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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by Vetsolo(m): 10:34pm On Oct 05, 2015
hahn:


Thou shalth not marry untested congo undecided

Modified(I just read it tongue )

She shouldn't complain. How can people be so dumb? After all these years her god hasn't seen it fit to do anything about the situation. Apparently, her god is an impotent as her husband's dick undecided

oh boy na u sure pass

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by tosyne2much(m): 10:37pm On Oct 05, 2015
hahn:


Far from it but you're the one that brought religion into this

Everyone should do as they please and be ready to take responsibility for their actions. We can't continue grading morality by religious and mundane laws.
I will like to subscribe to your point as to why we shouldnt grade morality by religious law, but mind you, even our customary and medical law states that abstinence is the key to avert the implications that comes with premarital sex

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by hahn(m): 10:37pm On Oct 05, 2015
Neyoor:
Apart from the fact that the scriptures preached against pre-marital sex. It is immoral and unethical to indulge in pre-marital sex.

This is a pypocritical statement. The bible advises believers to killl unbelievers, how many have you killed?

Why is then the need for honeymoon when the honey (Virginity) is no more there?

Honeymoon is not only about sex

For the fact that a pastor is an impotent doesn't mean that those that are against pre-marital sex are all impotent.

The success of a marriage doesn't depend on whether the couple had sex before or after the wedding date. This story is an obvious example
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by hahn(m): 10:39pm On Oct 05, 2015
tosyne2much:
I will like to subscribe to your point as to why we shouldnt grade morality by religious law, but mind you, even our customary and medical law states that abstinence is the key to avert the implications that comes with premarital sex

That one dey but that doesn't make it a standard.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 10:41pm On Oct 05, 2015
I don't have to discuss I'd wanna have sex or not with the one I'm seeing. I mean, it'll come naturally or won't .
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Oct 05, 2015
hahn:

The success of a marriage doesn't depend on whether the couple had sex before or after the wedding date. This story is an obvious example. This is a pypocritical statement. The bible advises believers to killl
unbelievers, how many have you killed?[/b

Although, I'm not a christian but which version or chapter of your bible preaches that you should kill unbelievers?


And for the fact that the story is an obvious example doesn't change the fact that virginity is still so much a pride. For the fact that we see people dying of motor accident doesn't mean that people should avoid the usage of it, so it is impossible to preach for pre-marital sex because the above story justified someone of falling a victim. [b] it is immoral and unethical to indulge in sex out of wedlock. Our religions even preach against it. I reiterate
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by hahn(m): 11:05pm On Oct 05, 2015
Neyoor:


Although, I'm not a christian but which version or chapter of your bible preaches that you should kill unbelievers?


And for the fact that the story is an obvious example doesn't change the fact that virginity is still so much a pride. For the fact that we see people dying of motor accident doesn't mean that people should avoid the usage of it, so it is impossible to preach for pre-marital sex because the above story justified someone of falling a victim. it is immoral and unethical to indulge in sex out of wedlock. Our religions even preach against it. I reiterate

Lol @ immoral and unethical. Who are we to determine that? The beef you eat is worshipped in India. The pork meat I love so much with with bread or kpokpo garri is an abomination in some religions. Some people believe Jesus Christ is the path to heaven while other don't. Some people believe in capitalism, some in socialism, some in communism. Some countries are right hand drivers, others left hand. Some people offer you tea while some offer you kolanut.

So, who's right?

Deuteronomy 13:6-11

If your brother, the son of your mother, or your son or your daughter or the wife you embrace or your friend who is as your own soul entices you secretly, saying, ‘Let us go and serve other gods,’ which neither you nor your fathers have known, some of the gods of the peoples who are around you, whether near you or far off from you, from the one end of the earth to the other, you shall not yield to him or listen to him, nor shall your eye pity him, nor shall you spare him, nor shall you conceal him. But you shall kill him. Your hand shall be first against him to put him to death, and afterward the hand of all the people. You shall stone him to death with stones, because he sought to draw you away from the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. ...
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Oct 05, 2015
donholy28:
No sex before marriage causes breakup in marriage
Abegi! let's hear! gbenusaun jareh..*if ah got the spelling right*
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 05, 2015
hahn:

Lol @ immoral and unethical. Who are we to determine that? The beef you eat is worshipped in India. The pork meat I love so much with with bread or kpokpo garri is an abomination in some religions. Some people believe Jesus Christ is the path to heaven while other don't. Some people believe in capitalism, some in socialism, some in communism. Some countries are right hand drivers, others left hand. Some people offer you tea while some offer you kolanut.
So, who's right?
Deuteronomy 13:6-11
If your brother, the son of your mother, or your son or your daughter or the wife you embrace or your friend who is as your own soul entices you secretly, saying, ‘Let us go and serve other gods,’ which neither you nor your fathers have known, some of the gods of the peoples who are around you, whether near you or far off from you, from the one end of the earth to the other, you shall not yield to him or listen to him, nor shall your eye pity him, nor shall you spare him, nor shall you conceal him. But you shall kill him. Your hand shall be first against him to put him to death, and afterward the hand of all the people. You shall stone him to death with stones, because he sought to draw you away from the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery. ...




1 Corinthians 7:8-9
"Now I say to those who aren’t married and to
widows it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am.
But if they can’t control themselves, they should
go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to
burn with lust"


If you are struggling with wanting to have sex,
get married. Premarital sex isn’t an option for
dealing with lust. It’s either marriage or you are in
sexual sin.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by hahn(m): 11:27pm On Oct 05, 2015
Neyoor:





1 Corinthians 7:8-9
"Now I say to those who aren’t married and to
widows it’s better to stay unmarried, just as I am.
But if they can’t control themselves, they should
go ahead and marry. It’s better to marry than to
burn with lust"


If you are struggling with wanting to have sex,
get married. Premarital sex isn’t an option for
dealing with lust. It’s either marriage or you are in
sexual sin.

Me and my wife had sex before we got married. What does that make us? undecided
Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by Nobody: 11:31pm On Oct 05, 2015
hahn:

Me and my wife had sex before we got married. What does that make us? undecided


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Re: No Sex Before Marriage: Is It Advisable? by hahn(m): 11:37pm On Oct 05, 2015
Neyoor:



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tongue

Hahahaha

The sinning will continue in hell then
wink grin

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