possess some of this features.

Another reason is that they fvck a lot, a lot.

SeverusSnape:


I think the above is the cardinal reason.
It's something that is becoming a norm, celebrities yeyebrities are also not helping matters; they now prefer baby mamas to lawfully wedded wives. I don't wish to be a baby papa. Indeed, Times have changed.

Your 'Pm'........Right word is 'Sugbon' not 'Sogbo'

Is their choice is nobody's biz

AdaNri1:
Better to be a single mother than a deceased wife. Another woman will come and take your place and use your children as lab rats

On the other hand, some women were hoping to use the pregnancy (child) as ATM machine from the father. Promiscuity is the name of the game

Hmmmm...... my eyes are now on you....

Most gals in lagos will definately be...single mom's...bastards go yakpa o...lol..

thelastgenius:



Your 'Pm'........Right word is 'Sugbon' not 'Sogbo'

But I didn't write 'sogbo'.

SeverusSnape:

But I didn't write 'sogbo'.

'Shogbo', 'Sogbo'..... both means same 'Did you hear'....... thers something called iparoje in Yoruba language.... That rule applies to words like that. i.e 'Oni iresi' = 'Oniresi'

I can point to so many single mothers today who is steadfast in all those things you listed as the cause and are still single. Those things ain't the reason, the reason is that they are simply blinded from the truth that will set them free.

thelastgenius:




'Shogbo', 'Sogbo'..... both means same 'Did you hear'....... thers something called iparoje in Yoruba language.... That rule applies to words like that. i.e 'Oni iresi' = 'Oniresi'

Okay sir. Thanks for the corrections, I'll effect it now.

Am tired of seeing, hearing and reading tales of woe about relationships and marriage. Am tired!

Don't even no what made me open this thread.

SeverusSnape:

Okay sir. Thanks for the corrections, I'll effect it now.

You're very welcome, i'm no sir...you might want to remove the 'H' in your 'Ishe' also.

end of days of marriage is here,women have lost it all, women nowadays re ticking timed bombs...men re tired and now run for their dear lives....

freecocoa:
Yea well, better a single mum than miserably married.

no its better,because men may live a bit longer,you women are something else nowadays...

Why does nairaland celebrate women bashing so much? One begins to wonder if these men were raised with women in their lives at all, why all the negativity.

But I believe its a reflection of our society at large and indeed it is said you can tell how developed a nation is by the way it treats its women, children and disabled.

Going by these dime a dozen threads glorifying the negatives and weaknesses in Nigerian women thereby villifying them weekly on nairaland, we know we still have a looong way to go in Nigeria.

And to Seun, I say you underestimate the power of your site,that by allowing and promoting this trend you entrench this culture of women abuse on the very pages of this site. And by this , you do the nation and its future a great disservice sir.Just an observation

sinaj:

Why are u on Every Topic today?

Vickyrotex and rokiatu na which of the reasons be una own?

WITH THE WAY MEN DEY OPEN THREAD ABOUT WOMEN FOR NAIRALAND,E BE LIKE SAY THEM DON DEY FEAR US PASS THEIR PRICCK!MAKE UNA CONINUE!

Setaje:
Am tired of seeing, hearing and reading tales of woe about relationships and marriage. Am tired!

Don't even no what made me open this thread.

see frustration of a single mother of 5

Setaje:
Am tired of seeing, hearing and reading tales of woe about relationships and marriage. Am tired!

Don't even no what made me open this thread.

don't be tired,endure when your are inside and be prepared for it when you are going in.Its a battle.

Edusouls:
end of days of marriage is here,women have lost it all, women nowadays re ticking timed bombs...men re tired and now run for their dear lives....

men r running away from their responsibilities

naialand and women matter shaaa

money121:
The presence of single mothers is becoming a widespread phenomenon in Lagos. In the past, people look at them with contempt and speak of their situation with disapproval. Although the scrutiny hasn’t totally disappeared, their increased number is becoming a norm.

Here are reasons most women end up being single mothers in Lagos:

1. Men’s Decision To Walk Out on Family: It’s not news anymore for some men to walk out on their family and go start life afresh with other women. It’s usually a devastating experience for the women when they are suddenly left with sole responsibility of raising children by themselves. The city is an ever bubbling one and there are enough distractions to make the men leave. Moreover, some men are not ready to take on the responsibility of being fathers. They abscond as soon as they get to know a baby is on board. This irresponsible act of men could turn the unsuspecting women into single mothers.

2. Societal Pressure: In an environment like Lagos, when men cheat on their wives and exhibit various traits that aren’t promising, the women are quick to move on. There are so many successful forces to be reckoned with or looked up to as role models. These often spin the women into action and they put back the broken pieces of their life. With many people sharing their experiences, the women may make the legal move and set themselves free from the clause of marriage and start living as single mothers.

3. Career: With a booming economy, women don’t want to be tied down. The city offers lots of opportunities. This has restructured some women and has made them career oriented; they have attained enviable heights in their fields. They find it difficult to give up that part of them. They are liberated women and have high prospects for the future. Men often have issues with this type of women since it is difficult dominating them. At the expense of relationships, they often choose career over everything. They believe they have all it takes to raise children.
4. Reckless Adventure: Lagos with its trendy lifestyle and feisty environment is never quiet. With loads of interesting places to visit and see, it’s always fun time. Unsuspecting young women get caught up in the frenzy of the bubbly city. They may hang out with a couple of people and keep the fun rolling. They get carried away by the excitement and get pregnant at the long run. Motherhood spring up on them and before long, they join the unending list of single mothers.

5. Relativity: It’s all relative. What works for one man could be detrimental to the other. Some women choose to be single mothers all by themselves. This is single mother by choice; some women crave to be that. Some of these women have gone past the marriageable age but desire to have children. While some choose to be single mothers because they resent being controlled by men.

http://www.gistmelove..com/2015/09/revealed-why-lagos-women-end-up-being.html

. Dis is d MOST MUMU thread I have read in Nairaland, e be like say one LAGOS BABE don do u smtin. Make I tell if U go some village u go see hw y girls de 4k n born scatter. Plz nu de write dis kin RUBBISH again