ailehwise:
There is this foreign lady I have been chatting with. we both agree to marry but she preferred we marry in UK. she is coming to Nigeria January for us to seat and talk well about. she has a plan that when going back to UK I go with her.
But I just got a job to resume January. which should I go for. The salary will be 70k

MoonChildng:
Well with the exchange rate........but there are alot of questions what if she changes when you get there ? Be ready to serve a sentence of a few years

vizkiz:
70k as salary?
Guy better use your head. That money na peanut now It's like the amount you make every two weeks in Manchester

agarawu23:
good question.
If the guy is already in UK, I wont advice him not to marry her. UK women are damn cwasy eh! If the lady madness start, he will be deported ASAP to Nigeria without kobo

agarawu23:
see as you talk am like say money they fall from heaven in abroad. When you pay bills and other expenses, you will be left with change.

calculate your transportation here in Nigeria from Monday to Friday. Make God wan punish you make you dey live for ikorodu and you dey work for ajah

Calculate the "other expenses" and tell me how much go remain. I have pals who took risks like this and are living fine over there. If you know your way around and you are determined Guy your money go dey enter Lost 150k per month. I know this.

agarawu23:
only hungry and lazy guys get order from ladies. UK my foot, them they pluck money there?

You want to be her slave cos of UK visa? If she cant stay here with you in Nigeria, she should go back to her country and marry there

vizkiz:


calculate your transportation here in Nigeria from Monday to Friday. Make God wan punish you make you dey live for ikorodu and you dey work for ajah

Calculate the "other expenses" and tell me how much go remain. I have pals who took risks like this and are living fine over there. If you know your way around and you are determined Guy your money go dey enter Lost 150k per month. I know this.

IamBae:


Op, listen to this guy's advice. It's very mature and solid.
If you go with her, she'll feel she own you and you owe her. I hope you understand?
Don't sell your manhood and go ahead to become someone's b¡tch...
God has blessed you with a Job and a nice pay.
Stay in Nigeria and work hard and soon, you'll start travelling to America like it's at your back yard. Trust me on this.
Before I forget, you wanna marry her? Do you love her?
Op, use your head o

agarawu23:
hmmmm
Make I silent

vizkiz:
70k as salary?
Guy better use your head. That money na peanut now It's like the amount you make every two weeks in Manchester

vizkiz:


things are more complicated right here in the real world like you think. Like how many years will he work before earning a good living?

Please don't even start on the "he will get loan" stuff. Shey na so man suppose dey live? He has a chance to get things working here. I know white women are dubious but it's a risk he should take

AlienStar:
What kind of biz. Is that? N what are you still doing here in 9ja?

and who told you I am in 9ja

agarawu23:
not everybody will make it abroad because things arent easy over there too and only the lucky ones make it over there.

I know life is good in UK than naija but the condition guiding the op's story is the reason for my comment.

If he follows that lady eh! He will end up being her slave over there and I can assure you that if the op job is stable with a little savings, he can apply for a UK visa himself instead of being under the rope of a foreign Lady.

well true. But 70k small man and you know the kin economy we have at the moment. Maybe he should seek the gave of God about it

vizkiz:


and who told you I am in 9ja

vizkiz:


well true. But 70k small man and you know the kin economy we have at the moment. Maybe he should seek the gave of God about it

AlienStar:
Dats how desperate guys in 9ja thinks

desperate guys?
So a guy taking an opportunity to make things better for himself is desperate? Seems you are still being fed and you don't know how real the struggle is out here

ailehwise:
There is this foreign lady I have been chatting with. we both agree to marry but she preferred we marry in UK. she is coming to Nigeria January for us to seat and talk well about. she has a plan that when going back to UK I go with her.
But I just got a job to resume January. which should I go for. The salary will be 70k

agarawu23:
see as you talk am like say money they fall from heaven in abroad. When you pay bills and other expenses, you will be left with change.

daretodiffer:


Don't talk about what you don't know

@ailehwise, it depends on how hard working you are and how far you can go for comfort sake.

You might not easily get a job, the best thing for you is to work to get a masters. You and your wife should cancel any idea of kids for now. Get your masters and you should be able to get a very good job.

agarawu23:
nonsense!!!
Birds of the same feather.

daretodiffer:

I live in the UK and I would kneowe

What about that?

agarawu23:
[s][/s] mitcheew
If I hear say you don reach airport before talk less of boarding a plane