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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by hertz9te(m): 7:59am On Nov 18, 2015
quiinnBee:
Would explain this the best way i can.
A few weeks into the semester,my lecturer would begin lecture by entering the class, looking for me and saying, “How are you” and then “Hello class” After this happened for a few weeks in a row, I
heard people began
to whisper about the awkward greetings.
They started assuming things_which are despicable.
I was disgusted with the rumours.So i started sitting in the back row thinking that would stop him from noticing me.
This evening he called me to his office after class and said he wants to take me out.I didnt see that coming! I was shocked and i blurted it out to him immediately.He said i should go think about it.
Am totally confused right now.
please how do i handle this situation properly?
and stop him from ever disturbing me.
tell him you're betrothed to someone......I if he says he wants to hear the complete story....juz ask me
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Nobody: 10:04am On Nov 18, 2015
Durentt:
Meet a Jujuman. I have one in my side, they call him Baba Ashimu. Believe me the Lecturer wud be a leper immediately. 100pacent werey lecturers. Dats how i deal with mine


I have never done jazz, but I believe in it and I think that her best option if the man becomes a threat to her education.... Stupid lectures
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Nobody: 11:04am On Nov 18, 2015
Michellla:

true he deserves a slap for that comment.rickrichards
What's good, Michelle? My lessons o. sad
quiinnBee:
Would explain this the best way i can.
A few weeks into the semester,my lecturer would begin lecture by entering the class, looking for me and saying, “How are you” and then “Hello class” After this happened for a few weeks in a row, I
heard people began
to whisper about the awkward greetings.
They started assuming things_which are despicable.
I was disgusted with the rumours.So i started sitting in the back row thinking that would stop him from noticing me.
This evening he called me to his office after class and said he wants to take me out.I didnt see that coming! I was shocked and i blurted it out to him immediately.He said i should go think about it.
Am totally confused right now.
please how do i handle this situation properly?
and stop him from ever disturbing me.

Just tell him that you know me, and he'll quit hounding you immediately.

Such people have to be handled with tact. Blurting out whatever it is you blurted out will only strengthen his resolve. Let him know that it is impossible for you to have anything with him. Give him cogent reasons, and be diplomatic about it. And if that doesn't work, go to Student Affairs.
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by devonpaul(m): 11:11am On Nov 18, 2015
Yo! Statistics revealed that nigerians are d worst set of people to seek advice from. Girl, i see no big deal in a lecturer taking a certain interest in a student. Ur maturity in handling d situation goes a long way. Uve not even listen to d lecturer to know what hes gotta say. I want to take u out doesnt necesarily mean Can we Have sexxxxs? I think you are mature enuff to know what u want and that which u dont want. And mind u, we Have young lecturers who are single and eventually marry one of their students except of course a lecturer is not ur type. Be civilised pls. Someone always greet u or even admire u shud not be translated to an open invitation for sex. Gosh!! Pls, set ur lecturer a date in an open and convenient place, be d 1 to choose d take-out spot. Let him reveal his intentions 1st b4 u act afterwards. Goodluck.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Michellla(f): 12:01pm On Nov 18, 2015
wipe that face off.my resumption is impending.so ima fix it soonest
RickRichards:

What's good, Michelle? My lessons o. sad


Just tell him that you know me, and he'll quit hounding you immediately.

Such people have to be handled with tact. Blurting out whatever it is you blurted out will only strengthen his resolve. Let him know that it is impossible for you to have anything with him. Give him cogent reasons, and be diplomatic about it. And if that doesn't work, go to Student Affairs.
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Jideh9ty(m): 12:22pm On Nov 18, 2015
quiinnBee:

its not my dressing.cause i dress casually
ok. Sorry you r in that position. Perhaps some changes has to be done so he gets off you and study hard like very hard itself. May the odds be in your favour.
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by jrerico1(m): 2:13pm On Nov 18, 2015
IamLucy:
would you advice your sister to bang the lecturer? you are actually the ignorant one here.take several seats.
she's an adult and can bang anyone she likes, stop thinking like a kid

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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Nov 18, 2015
Michellla:
wipe that face off.my resumption is impending.so ima fix it soonest
Yay! Angel Michael Michelle saves the day again! cheesy
Can't wait. smiley

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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by drnairalov: 3:42pm On Nov 18, 2015
quiinnBee:
Would explain this the best way i can.
A few weeks into the semester,my lecturer would begin lecture by entering the class, looking for me and saying, “How are you” and then “Hello class” After this happened for a few weeks in a row, I
heard people began
to whisper about the awkward greetings.
They started assuming things_which are despicable.
I was disgusted with the rumours.So i started sitting in the back row thinking that would stop him from noticing me.
This evening he called me to his office after class and said he wants to take me out.I didnt see that coming! I was shocked and i blurted it out to him immediately.He said i should go think about it.
Am totally confused right now.
please how do i handle this situation properly?
and stop him from ever disturbing me.


sad sad sad sad
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by IamLucy(f): 7:45pm On Nov 18, 2015
jrerico1:
she's an adult and can bang anyone she likes, stop thinking like a kid
really nigg? undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by MrSmith007: 8:02pm On Nov 18, 2015
From all you posted.. how is he a pervert? undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by teebaxy(m): 10:48pm On Nov 18, 2015
Kini big deal....na normal thing naun
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by estherdim: 10:51pm On Nov 18, 2015
op it seems you dnt knw the word pervert End Time lecturerOP


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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by goshen26: 10:51pm On Nov 18, 2015
Start dressing shabbily to class, if that does not work set him up. I perceive that u r the flashy type
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by abduldope(m): 10:52pm On Nov 18, 2015
nd u bliv bringing it here where no bdy knws ur schl wld solve it,lol i smell F 1st semester nd F 2nd..... thaz if u say no... btw wt made u tink hez nt a Nairalander lol #9ja.4you

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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by yyeanqah(m): 10:53pm On Nov 18, 2015
End tym
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by FREEEMANAN(m): 10:54pm On Nov 18, 2015
How should I handle a liar.??




undecided
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Nov 18, 2015
Durentt:
Meet a Jujuman. I have one in my side, they call him Baba Ashimu. Believe me the Lecturer wud be a leper immediately. 100pacent werey lecturers. Dats how i deal with mine
SMH
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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by AreaFada2: 10:59pm On Nov 18, 2015
Record evidence of his pestering you.

It can be handy in the future when you complain to school authorities.
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by IlekeHD: 10:59pm On Nov 18, 2015
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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by agabaI23(m): 11:00pm On Nov 18, 2015
quiinnBee:
Would explain this the best way i can.
A few weeks into the semester, my lecturer would begin lecture by entering the class, looking for me and saying, “How are you” and then “Hello class” After this happened for a few weeks in a row, I heard people began to whisper about the awkward greetings.

They started assuming things_which are despicable.
I was disgusted with the rumours. So i started sitting in the back row thinking that would stop him from noticing me.

This evening he called me to his office after class and said he wants to take me out. I didnt see that coming! I was shocked and i blurted it out to him immediately.He said i should go think about it.

Am totally confused right now. Please how do i handle this situation properly and stop him from ever disturbing me?
1. I do not see anything wrong in a lecturer (an adult) liking an adult. It is obvious the lecturer has been crushing on you for a while but I don't understand the idea of broadcasting it to everyone in class which has spoiled his chances of winning you. It is a stupid thing to do. A person like him however will see a no as an insult. Now tread carefully.
2. Try telling him you are uncomfortable having a relationship with your lecturer that you will likely not learn anything in his course.
3. Be matured about it and talk to him sincerely.
4. if you are in your final year or close to final, tell him to be patient until you finish with his course that you will consider it.
5. If you think none of this is possible make friends with a born again lecturer who is higher in rank and make sure he does not see you with your boyfriend or any other boy in a romantic mood...

I hope the lecturer is not an idiot for your sake

6. Get an evidence of harrasment, tape your conversations and then let him know you taped it after you have stored it away.
he will let you be and wont even consider failing you.

Gospel according to Agaba...
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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by gamaliel121(m): 11:03pm On Nov 18, 2015
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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by bettercreature(m): 11:06pm On Nov 18, 2015
quiinnBee:
Would explain this the best way i can.
A few weeks into the semester, my lecturer would begin lecture by entering the class, looking for me and saying, “How are you” and then “Hello class” After this happened for a few weeks in a row, I heard people began to whisper about the awkward greetings.

They started assuming things_which are despicable.
I was disgusted with the rumours. So i started sitting in the back row thinking that would stop him from noticing me.

This evening he called me to his office after class and said he wants to take me out. I didnt see that coming! I was shocked and i blurted it out to him immediately.He said i should go think about it.

Am totally confused right now. Please how do i handle this situation properly and stop him from ever disturbing me?
Your legs tho! anyway i will advice you to fucck his brain out
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by sage2(m): 11:07pm On Nov 18, 2015
CaroLyner:
you should report to the school authority about his inappropriate behaviours.

For asking her out?

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Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by ikombe: 11:08pm On Nov 18, 2015
viickerz:
Tell him that you want to give him a b.low job, then bite off his dick
the sooner you get sense d beta for u cheesy
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by busyfishing(m): 11:15pm On Nov 18, 2015
No no no .Don't heed to his advances.I guess he should be married...please don't ever do married men.pls dont
Re: How Do I Handle A Pervert Lecturer? by HastaCuando(m): 11:18pm On Nov 18, 2015
Go back and tell him politely why you can't and won't do what he requests of you. Then buckle up and study hard! in case of eventuality... That's the gospel truth.


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