Irrational, Uncontrollable Fear?

Many of the situations that guys screw up with women fit into the category of "caused by fear". Here are some of the types of fear that us guys experience, along with how I think they mess us up with women:

Fear of rejection. Here's the situation: You see a woman you'd like to approach, and you start thinking about talking to her. All of a sudden, you feel your throat get dry and your heart pounding. But it makes no sense. There's no DANGER in the situation, but you're feeling FEAR. As you think about it, you realize that you're afraid of her REJECTING you. And that fear keeps you from starting a conversation.

Fear of embarrassment. As you're thinking of approaching that same woman, you look around at the other people in the situation, and you wonder "What would THEY think if I went over and talked to her, but she REJECTED me, "?

Fear of someone else hurting you. Maybe you keep thinking about talking to her, and you even come up with something clever to say, but the more you think about it, the more you start to wonder "What if she has a boyfriend? What if he's not here yet? What if he walks in and sees me talking to his girlfriend, and gets upset? What if he HURTS me?"

Fear of loss. Here's one for you: Have you ever met a great woman, then found yourself thinking about her all the time, and WONDERING if she might be with another guy? You become afraid of losing something that you don't even HAVE yet. So what did you do? Of course, you called her, emailed her, and tried to "secretly" know what she was doing at all times. And what happened? She got creeped out, and stopped seeing you.

So what do all of these have in common? FEAR, that's what. And guess what? If you address the FEAR directly, you can overcome ALL of these AT THE SAME TIME.

Oya now. whats the soln de angelo?

If u re using to taking lifes decision on ur own y b bothered bout wat odas think of u

honestly i've not seen anybody dat a gal has slapped just frm talkin to her. or even abuse jst because u talked to her

nice write up

hmmmmmmmmm

make sence.

none of the above

my fear is the fear of hurting someone because when I run over her life she will never remain the same

U 're mouthed, so it is. Now wat 're d way forward?