MoonChildng:

No if her madness starts he should just be patient,assume he is in prison,wash her panties ,take her slaps and jejefuly earn his red passport so he can go to wherever else he chooses afterall a green passport is also as good as a prison sentence

thanks bro. I heard it takes 10yrs or more for that green card

Thank you all for the advice.
Still confused as I don't know the advice to take.
All are contradicting.
I have already told her that she need to assist me which she agreed.
I told her I don't have international passport how much more the visa.
I don't even have money to process all this.
just to test if she will truely assist me, I ask her to send me some money to prepare my international passport. but the money almost got us separated that she is feeling is the money I need that I don't love her. she also said I should remember she has bill she is paying over there. in fact this respond got me worried. I had the feeling I will be slaved.
Again she get angry easily and I am scared for this.
I heard life is difficult over there.
my plan is that she should come Jan first, we talk well about this

agarawu23:
only hungry and lazy guys get order from ladies. UK my foot, them they pluck money there?

You want to be her slave cos of UK visa? If she cant stay here with you in Nigeria, she should go back to her country and marry there

Thank You so much!

hope he listens. . . dont become less of a man because of VISA.

Bro, give me her email , I'll help you talk to her ... It's 50:50 though

ailehwise:
Thank you all for the advice.
Still confused as I don't know the advice to take.
All are contradicting.
I have already told her that she need to assist me which she agreed.
I told her I don't have international passport how much more the visa.
I don't even have money to process all this.
just to test if she will truely assist me, I ask her to send me some money to prepare my international passport. but the money almost got us separated that she is feeling is the money I need that I don't love her. she also said I should remember she has bill she is paying over there. in fact this respond got me worried. I had the feeling I will be slaved.
Again she get angry easily and I am scared for this.
I heard life is difficult over there.
my plan is that she should come Jan first, we talk well about this

A lot of people with little or no experience are talking here.

First,do not enter into the union because of visa. There has to be a genuine feelings for a true relationship.
Secondly,please do not ask her for money as you will look cheap and set a low standard for yourself
Thirdly,pick the 70k job while you continue your discussion or relationship with her pending when she comes and then finalize the whole plans

Fourthly,if like to marry her then do and follow her to uk because distance relationship isn't easy at all
There are nice,faithful,loyal and humble beautiful white/foreign women in the uk and every part of the world.

Once you get a visa here and get to uk....it wouldn't take more than 3 months after date of entry for them to issue you permit of stay/residence permit of 2years

You can work with it.....if your wife is a citizen then you can attend some free tuition school while working

My advice: go with her if is true

I will stop here