Narcissist are people that are always talking or thinking about how they look. I wasnt born this way, but my friends mum always worried why my hair is rough, why my eyes are too red , why im now slim, his sisters too, their friends too, my friend too, then my other friends too, then in my family they said im their golden child their special boy. They used to hold family meetings about how my face has lost its good looks or how its now so good looking, and in my church too they said i like wearing rings because girls are always chasing me and yet that was all false. These things affected me and i got a huge mirror always admiring myself or wondering why im now black or too fair or what other bullshit. Now i have decided to be like a normal boy so i have packed out of their house and started staying on my own, i have cut my childhood friends off and i have no mirror anymore, tufia! Pls any advice on how i can stay focused on real life issues? Without opening stupid threads? Pls advice pls no insult

dharay99:

Pls if u dont get it leave the replies for those who do. I need a change.

Just get busy with anything...... You will not have time for looks and wah Eva

Turn to Jesus he will help you,visit a bible believing church,ask for the pastor and tell him your problems

to make ur story short, why not post ur pic and let the nairalanders judge how narcissist u r?

KashyBaby:
to make ur story short, why not post ur pic and let the nairalanders judge how narcissist u r?

abi oh .he wants us to start imagining the way he looks.. Pls pictures of you

KashyBaby:
to make ur story short, why not post ur pic and let the nairalanders judge how narcissist u r?

Its useless bastardss like u that turned me this way, who told u im looking for one more beastt that will judge me? Pls get out of my thread.

Shebarh:
abi oh .he wants us to start imagining the way he looks.. Pls pictures of you

Pls i opened this thread for guys only i dont need ur gender near my topics. Everything is about judgement to your gender pls flee from my thread.

KingRaoul:


Its useless bastardss like u that turned me this way, who told u im looking for one more beastt that will judge me? Pls get out of my thread.

Lol...u can't show it coz there's nothing to show at all...u want everybody to symphatize ur craziness...smh.useless thread.

find a girlfriend

KashyBaby:



Lol...u can't show it coz there's nothing to show at all...u want everybody to symphatize ur craziness...smh.useless thread.

Why are u looking for what to see? What kind of creatures are u females? Why are u looking for judgement so bad? U are looking for a pic so u can either say "wow, im blushing" "ur not all that" "ur even ugly" after judging me what will u gain? The thread is not about judgement mrs chief justice.

SkinnyDude:
find a girlfriend

Tufia! Its not me that will kill a member of that gender

KingRaoul:


Tufia! Its not me that will kill a member of that gender

ok. how do you suppress sexual urge? a.k.a. konji

Just get Busy. Or get money, Have a goal, a target, also avoid anything reflective, car windows, glass shops..

When you're at work, or on the streets, or you're really busy and probably hoping to make 200k monthly or buy your dream car, your appearance wouldn't matter anymore.. Cos when these girls see success, they will flood around you.

Peace.