Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
2dice: hmm..my paddi na wa My sir nor b smal tin we dey face from ladies hand for dis present world o. Bt d gud tin is dat most times we guys ends up victorious bcus we always leave an unforgetable mark/memories in their heart even if we spent just 3days wit dem. Thats wat i cal d power of a real man. |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by 2dice(m): 7:27pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
QatarPlayboy:
My sir nor b smal tin we dey face from ladies hand for dis present world o. Bt d gud tin is dat most times we guys ends up victorious bcus we always leave an unforgetable mark/memories in their heart even if we spent just 3days wit dem.
Thats wat i cal d power of a real man. true talk. Most of them don't knw what dey want.. They believe all she needs is to look sexy that all.. if u try to help me Dem... They will say ur are weak.. Na to delete all ur Good side Na that time Dem go like u... Funny enoff when they start fading dey will start showing real Greenlight.. But that time water go don pass Garri Big time |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by Nobody: 7:35pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
2dice: true talk. Most of them don't knw what dey want.. They believe all she needs is to look sexy that all.. if u try to help me Dem... They will say ur are weak.. Na to delete all ur Good side Na that time Dem go like u... Funny enoff when they start fading dey will start showing real Greenlight.. But that time water go don pass Garri Big time Dis is just d fact bro. Bt me care for every human bt do nt care abt any act dey show bcus there is no act any lady wud show nw dat i havent experienced bfor. |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by 2dice(m): 7:50pm On Oct 11, 2015 |
QatarPlayboy:
Dis is just d fact bro. Bt me care for every human bt do nt care abt any act dey show bcus there is no act any lady wud show nw dat i havent experienced bfor. true talk..Nothing nu under the sun |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by SSpeter(m): 8:34pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
In those days A man can marry up to 5 wives. In those days my mum told me that women were quite generous. A woman can go out and marry another woman for the husband. But monogamy will make so many spinsters single forever. ...do not forget, women matures faster than men so before a man reaches 30yrs 5-6 ladies would have reached marriage able age. |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by Toks2008(m): 8:47pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
oloriomolade: HUSBAND SCARCITY!!! "Husband Scarcity" has become one of the challenges faced by many young girls today. If you go to prayer houses, majority of the intentions are prayer for a life partner. And this calls for concern. Casting our minds back to the time of our mothers and grandmothers, was there really much of a "Husband Scarcity" problem? Or, maybe there were more men than women then, or there was an adequate corresponding numbers of both genders. I don't think so. Maybe then, the women had values and were prepared to build a home and not park into a built home. Then, once a young man comes of age and can at least feed himself and his wife, he goes out in search of a wife and the woman really appreciates him and helps him to build a future. What am I really trying to say? We created what we now see as "Husband Scarcity" for ourselves. Today, the reverse is the case. Ask an average girl to define her dream husband; you get things like "he has to be tall, handsome, fair, and rich, own a house at least, and be presentable" and then she adds "God fearing" in order not to sound so worldly. Then, check the number of girls around you and the number of men that meet that standard, and you will see the problem. You hear girls say, "I cannot suffer in my father's house and then go and start suffering with a man." What a wonderful dream! What if from the beginning, you have everything you want and there is no suffering, and later in the marriage, the table turns around, then comes suffering? Will you run away? No one prays for suffering, but it is good to start small and end big, than start big and end small. The problem is that the description majority of girls give of their ideal man is virtually the same. When 50 girls want the same kind of man and the man that fits what they want is just 1 man, and the man can only pick one. Then, what becomes of 49 others? They simply startt lamenting of "Husband Scarcity". Another irony of our time is that it is hard, due to the face of our economy to find a man who is of marriage age who possesses all those things these ladies want, legally (except those involved in Internet fraud); even the number of those in Internet fraud is not enough to match all those searching for already made husbands. If you look around, majority of the ladies of substance, of good value and virtue, who are ready to build a home with a man who has prospects, are married and not complaining of husband scarcity. The easiest way to find a husband now, is to change your view of who a husband is. A husband is that man God made and then saw that it may be hard for him to really actualize his purpose for making him, without a help mate and then made the woman and gave to him, and he felt complete and fulfilled. MARRIAGE IS NOT A POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAM. It is a mission of building the family of God here on earth. For those who see marriage as a way out of poverty, it is a way into bondage. Women are HOME BUILDERS, not HOME WARMERS... DON'T CONFUSE A MAN'S PATH WITH HIS DESTINY. Where he is today, may only be a route to where God has destined him to be tomorrow. Another truth is that YOU MAY BE THE ONLY FAST MEANS TO THAT HIS DESTINATION. Join in alleviating "husband scarcity". PICK UP THE RIGHT VALUES. I am not saying that you should pick anyone that comes your way and talks of marriage, not all men are husband materials. What I am saying is that you should stop setting your standard on material acquisitions or physical appearances. Look beyond the physical. WHAT MAKES A MAN WHO HE IS, IS NOT WHAT HE OWNS OR HOW HE LOOKS, IT IS WHAT HE IS MADE UP OF. And that which he is made of is, most times, not seen with the physical eyes, only its effects can be seen. Marriage is a permanent thing. Whatever is seen is temporal and that which is not seen is permanent. Relax and go to God. God did not just make Eve for making sake; He made her for Adam's need to be met. May God help us. Gud nite Please space your write up for ease of reading and comprehending. Thanks. |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by Toks2008(m): 8:55pm On Oct 12, 2015 |
Dojupyo: This is nice, I love this.. In fact, I'v always wanted a man who I would be happy with, not a billionaire who will turn me into a punching bag.. Men are weak(fact), that's the more reason why they need us jes the way Adam needed a helper(suitable, adapted & complementary) and God sent him one.. This beings pretend to be super strong when they are with us, but truth be told, they are like babies, so they need us to be by their side at all times. We should know that all that glitters is not gold.. A rich man today can become poor tomorrow, if ur main purpose of marriage is to escape from poverty, then you are on a long thing... Have we wondered why our parents and granny's marriage has been up to 30 years & above without divorce? It's not all about looks, TDH my foot.. It's all about his personality.. I really don't care how attractive you are. If your personality is ugly, so are you!!!
So guys don't think all ladies are after your hard earned money but some are, so husband stop being scarce cos there are so many wife materials you can't imagine. Remember the bible said that a man shall leave his father and mother and shall become united to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.. Don't be scarce to some
Modified!! If you quote me, then you are on your own.. For those wey dey find word for my mouth, dey will be like na happiness u wan chop... I believe a guy who can't fend for himself isn't ready for marriage.. More also, one has to pray before entering any life time institution(marriage) Just said the bitter truth If all you just wrote are not just theory but a true representation of your personality then you will likely never remain single for long. 80% of single ladies at ripe ages today are in that position because they have missed it somehow somewhere in the past.Many will not believe this because their personality may make them belive they have been true to themselves but if they look inward they will agree with me. How many single ladies today have at one time looked away from a man who truly loves and wants them for a man they want but does not really want them? I can continue to ask several questions but let me stop here. Most ladies are their own problems. |
Re: Husband Scarcity!!!! by Pascopele: 6:51am On Mar 06, 2022 |
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