shanda:

Don't be scared, the worst that'll happen is that u'll get bleeped!

shanda:

Don't be scared, the worst that'll happen is that u'll get bleeped!

Ejadamen:

I presume that you are not married. Meeting up with an ex can be tough because dying embers can catch new fire. I don't think you should be worried about his plans rather be worried about yourself. If you must go, arm yourself with self control and self discipline.

lechatte:

I don't know about you but if it was someone I felt something for, I would be careful about meeting with him and where. Are there still embers that stand the risk of being of fanned into flames and do you want those embers to be fanned into flames? It really depends on what you want, however set your boundaries and stick to it! All you gotta do is be nice and polite to him.

I can't guarantee that all the embers have been drowned. But, I feel nothing for him - right now, if anything it's like a game to me, it shouldn't be, but I'm just going to catch up because I'm interested in seeing whether he's changed or not, even if he's changed, I've almost pictured the girl he's with and it's not me .

Thanks for the advice.

Pittbaby:

I like lechatte's answer , make sure you are in control of the environment at least for the first few meetings. . .

shanda:

Don't be scared, the worst that'll happen is that u'll get bleeped!

Pittbaby:

just set your own boundaries , dont bother yourself about his plans

Busy_body:


Few meetings ke

Pittbaby:

yes now !!!after the first few meetings she will know his intentions (friends only or rekindling of relationship) and if she is of like mind with rekindling then she can opt for more private settings , off course she should be careful of the dabe ever dabe mentality of guys , (Translated , I hit it before and will hit it again )

topup:

. . .The only doubt I have is that after he leaves I'll remember all the good times and miss him, but I think I need to get over it. . .

Based on what you wrote above Topup, I think you should not go, make him sweat a bit and tell the guy to make his intention known on the phone, if his intention was geniune, he will persist with his hounding of you to meet up with him

topup:


because as a friend he's one of those 'text 3 times a year' type (distant friend) . . .

follypimpi:

Just Go and get yourself toped up.

prittigrrr:

I met up with an ex once. He picked me up from the airport in his city. He was supposed to take me straight to where I was staying. He left something @ his house and we just dropped by to get it. I went in with him. Eight days later I was unbelievably tired all the time,  I was hungry all time but everything I ate sickened me. I got pregnant! Be sure you set boundaries and that you can stay in those  boundaries! If you cant, pass on seeing him. (Me and the guy got back together after that visit.)

Busy_body:

GBAM Only that this is a bit rich coming from an okobo You stood a whole Iyalode like me up I will never forgive you walahi

TOPE2000!:

Lmao
Iyalode n her food

follypimpi:


Stood up,never knew i did.Will sure make it up in all ways

Busy_body:

Who told you I eat sausages I am a vegetarian

Fiona0007:

An Ex is an Ex, what else?
Remain friends if they wish, but no more special.

TOPE2000!:

Lol . . . . but u like cucumber sha