biina:

His wife is telling lies and its not his business?
What comes next when he starts to suspect you of similar behavior?
Am sure you know what they say about birds of a feather

Saying no at the moment, but you honestly don't know what the future holds.

What goes on between my friend and I is none of my husbands business. Especially if its not affecting our marriage

After losing my job, I rejoined my former law firm courtesy of a friend, as a temporary worker. Unfortunately, things were not working out so well there as the new office manager was not keen on rehiring me, though my friend, who brought me back as a temp wanted me to stay onboard. Then, all of a sudden, this guy got fired! I was perplexed and then blamed it on the woman's 'racist' attitude towards blacks. Eventually, rumors started circulating in the firm that this acquaintance who had hired me had sexually harrased another temporary worker in the firm. I dont really know the full gist of the story, but they may be an element of truth to it. Infact, another guy told me that our presence may be required in court should the girl file suit against my friend.

I left the firm and thought that was the end of the saga. But out of the blues, my friend's wife (I mean, we were not really friends though) called me from the blues and left a message. Upon returning her call, I inquired of her husband and she told me that he travelled to their home country. Then the woman quizzed me on why the husband was sacked. I told her that the office manager was a pain in the neck so, that may have led to his termination. And then his wife asked me questions about the other female temp (without mentioning the allegations of the sexual harrasment levelled against her husband) but my lips did not utter any rumor of the sexual harrasment allegations against the husband. I only blamed the incident on the office manager. I dont know if the firm was ever sued or not.

Now, coming to this story, I do have to ask myself, "Did I lie by not telling her about the allegations, or was I right in sealing my lips"?

Becomrich:

No

Naija men are the global kings of promiscuity. Its high time some women show us that 2 can play that game.

Krayola:

haha. Abeg, make una leave Joke alone, na the one wey go pay am she go do.

Naija men are the global kings of promiscuity. Its high time some women show us that 2 can play that game.

Aloy.Emeka:

Will you say the same about your husband's female friends?. He can as well tell you to mind your business as long as his friendship with his female secretary is not affecting your marriage.

You would be singing a different tune if your woman decides to show you that she too can play that game.

i probably would to cover for her , dont know what my stand would be if she were married though,