I am a young man in my late twenties and I've been courting this chick for 2.5 years now, she's about four months older and i know she loves me too. she is currently serving so I proposed marriage and asked her to lets fix a date for the introduction but she insists not yet! help! What shld I do?

give her some time so she can sort out things 4 hesef, if after dat she still insist den dat means she dosnt want u for marriage.

@poster - are you not happy? that she is upfront with you? - rather than leave things to go-ahead and change her mind at the last minute due to doubts or indecisions?

try to see the good in some decision - she has not broken off your engagement or relationship - she just wants to be sure - nothing worse than marrying an unsure partner - because they will blame for life for whatever little thing that goes wrong - who wants that kinda baggage for life? not me oh

need more details, otherwise wait

thanks o! she's been such a darling and ever sweet but I think I'm just in a hurry to settle on time!
I get a lot of pressure from other ladies but I'm holding on!
Your advice is treasured!