"This happened live and direct in my church.
There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.
She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.
The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).
She met her man in the same church. They were both virgins based on their Christian values - No sex before wedding.
After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.
She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.
"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"
The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.
That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).
This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.
She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.
Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.
The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.
Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.
To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?
The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.
Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying."

Cc: Lalasticlala

The man na impotent... Simple!

No sex before marriage causes breakup in marriage

Mykel4God:
"This happened live and direct in my church.
There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.
She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.
The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).
She met her man in the same church. They were both virgins based on their Christian values - No sex before wedding.
After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.
She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.
"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"
The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.
That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).
This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.
She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.
Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.
The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.
Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.
To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?
The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.
Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying."

Cc: Lalasticlala

Omo iya, i won't name church but believe it this is not a one-off thing its happens in many of the so called spiri-koko churches

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Hmmm dunno for u...me I ll test drive any car I wanna buy,to be sure the engines can run miles!

donholy28:
No sex before marriage causes breakup in marriage

how?

kossyablaze:
Hmmm dunno for u...me I ll taste drive any car I wanna buy,to be sure the engines can run miles!

Thou shalth not marry untested congo

Modified(I just read it )

She shouldn't complain. How can people be so dumb? After all these years her god hasn't seen it fit to do anything about the situation. Apparently, her god is an impotent as her husband's dick

No matter how we embelish premarital sex, it will never change the fact that it's evil and a violation of religious law

* Dont quote me*

Make i enter one chance abi? No testing tufiakwa

Neitzsche

tosyne2much:
No matter how we embelish premarital sex, it will never change the fact that it's evil and a violation of religious law

Really? And how has the religious laws ever helped anyone?

Neitzsche:

premarital sex is evil?. Thats a new one.
I personall feel that premarital sex is subject to individual preferences and/ or societal pressure. If anybody wants to fück like a dog, then fine; but whatever happens after should be the person's business.

Ehn ehn !!!

*mouth sealed*

Neitzsche:

premarital sex is evil?. Thats a new one.
I personall feel that premarital sex is subject to individual preferences and/ or societal pressure. If anybody wants to fück like a dog, then fine; but whatever happens after should be the person's business.

Unfortunately, religious folks are not very good at minding their own business

hahn:

Really? And how has the religious laws ever helped anyone?

Haaaaa

tosyne2much:
Haaaaa

Is that your answer?

Since you are the king of lists, write a thread on 10 ways religious laws has ever helped Nigeria.

Don't worry, take all your time

Neitzsche

hahn:


Unfortunately, religious folks are not very good at minding their own business

My brother, nobody is trying to claim saint here


The truth of the matter is that many of us engage in this act, but that doesnt change the fact that it's not meant to be so

hahn:


Is that your answer?

Since you are the king of lists, write a thread on 10 ways religious laws has ever helped Nigeria.

Don't worry, take all your time

I work with traffic, so that's not gonna generate much traffic

Mykel4God:

She was healed yesterday

he confessed that he is impotent.

I don't understand this. The man, who is the source of the problem, is still impotent and has not been healed but you say you are happy. Happy about what exactly?

Or has your pastor been giving her, *in Bernie Mac's voice*, THE DICK

tosyne2much:
My brother, nobody is trying to claim saint here


The truth of the matter is that many of us engage in this act, but that doesnt change the fact that it's not meant to be so

It is not meant to be so because your religious laws say so? pfft

And how has your religious law helped the woman in this story? She's stuck with a limp dick

tosyne2much:
I work with traffic, so that's not gonna generate much traffic

This is another way of saying you cannot think of anything, right?

hahn:


It is not meant to be so because your religious laws say so? pfft

And how has your religious law helped the woman in this story? She's stuck with a limp dick

Let's take religion out of this


Are you implying unmarried ladies and dudes are licenced to bleep anytime any day, at the expense of pleasure ?

*doublepost*

Ifahia make I no do weting. I pray make she no get belle self before the main day

Cc Esanemmanuel

hahn:


This is another way of saying you cannot think of anything, right?

Why not ?


Im vast in thinking so i can come up with various write-ups, but on this, NO

My kinda of topic..Brb

tosyne2much:
Why not ?


Im vast in thinking so i can come up with various write-ups, but on this, NO

@bolded, I know that. You don't need to brag

You can't come up with it because there is none

hahn:


@bolded, I know that. You don't need to brag

You can't come up with it because there is none

u dey dare me abi ?

Apart from the fact that the scriptures preached against pre-marital sex. It is immoral and unethical to indulge in pre-marital sex.

Why is then the need for honeymoon when the honey (Virginity) is no more there?

For the fact that a pastor is an impotent doesn't mean that those that are against pre-marital sex are all impotent.

tosyne2much:
u dey dare me abi ?

I quadriple dare you

tosyne2much:
Let's take religion out of this


Are you implying unmarried ladies and dudes are licenced to bleep anytime any day, at the expense of pleasure ?

Far from it but you're the one that brought religion into this

Everyone should do as they please and be ready to take responsibility for their actions. We can't continue grading morality by religious and mundane laws.