Love's bitter.. Love's sweet.. Buh love $ucks!

Hmmm 'Unreturned love'..tho This is not a new problem, but it's still a heartbreaking issue up till this day.
Anyways I Just wanna share my experience on this issue and seek good advice.
Recently.. That's about 2months ago, I met this guy in school through my very good friend. at first I just saw him as every other random guy who's into me so I didn't really take him serious. He tried so many means of getting my attention, first.. Acted as a 'badboy' (maybe cause he thought I was into that).. That got my attention but I hated him.. So after a short while.. I bumped into him on my way home, and somehow we bonded really well... I invited him over to my house and we had a long chat, he told me so much about himself (tho I think maybe he lied about his personality) Honestly I fell in love with his personality, and to crown it all..we made out before he left that evening.
Hmmm.. Well I really thought I had found the right guy that day.. Anyways to cut the long story short.. After that day, he started having a different attitude,at first I was made to believe that he puts up that attitude because of his friends, but then again.. Everything did not make any sense... This time around I became the person seeking his attention.. And unknown to me during this period he and his friends were making fun of me(like I was one of those other girls that's after him)I realized all these when I was already so much In love with him, and then my friend told me about her own history with this same guy, it was somewhat similar to mine.. Gosh! I felt so embarrassed and at same time angry with my friend for giving me those details late.I felt so terrible that I went on to date another guy just to get over this person but it's obviously not working. And now I'm kinda hurting this new guy's feelings cause he showers so much love on me and I don't really reciprocate an even quantity of love towards him.. sincerely I don't want anyone to hurt the way I did so I have to make this relationship work, therefore I have to get over these feelings. Well, I really don't blame anyone, I blame myself for giving love a chance! Anyways I just need some few tips on how to get over love quickly..your suggestions are welcome. Thanks

I think I wrote abt dis sometime ago..


I said, dnt ever tell someone u love d person wen ur not so sure of their feelings towards you... Even if u do tell dem, dnt force dem to love u bak in return.. Love takes time to develop

Its simple. just take a wrap of weed and pretend you were never in love.

One thing about relationship is,

Don't force someone to love you.

You know he isn't the right guy already so move on and give the new guy a trial and with time, you will get over him.

Don't rush giving the new guy pvssy has you did to the first guy

How cud u fall in love in a one nyt stand?

Owliver:
Its simple. just take a wrap of weed and pretend you were never in love.

What he said

KashyBaby:
How cud u fall in love in a one nyt stand?

So a simple kiss is now a one night stand

Sure you ain't Amish

OP anytime i feel inlove with someone i just saw or met, i just say in my heart "oh sharap its not love. you just wana phuck" and most times i laugh over it. love grows with time thats why love for parents and siblings are the strongest. so make no mistake.

for every human there is a perfect man/ woman for them,keep calm and wait for ur perfect match,time flies

agarawu23:
One thing about relationship is,

Don't force someone to love you.

You know he isn't the right guy already so move on and give the new guy a trial and with time, you will get over him.

Don't rush giving the new guy pvssy has you did to the first guy

i like ur last statement looool. we guys are baaaad. soooo bad lol

EnigmaticEnigma:


So a simple kiss is now a one night stand

Sure you ain't Amish

Y the hell u r quoting me?? haven't u read the whole script??

Unless u r the guy who she slept with....ass

babywhite:
for every human there is a perfect man/ woman for them,keep calm and wait for ur perfect match,time flies

this is false. there is no match for anyone. life is an adventure you get what you get

Owliver:
i like ur last statement looool. we guys are baaaad. soooo bad lol

we?
Talk about yourself alone

Don't know why I smell/sniff LIES from this your good to be true escapade or need I say Crush Love story.



And did I just read that you actually "made out" on the first day he came to ur house on an Invitation from you


Once again Seems Good to be true.

KashyBaby:



Y the hell u r quoting me?? haven't u read the whole script??

Unless u r the guy who she slept with....ass

agarawu23:
we?
Talk about yourself alone

only a badass guy would make such statement man.

Owliver:
i like ur last statement looool. we guys are baaaad. soooo bad lol

Thank God you knw

SirLegal:
Don't know why I smell/sniff LIES from this your good to be true escapade or need I say Crush Love story.



And did I just read that you actually "made out" on the first day he came to ur house on an Invitation from you


Once again Seems Good to be true.

i have seen where someone met someone on campus on a perfect morning. in the evening of the same day dey had seks. make no mistake my friend

Owliver:
only a badass guy would make such statement man.

avasweet:


Thank God you knw

sweet heart i didnt mean. for you to see that. am sorry

Owliver:
this is false. there is no match for anyone. life is an adventure you get what you get

we are saying the same thing it will get to seeing ur perfect match,if there is no match we wouldn't be having this conversation

babywhite:



we are saying the same thing it will get to seeing ur perfect match,if there is no match we wouldn't be having this conversation

sorry lady, until you can see the future there is no such thing as "your match".... ok what of those that saw "their worse" where is their perfect match gone to? so pls make no mistake

Jay3000:
I don't want anyone to hurt the way I did so I have to make this relationship work

So sorry for your pain err try not to martyr yourself for your new relationship if it's not working you should talk to the new guy maybe let him go rather than use him as rebound. You will be fine.

Thats why I got mad love for ma homies #nohomo There is no way a bro is gonna withold information that will hurt his homie Niggas give each other the 4 11 on a broad OP sorry about this but your friend is one very dumb backstabbing bìtch you should stop hanging around such

agarawu23:


Don't rush giving the new guy pvssy has you did to the first guy

I didn't mention anything about sex on the post.. I said 'made out' as in kissed... Dude was scared of touching me, think that was the reason I fell for him at first.. I mean, a guy who's not interested in your body.. That's pretty much hard to find

Someone always get hurt in a rebound relationship.
You should free this new guy and take some time off to heal-- forgive the guy that hurt you and forgive yourself for falling for his trick (I'm sure the latter is what really hurts here.)

You'll be fine.

my sister i tell people this days if you're going through depression what you have to do is Just Dance!!! Till that state of mind wears off.


Life is fair for does who take the right medication for every occation.

Okay, first thing's first. You met the guy for one day. You both talked. You both shared a kiss at the end. He began to show disinterest in you. For me, I would've moved on too easily from this. Yes, our conversation was great and yes, he may have been everything that I wanted, but right now, he is showing me that he doesn't want me and I would tied, clipped, and burned that. Secondly, you are now with a man who adores you and actually loves you. Be good to that man. Shower him with your thoughts and love and you will begin to receive how love should really feel and how this man is doing his best to keep you happy. You will forget about that silly, one night. It will now be a thought about a waste of time. Good luck to you!

Love is Ephimeral........................ at the end of day nothing matters not even love. also it's expected you go through this, it's the normal fate for those who are open to emotional feelings.

Jay3000:

I didn't mention anything about sex on the post.. I said 'made out' as in kissed... Dude was scared of touching me, think that was the reason I fell for him at first.. I mean, a guy who's not interested in your body.. That's pretty much hard to find

OK now I get you more.

Those guys are hard to find truly but it depends on how you treat them.

Jay3000:

I didn't mention anything about sex on the post.. I said 'made out' as in kissed... Dude was scared of touching me, think that was the reason I fell for him at first.. I mean, a guy who's not interested in your body.. That's pretty much hard to find

Just kissed?
WTF?
I thought the guy had gone all the way
what if he had fùcked you?
I bet you'd kill yoself

.....but wait o. Its very likely thats what he told his friends
about how he hit it on the 1st night etc
and niggas be looking up to him n shìt.
sorry kid