chihums:

some guys suck. i expect it so i aint angry. for those who reasoned good, God will see u through and get u out of ur own dilemma. i retire to my bed. Gud 9t

The truth is a bitter pill , sleep well

funny young boy. . . .


Marry kor, Engagement Ni

lady t. I'll do just that

pittbaby, u re too harsh o. take it easy

@poster
i feel you tho, but you have to wait cause she is still young

y me, I've been expecting ur posts. thanks

@chihums
lol

you are welcome sweety

wat ur about to embark on is called paedophilia
son ur no different from the animal that rapes a 1 yr old baby girl
no different in the eys of the law i tell ya!

if u love her, wait till she's legal atleast
being 21, an 18 yr old is still a kid
atleast most are

@Poster

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But in all seriousness, If not a troll, you should wait at least 3-5 years before trying to be involved with her at that level.  The age gap is not that bad, but she is much too young and immature. You may think that she loves you and all, but she can change her mind and outlook on life as often as the second hand moves. You need to back away, because you are going to also get yourself into a lot of trouble going after a 15 year old. Besides, how did you end up meeting this girl anyway?

wow alot of harsh replys. geez. i thinnk you should wait until shes old enuf, I knew a 13 old who went with a 24 year old, now thats way wrong to me but that was 3.5 years ago and there still together,

Id wait to be on the safe side thou, just my opinion, good luck

Go find someone your age!!

@Poster,
It's Ok, You did no wrong by fallen in love with an under aged.
But make sure you:
1. Don't defile the young girl by luring her into teenage sex. . .that's Child Abuse and you are liable to some years behind bars at kirikiri,Ikoyi or Ilesa Prisons.
2. Finish your studies because beleive me, If you don't have what it takes to be a man, you will forever remain a boy.
Finally, Wait for her till she is ripe and of age to fully understand that what you feel for her is NOT brotherly affection.

You sure will have a daughter someday i am just wondering what you will do if a guy falls in love with her at 15 or even less
what goes around comes around right?

leave the girl alone, the waiting thing cannot work,
move along, u would find someone older.

IFELEKE:

@Poster,
It's Ok, You did no wrong by fallen in love with an under aged.
But make sure you:
1.     Don't defile the young girl by luring her into teenage sex. . .that's Child Abuse and you are liable to some years behind bars at kirikiri,Ikoyi or Ilesa Prisons.
2.     Finish your studies because beleive me, If you don't have what it takes to be a man, you will forever remain a boy.
Finally, Wait for her till she is ripe and of age to fully understand that what you feel for her is NOT brotherly affection.

Ifeleke , I have to politely disagree with you, HOW DO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH A 15YR OLD . The poster needs to explain the basis for this love.

@poster

I am not in the habit of being mean on this forum , but the truth most be told , you are in lust with her , yes she looks mature , but you have realized she is underage so now what differentiates you from a paedophile is your decision to act on your feelings.

I dont want to list all the societal ills we have in Nigeria from older men interacting with underage girls .

Pittbaby:

Ifeleke , I have to politely disagree with you, HOW DO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH A 15YR OLD . The poster needs to explain the basis for this love.

@poster

I am not in the habit of being mean on this forum , but the truth most be told , you are in lust with her , yes she looks mature , but you have realized she is underage so now what differentiates you from a paedophile is your decision to act on your feelings.

I dont want to list all the societal ills we have in Nigeria from older men interacting with underage girls .

Thank you jare.

do you want to injure her
you guys makes me laugh
you are purnishing the child
please let her get to 20 oooooooooooOOOOOOOOOOH

Bros, abeg leave the small girl alone.

, but for some of the babes cursing u now, i bet u that they were disvirgined b4 dat age.

pls ask them if the guy wey defile them then eva luv them. @ least u claim to luv dis one.

nevertheless, i know ure very sick.

@poster
find ur age-mate. . . pls

dexaler:

Bros, abeg leave the small girl alone.

, but for some of the [b]babes cursing u now, i bet u that they were disvirgined b4 dat age.[/b]pls ask them if the guy wey defile them then eva luv them. @ least u claim to luv dis one.

nevertheless, i know ure very sick.

Please, In the name of almighty GOD, speak for yourself and the girls you disvirgined before that age. !

Besides, I think the poster is chatting fraff!

@ Secretz: absolutely none.

, when were u? talk true make devil shame.

dexaler:

@ Secretz: absolutely none.

, when were u? talk true make devil shame.

I'm a virgin


[s]Like I would be stupid enough to disclose that kind of information on hia! [/s]

I talk am. God don dey catch all of una one one.

U cant disclose, because u know u did it in ur early teens.

Sis, i aint beefing u o.

Generally, grown men don't interact with teenagers on an intimate level unless they are attracted to younger women. In order for you to know her character the way you do and to be "head over heels" in love with her, you have spent quite a bit of time with her. Men and women who feel like they are in love with children are pedophiles, and pedophiles have usually suffered some sort of child abuse themselves.

If you move into a relationship with this child and it doesn't work out, think about it, you will have ruined her life and her perception of relationships. Girls are so vulnerable and impressionable at this age. If you are not ready to marry her, have the decency to allow her to have a full life and meet a man once she is old enough to know what she wants in a man (this may be you).

Yes, she respects you and seems humble and caring, because she probably looks to you as an uncle or a trusted advisor. Don't violate that trust please, especially since admittedly, you cannot offer her anything more than a short term relationship. Love isn't selfish, so if you will put your own desires over the welfare of this child, then it isn't love you feel for her, it is selfish lust. Think about it!

dexaler:

I talk am. God don dey catch all of una one one.

U cant disclose, because u know u did it in ur early teens.

Sis, i aint beefing u o.

You are very silly. Hyprocrite on a subject matter like this, I am not, neither am I beefing you. Go and play.

If you truly love her, you'll leave her alone and let her have a properly teenage hood without you messing with her mind.

bros a beg u go woond her please leave her alone

may she is looking for pio or ciocio

@ Chihums

My bet is you haven't been around girls much. I guess you're acting out of your limited choices.

Believe me, people her age are usually quite capricious. Besides, she's not HERSELF yet - she's really yet to unfold. Trust me, she'll be an entirely different person in the next 5 years.

She's not worth the trouble.

Pittbaby:

Ifeleke , I have to politely disagree with you, HOW DO YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH A 15YR OLD . The poster needs to explain the basis for this love.

Well, It beats me too but we all must give the poster a benefit of doubt and that is why I gave him some conditions which will show how serious he is.
The conditions again are:

IFELEKE:

1. Don't defile the young girl by luring her into teenage sex. . .that's Child Abuse and you are liable to some years behind bars at kirikiri,Ikoyi or Ilesa Prisons.
2. Finish your studies because beleive me, If you don't have what it takes to be a man, you will forever remain a boy.
Finally, Wait for her till she is ripe and of age to fully understand that what you feel for her is NOT brotherly affection.