Adesiji77:
"If your spouse gains scholarship to study abroad a month after wedding, what will you do?"

The above topic appears in today's issue of Punch newspaper and I felt it would make an interesting discussion....

http://punchng.com/2015/10/2530 lalasticlala

just call the wedding off cuz it will never work. if your spouse jumps at the offer, then that was not your husband or wife to begin with so just let them go

We are going together..

JustOzito:
I'l allow him to go. Dat mins I have regained my freedom

All diss DORO gal nor wan hear, even after marriage u sstilll wish to dey cut show outside. Lolz anyways wen that time reach, I will be waitn to take his place for 1mnth

ElDeeVee:

Wicked

Am not wicked just protecting wats mine

EggovinMma:
I will let him go. .But we must Skype daily oooo.

Yes Skype, you both see each other faces. It made me catch mine not using his ring one day. I hala am.

It will hardly work in Nigeria of today. The greatest problem i experience with my girlfriend was the day i told her i want to go abroad for my masters. That month was the worst ever in my relationship. I had what i have not heard for years. She felt am leaving her. That simple statement brought a big crack to our relationship not to talk about married couple.


For me its either we go together or she decide to come on a monthly basis if not...

ProfEinstein:
As uggly as u are u think u have got an opinion

Lol..... Someone is pained....

MsGlobalwonder:
lool... I share similar sentiments. But such offers more often than none ain't impromptu tho. I can't be married and be living single. I fear that so much. My respect for those in distant marriage has no limit, but yours truly can't!

my sister, am sure yours too can't be.

EggovinMma:
I will let him go. .But we must Skype daily oooo.

skype ke? Who skype help? Ahhh, in the real deal; no technology beats real life body warmth, eyeball to eyeball kind of communication. It douses tension and uplifts the soul. Skype is no substitute joor

justjify:


Hmmm. You look too cute to do that

I don't want him bleeping another chic...... He is for keeps.....

damilareoye:

my sister, am sure yours too can't be.

lool. I don't get.. can't b long distant or can be long distant? I don't like long distannt and I pray vehemently against it!

2pwesh:

Am not wicked just protecting wats mine

Okay protector of life

MsGlobalwonder:
skype ke? Who skype help? Ahhh, in the real deal; no technology beats real life body warmth, eyeball to eyeball kind of communication. It douses tension and uplifts the soul. Skype is no substitute joor

Well, I understand. But Skype will ease sone urge you know

olubankemi:


We were both focused. We were planning wedding when the scholarship came, he sees me then as the good head person who brought him luck.

I also knew he will return to earn better pay and I will be the madam. Lol.

So we both had to sacrifice.

One thing I will advise anyone is, I made the mistake then, both of you should gather money and finance the other party MSc, even if it will take loan, do it. It's worth it. We always wished I did mine then in the UK too.

advice duly noted! It still corroborates my stand. Marriage in absentia is torture mehn. I'm glad urs weathered through it. Nice

olubankemi:


Yes Skype, you both see each other faces. It made [b]me catch mine not using his ring one da[/b]y. I hala am.

Lmao!
But you for ignore a, na, comot your own too.At a point, he will hala you, then both of you will hala each other.

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EggovinMma:


Well, I understand. But Skype will ease sone urge you know

ermmm... I dont know ooo *hands in the air" lool. Oh well...

ProfEinstein:
As uggly as u are u think u have got an opinion

u too wicked

That's one chance, I don't pray for such.

MsGlobalwonder:
lool. I don't get.. can't b long distant or can be long distant? I don't like long distannt and I pray vehemently against it!

am saying yours too can't be long distant. and yes, you just typed that.

I sure say you will hold him like. "man, don't try it"

Mynd44:
What will I do? It is a matter of what she will do.

If she wants to go for it, she has my full support. I will even lean into supporting her to take it.

mumu!

MsGlobalwonder:
ermmm... I dont know ooo *hands in the air" lool. Oh well...

.Now you know.......

Its a tough decision considering the fact that its just a month after being wedded, if we could go together i won't mind

tunapawizzy:

I have not said I will trust her to come back d way she left....I insist I will support her...let her come back abnormal first....den we take it up from dere

this one got me LAUGHING

Mynd44:
What will I do? It is a matter of what she will do.

If she wants to go for it, she has my full support. I will even lean into supporting her to take it.

Correct guy.shes not going forever nah

Flashh:
We are going together.

Smart guy,others r fo0lish

Okeikpu:
mumu!

as in.....

sonofananimal:
this one got me LAUGHING

I no lie na ma broda

EggovinMma:


.Now you know.......

lmaooooo no oooo... I dont know still. You people shouldn't desecrate me o jare lool

damilareoye:
am saying yours too can't be long distant. and yes, you just typed that.

I sure say you will hold him like. "man, don't try it"

lmaooo it's not a good thing at all. Ahhh.. I wanna enjoy 100% the privileges and rights that come with being married. That kind thing

MsGlobalwonder:
advice duly noted! It still corroborates my stand. Marriage in absentia is torture mehn. I'm glad urs weathered through it. Nice

It's but for a moment dear. If you see the man is focused, you will let him go with your prayers.

After that I have experienced more than four instances of him not being around for more than five months. What will you do? Omo, that's why marriage is for the matured minds.

tunapawizzy:

I no lie na ma broda

base on experience and what I have seen. It is very risky