Hannysmilez:
If they do end up getting married,it's gonna affect our relationship. We are'nt going 2be that close.

Which do u prefer? marriage or ur closeness with ur friend

PunkyVeer:


Yeah, because we all know how these things end sometimes.

I had this friend years ago & we were really close. So one day I invited her to a family gathering & my male cousin was hovering all over her like a vulture. Knowing what I knew about him, I shut it down. I really cock-blocked him Because I wasn't about to let him ruin my friendship with her & potentially hurt a good girl. I chaperoned them like mad, because she didn't know him like I do so I did everything to save her @ss that day. I just don't wanna be part of a relationship drama between people I know I guess. My loyalties are deep so I never want to have to pick sides. I will cock-block & play captain-save-a-hoe to save both of them from their whoremones if it needs be

lol. u are really funny

SAVEDBABA:
God has to approve of it b4 i cn date a frnds sista

but u can 4uck a frnd's sister?

I see nothing wrong with that once he is my best friend its a go for him .. I called him my best friend because I saw the potential he Has got... so it's a go for him . And about the relationship conflict, its a must and common thing so they handle that them selves.

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]I cnt allow it

it depend on d frnd's behaviour, if he's Godly, caring n loving I wil agreed it d relation.

BIG NO!!!!Never i can't.we have diffrent behavior and character,u can not compare your own friend with mine this my own friend like girl toomuch chai!!!there was a time this my friend told me he want to date my sister,when it comes to this stage i use to let him know that it was impposible and i always serious with it that him too will know that am not joking because i can't let him destroy my sister life and goes to another lady i know him verywell and i will never let it happen.so once again i can't i mean it.

greatwaters:
I don't know why most people do not seem to approve of a relationship between their best friend and their sister/brother.

Even my roommate swore that he'll never allow it.
Is it wrong? if yes, why?

Its not wrong and as a matter of fact i got married to my friends sister, i see nothing wrong in it, provided it will lead to marriage

People don't approve because they KNOW their friends, and they want the best for their siblings.

And yes, I can let my best friend date/marry my sister

greatwaters:
but if you think your friend is so bad for your sister/brother, then why is he/she your friend?

This question makes no sense.

greatwaters:
Good reason, but think about the positives. you kno your friend very well and unless you hav a bad friend, shouldnt you be more comfortable wit givin your sis 2 somone u kno?

[email] I and my best friend are bad. So No, and my sis is too young. [/email]

PunkyVeer:
Your best friend is probably that one person that knows almost everything about you, including your relationship history, depending on how long you've known them. So if they disapprove of a relationship between you & their sibling it could mean two things 1)they think you're scum & not good enough for their sister 2) they don't wanna have to pick sides should things not work out between you two.

well said dear .......nothing left to say!

what if your best friend is bill gate's first son.....

donweasley:
F.t.c, i dedicate this to other nairalanders still trying. D truth is dat i wunt allow it.

Well, you go hav to allow us when you finally find job

No Cus they're both family to me and sentiments will always cloud my judgement of them.

I won't want my sister to get hurt and I won't want my bestie to get hurt too. I may trust both of them to be honest with each other but taking that chance is a risk and a gamble Cus just a prick on the balloon can burst it,just a mistake and they'll be no more family.

Last thing y should I allow

WeedSeller:
#Make VICTOR date ma sis?person wey dey tear oloshoS anyhow even on sundays# Nno !

u Just levied everytin 2 vIctor alone.. Wasn't It U both dat went 2gether last 3wks sunday?

PunkyVeer:


*air humps*

Yeah, I like to nail things

U nor be boy na

YoungDaNaval:
but u can 4uck a frnd's sister?

yes if shes my wife, i will do it gladly

greatwaters:
I don't know why most people do not seem to approve of a relationship between their best friend and their sister/brother.

Even my roommate swore that he'll never allow it.
Is it wrong? if yes, why?

I once tried it,did it secretly
Wanted to tell him,but I was not able to,hmmm so I broke up with her,it didn't even last a week,1year later I told my friend about it,that I once kissed his sis,well we are still friends.

Well, that depends on what kind of friendship you and your friend have. As am replying this, I want to inform you that by November 15, I will be exactly one year with my friend's sister as my wife. It was actually not easy at that moment cos of lots of thoughts that came to mind should there be any problem after the wedding, yet he approved it and I accepted it. Besides, even if you marry from a non-friend family, problems are bound to happen. At least, we have been happy and contented ever since we hooked up and our families are now closer. So it actually depends on the kind of dt your friend is to you. God knows best.

That's nothing but the whole truth

PunkyVeer:
Your best friend is probably that one person that knows almost everything about you, including your relationship history, depending on how long you've known them. So if they disapprove of a relationship between you & their sibling it could mean two things 1)they think you're scum & not good enough for their sister 2) they don't wanna have to pick sides should things not work out between you two.

Chidimercy:

u Just levied everytin 2 vIctor alone.. Wasn't It U both dat went 2gether last 3wks sunday?

Were u the lightskinned girl he bleeped? lol..#


#Juz kiddin

greatwaters:
I don't know why most people do not seem to approve of a relationship between their best friend and their sister/brother.

Even my roommate swore that he'll never allow it.
Is it wrong? if yes, why?

All the people who don't like it have bad friends.
I've good friends who can make great husbands.

It's better my sister dates and marries a good man I know very well than a good stranger.

In fact, marrying a sibbling's good friend mostly creates a long lasting marraige because your sibbling will always try to mediate and rescue the marraige if something goes wrong.

As a guy, even those of my friends that i consider "good guys".....would not go near any of my sisters. Una no watch Tony montana? I go just kill person

However if it is a courtship or something very serious...i mean potentially leading to the altar. Its not so bad. In fact, its a great idea.

All my friends . Their. Drilling device is something to remember

This has been a very trending issue recently, people object to friend\sister relationship because
1. society frowns at it- best friend/sister relationship is closely related to incest, it is a bridge of no return,crossing it would require a bend in morality- for the morally inclined
2. the fear of having to choose sides peradventure thing turns out badly.
3. jealousy~ difficult to admit but always present, you have a pure knowledge of ur sister's naivety or purity as well as ur friend's strenght/weakness. you feel and think your friend too lucky having someone lyk your 'pure' sister, you start visualizing how blissful d relationship would look,cannot stand d sight of ur little sister devoting her tiny beating heart to ur friend,jealousy creeps in. it takes a very high level of selflessness to allow such.

You mean anything atall??

quiinnBee:

am sure you know your figures of speech

Why so serious? It was just an expression of my seemingly humorous thought

No biggie

PunkyVeer:
Your best friend is probably that one person that knows almost everything about you, including your relationship history, depending on how long you've known them. So if they disapprove of a relationship between you & their sibling it could mean two things 1)they think you're scum & not good enough for their sister 2) they don't wanna have to pick sides should things not work out between you two.

what of, if they approve the relationship?

lampardizik:



Why so serious? It was just an expression of my seemingly humorous thought
No biggie

i know was playing along duh.you spoilt the fun