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Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by dondodo: 4:11pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
My name is Solomon from Kogi State. A graduate of Accounting from a government University in Kogi state. Since I graduated from the university 10 years ago,I've been facing different challenges ranging from family,finance,health and so on.Luckily for me i got a good job this year and I've been thinking of settling down. Do you think it is proper for me to marry a woman at 35 or just have a baby mama? This question have been pondering my mind. Please your opinion is really needed 37 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Taylor92: 4:13pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
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Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by doggedfighter(f): 4:14pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
You got a job this year and you are already thinking of settling down or baby mama ? Have you settled yourself ? Have you settled your life and issues around you ? You are less than one year on the job. 339 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by yomi007k(m): 4:28pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
I pity you man. 79 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by EmptyGarden(m): 4:55pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Absolutely not, ideal age for marriage is 45. You still have 10 solid years to play around. As for Baby mama, you have my full support 203 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Ibechris2: 5:07pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
The day u get a baby mama...mark it,that is the day u have use your hands to bastardised ur old age. As educated as u are,u think it is easy with those men who are into it. U see why some men are better left in abject poverty than in riches because if not,why is it that u are thinking backward after a good job. If ur parents did the same,do u think life would have been that easy for u? See,there is nothing like having the both parents at the formative age of every child,it would engender healthy child development and care. Lastly,u can do as u like but remember that baby mama is sure to frustrate ur life with bills that may crumble your finance all because of ur child. Be careful man. 277 Likes 24 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by dondodo: 5:08pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
doggedfighter:I already own a house of my own and car 49 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by dondodo: 5:09pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Ibechris2:Thank you for your advice 25 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by dondodo: 5:10pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
EmptyGarden:All my siblings and colleagues are married 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by donbachi(m): 5:12pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
I married at 28 55 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Mindlog: 5:34pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Baby mama as in, she give births and you rent accomodation for her and your child(ren), sending money for their upkeep while you live your bachelor life? By the way 35 is still too young to be married, andropause is still far ahead. 21 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by doggedfighter(f): 5:37pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
dondodo: In that case, just marry. Leave baby mama. You don't need baby mama drama. 49 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by talk2hb1(m): 7:22pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
doggedfighter:Savage Response! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by dondodo: 7:24pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Please help push this topic to de front page 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Klass99(f): 7:36pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
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Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by frozen70(f): 8:48pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
dondodo: Can you tell me the difference between the baby mama and a wife Can you explain the benefits of having a baby mama and a wife Can you ask yourself why, you even have the thoughts of baby mama when you can find a wife to plan with considering the fact that at age 35yrs, you are supposed to be rounding up having kids assuming you married earlier Anyway the best for you is to go in search of a wife and have just few kids that you can train 2/3 should be OK so far you are lucky to have mix gender Its not how far but how well By now I believe that you already know what you want in a woman 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by austine4real(m): 8:54pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
It is never too late bro Just commit everything to God's hand . 7 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Meerahbel: 10:06pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Actually, 35 is a pretty good age to marry for a man. You're young enough and not too set in your ways. You're most likely established in your career, and financially. You're young enough to have enough energy should you have kids. You're also mature enough to know what you want, have dated enough to know what you like and don't like in a partner, and will most likely make a better match with someone. You're also at an age where you can stop dating woman in their early 20’s anymore, and who are not looking to settle down or have kids just yet. Chances are, a woman between 26–35 is probably more in line with where you are in life, as you will have shared experiences, stability, and similar goals. All the best to finding the right woman. 64 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by bukatyne(f): 10:31pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
dondodo: Oga Solo, my people say 'Oruko eni lon ro eni'. Sugbon, tie o ro e. At 35, you don't know what you want; imagine deciding between a baby mama and a wife. And no, you have not gotten a lady pregnant unplanned for. Please continue working for now, you are not ready to marry. 19 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by izonborn098(m): 10:33pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
dondodo:at 35 if you can get a woman that suits you and you have the finacial ability i think you has to to settle down. My opinion though 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Baronthecelebri: 10:58pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Baby mama all the way 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Vision101(m): 11:28pm On Jun 08, 2023 |
Direct answer: it's not good enough to marry at 35. Wait till you are 55. FYI 35 years is expired bachelor jor. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by emmanuelbrown26: 12:05am On Jun 09, 2023 |
dondodo:Dis ur question sounds more of a confused man, boy in a man skin. A real man really knows what he wants. Baba if ur mind no carry to put one daughter of eve for house, better follow d baby mama way, to avoid had I known. Bcs what we hv outta their is nothing to write home about. Hv u asked ur self why too many single ladies and single mothers out their? Better know what u want, live ur life, do not live other people's life bcs u are only answerable to ur self, not even d society. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Karleb(m): 5:07am On Jun 09, 2023 |
dondodo: Just a year after getting a good job and you want to marry? Yoruba people call something "edi". Won ti di yin sir. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by EriMma1: 6:03am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Save up and build your finances for like three years first before talking about marriage. A woman needs to be well cared for and you need to be financially stable to be able to do that. So build first. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by mrblessed(m): 6:51am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Man, you just got a good after many years of suffering and the next thing that comes to your mind is marriage? Haba! You never enjoy life na, relax and flex small before one of the daughters of Eve go come with entitlement complex. 12 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Sonnobax15(m): 10:37am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Op said he already has a house of his own,and a car too.... My only advice for you is that you should do everything possible to avoid baby mama dramas and focus on how to marry. 8 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Nobody: 11:17am On Jun 09, 2023 |
No, there's nothing wrong with it. You don't love the person in question if you're asking this. Men age much quicker than women, fyi. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by samwash(m): 11:45am On Jun 09, 2023 |
If not that the economy is too harsh. B/w 32-35 yrs of age should be the latest a man should find himself a wife. By 26-30yrs man suppose don marry, at 40-45 yrs man suppose don round up with child bearing. I pity guys/Babes of our generation when think say Baby Mama/ Baby Papa be the way out, they don't know the type of children they are bringing into the society, you may think it's cool with you but ask those children when they become adult, you will be surprise to discover that you guys have subjected them to all through the face of growing up into adulthood. Just like one Baba I kwn, he is living a stupid kind of life now in his late sixty's, not that he don't have money, his life is full of regrets. Three Baby Mama's, he never married any of them, five full grown up adult with children, nobody stay with him at home. At sixty's he is living like a bachelor (Babachelor), not that he's a widower, is that life ? 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by sofeo(m): 11:59am On Jun 09, 2023 |
Let's ask |
Re: Is It Good For A Man To Marry At 35 by Meerahbel: 12:00pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
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