4uboootyman:
This is a question for all to ponder on;

Leave all your biases and ur religious justification and let's face the real world we are in. For all my single women never be cajoled to thinking when u get married ur guy will spread that leg d way he does now on request (married women can attest to this).

Before my husband n I got married the issue of sex never came up we were so compatible everytime we wanted we had it. He was even learning to give head and it didnt seem like a problem cos I was willing to teach. Fast forward to now we r married.....hmmmm! The idea of Mouth Gig is a forgone story, he has said hIS own, he doesn't like it and it's somewhat degrades a man (oboi my eye open wide, like I have just been scammed) the things I hear now during sex is..."it's hurting", "I'm doin this because of you" "can't you just hold me", "must it be tonight?". I leave the man as I don't want to seem pushy. Sometimes I talk my way thru, buy gifts n all but when I stay in my closet alone....I just know I have been scammed. What next do I do not to hurt him?

There is a guy down the road, at work, social gathering etc that is liking the guy...and the guy knows I'm married, but just for the spirit of adventure and the small financial gains he throws jab at me, (me wey konji wan finish). I take it up from there...we talk exchange numbers he only has my watsapp contact and shit starts happening. At the end of the day I am satisfied I get home my guy puts up an excuse and it's fine by me and everybody moves on happily.

Don't crucify ursef with what d Lord says "we all know" and ask for his grace. Guys what do you think about this situation. Married women I know u r all having a situation like this so chill n read. Single women...just pray say this kind thing no hit u cos u can never preempt it.

sinaj:
Hmmm




Marriage is not a bed of roses


We av to b careful in choosing our mate

Not all dat glitters is gold...


I dnt wnt to imagine how living with a particular person for yrs will be as secrets nd ugly characters will unfold

bettercreature:
OP beware,this is AFRICA! only men is allowed
women are not allowed to cheat

bettercreature:
OP beware,this is AFRICA! only men is allowed
women are not allowed to cheat

sinaj:
Hmmm




Marriage is not a bed of roses


We av to b careful in choosing our mate

Not all dat glitters is gold...


I dnt wnt to imagine how living with a particular person for yrs will be as secrets nd ugly characters will unfold

Tinalex:
God biko ooo.. though not married, give me the grace not to cheat on my hubby and vice-versa (amen)