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I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Esthersblog(f): 2:02pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
"I was faithful to a vow I made some years ago to remain celibate until after marriage. I made this decision after I got pregnant by my boyfriend who was 21 at the time and I was 19. We were both young and it was our first time dating. We started having unprotected sex after a few months into the relationship. I was naïve at the time not knowing the measures to take to avoid pregnancy. After a few months, I got pregnant. We were not ready to start a family because we were still in our first year at the university. We both decided to remove the pregnancy, at this time, the pregnancy was already more than two months. During the process, the pain I felt was the worst pain I have ever had. I prayed to God to deliver me out of this alive. And after it was done, I made a promise before leaving the hospital that I will remain celibate till after marriage. Well, I managed to keep to that promise until after I got married which I am regretting now. I met guys along the way who broke up with me after I refused to have sexual intercourse with them. Then I met my husband some years later, who respected my decision and even loved me more for it knowing how difficult it is to abstain from sex, especially when I have experienced it before. After my wedding night, obviously I couldn’t have sex with my husband because we were so fagged out after the wedding. My husband has always talked about how he prefers MouthAction but I didn’t pay so much attention whenever he talks about it. Not knowing he prefers it because he knows he cannot satisfy a woman in bed. My husband’s sexual organ is as small as my pinky finger. We hardly have sex now because, the first day we did it, I did not feel anything at all, and afterwards, it always feel like a waste of time. I am five years into the marriage and no issue. I am also regretting now because, if I had tested the waters before making this lifetime decision, I would have been able to avoid this. I tell those who wants to listen to make sure they try it even if it’s just once and then they can close their cookie jars afterwards. I know it is wrong but Sex is very very important in marriage. God who invented it knows the reason why he made it so. Now, I feel like cheating on my husband. I have my sexual desires, I need to feel like a woman but I do not get any of that from my husband. I do not know what to do at this moment. I am a true Christian and a married woman who is lost in her marriage. What do I do?" Sent in by an EB reader. Your honest opinion counts… www.esther.ng 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by donTbone(m): 2:05pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Yam pepper...scatter scatter. Well, since its like that and there is a solution to small joystick... better to sit him down, talk about it and seek medical solution! Joystick enlargement still dey common na 3 Likes |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by trapQ: 2:06pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
It shall never be well with Adam and Eve 5 Likes |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by gamaliel121(m): 2:07pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Mehn ask your pastorr Physically, I say you hump another cocck.. Buh spiritually I say you consult your pastor |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by olumide81(m): 2:07pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
'i don't feel anything' and 'he likes mouth action' just hoping you don't swallow his d**k someday in the name of mouth action ........if you can't cope with the size of his action and want to stay faithful.....get a Love Machine and enjoy yourself.... |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by dharay99: 2:08pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
trapQ: un†op we†in na... |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Holyfield1(m): 2:10pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Excuse for your imminent adultery |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by donTbone(m): 2:10pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 2:11pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Hehehe @ small as a pinkie 3 Likes
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Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by MayflowerB(f): 2:12pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Dis is serious........ I feel for d op 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 2:13pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Lubbish! |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by realtestament(m): 2:51pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 2:55pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
gamaliel121:Rightt. |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by IndianaJay: 3:03pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Poster............... When they tell you folks to test before buying you will say No. Religion. You will rather bind yourselves to laws that were made by men. As you decided to stay celibate before marriage, respect your vows and stay with your husband. If you do otherwise it means you're a hypocrite, who chooses what to follow in the bible and what not to. Your bible says you shouldn't commit adultery, you can't seriously be here seeking sympathy since you made the decision to be "morally upright". As you lay your bed.............. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by goodmorning40: 3:05pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
U made the right decision but u were careless about it, u should have been able to tell the extent of his sexual abilities even without penetration. A healthy man around the woman he loves or fancies gets hard on very hard u do not need to be told the length and size even under the trousers And how is it that u never saw him naked did u have a courtship atall 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by braine(m): 3:06pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Thats why sex before marriage is important. 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 3:27pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Obatala oooooo! Esu mase mi, omo elomiran ni ki o se! 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by sabaeh(m): 3:32pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
eleyi gidi gan |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Nobody: 3:38pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Go online and get yourself some toys and have him use them on you 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by jimmyolasun: 3:40pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Follow your mind lady... So simple.... And you should have known he aint capable except if you two didn't court.... You need no pastor to intervene into this cuz what else do you want him to say? Commit adultery? I'm sorry to be kinda blunt buh lady, catch the next flight to di** island... Lol... Or better still use toys.... |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by jimmyolasun: 3:45pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Rainess:oh no! She aint wanting that.from the way she expresses herself, you can tell she wants an intimate relationship... "Shez gonna fornicate" I smell it... |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Luckygurl(f): 4:23pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Choi!!!! I pity this lady, she has experienced the two bad sides of it all. She had sex before marriage and it led to abortion, she decides to stay celibate and it leads to getting married to a man whose little winnie can't satisfy her. Only you Well!! You and your hubby gotta find a way to work things around as cheating is a no no. Nothing is impossible Deal with it, it's your cross to carry.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by kayo80(m): 4:33pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Whoa! This is a tough one. Not only is he not good in bed, his thing is also small. A lot of girls have described their experience with small dicks to me, and I always feel like laughing. I mean, this girls that look like they don't care about size suddenly turn comedians when describing the size of their ex's dick. I try not to laugh cos if I didn't have a long thing, the girls would be making fun of me too, so I just hold back my laughter. Really what's the solution to small dicks? I don't know... all these things that claim to help a man get a big thing are mostly fake. |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Princejebs(m): 5:43pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Thank God,that why i advice people to test any car they buy before taking it home because once you take it home and it has any fault, the manufacturers may not accept it back |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by CharlyNick: 7:17pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
The guy self no try O....... Him get small dick, to make matters worst, him no cum dey fit. No Lady would take this. |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by jearile(m): 7:20pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Esthersblog:The last time I checked God does not give out TRASH. Except you sent yourself there (into the marriage) but if God truly gave His consent then it because He knows you can handle it. So instead of complaining and speaking heresy why not seek God's help since you claim you are a TRUE Christian. When Men value the gift (sex) more than the Giver... This may interest the rest of us that are still single...https://www.nairaland.com/2568628/find-wife-quit-selecting 2 Likes |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Ijaya123: 7:33pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
You have 2 options: keep enduring till death do you part or seek for divorce. Cheating is not an option. 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by Adasun(m): 7:55pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Op keep ur lousy advice to your self,wating to marry bfor testing the honeypot is not bad,just healthely knw ur partner sexual prowress thats all 1 Like |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by jesuspikinjp(m): 8:20pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
Seize doesn't matter madam |
Re: I Think I Made The Greatest Mistake Of My Life by shona2487(f): 8:25pm On Oct 14, 2015 |
I still wonder y @dis age nd time ppl still talk about finding out that there's sumtn wrong with their spouse's physical features, wen they weren't blindfolded during the courtship. Ma'am u myt nid to get "toy friendly". 1 Like |
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