virginboy1:

Mr johnydon22. can you see what this lady just wrote up there sir?

Syphax:
OP, God is soaking your cane in hot oil.
Saying no to premarital sex gives me a clear conscience, that alone is better than all those jargon you wrote there.

raayah:


They're also issues like vaginismus which cannot really be detected by the doctor ( vaginismus is severe pain in the vagina during sex).people with these problems can't have sex.

Even premature ejaculation is an issue, the man won't know he has until having sex.
There are also thing's like Micropenis ( even though the man may feel like he's endowed.) its a major problem during sex

there are various advantages of waiting till marriage but there are also several disadvantages and there is Nothing wrong In discussing them.

He is not encouraging pre-marital sex but let's not pretend that pre-marital sex is all bad or foreign. It happening right now and will keep on happening as long as humans are on earth. No amount of preaching will reduce it.
Besides not everyone is a Muslim or Christian or religious in general...

I personally, do not see anything wrong if two people in a committed relationship have sex (remember personal)

virginboy1:

Mr johnydon22. can you see what this lady just wrote up there sir?

johnydon22:


Lol.. i did everyone has the right to hold any belief they want no matter how ridiculous it may seem to others.

She thinks someone, a kind of humanoid somewhere created everything ..

then this thing that is big enough to create the whole universe, powerful enough to create the whole universe and everything in it..

Comes to a lone small tiny planet and is begging humans to worship it and is worrying over whether you have sex or not and then loves jews more than others..

It's not only absurd, it is a nonsensical idea but well people can hold what ever belief they need to give themselves a moral compass.

If anybody needs some fairy in the sky to tell them whether they should masturbate or not, or tell them not to kill.

then you have every reason to be afraid of such persons because they can kill you when ever they think that fairy told them to..

InZA:


Eyah
Smh.

jascon1:
I can't believe I ended reading a trashy piece of sheet like this. Sex guarantees nothing in a relationship. If your mind isn't there, no amount of sex will keep you. We fake things that aren't real. In a few years to come, you will confirm that holding on saves a lot of headaches.
That's why blacks keep feeling marginalised, coz they spend precious time looking for and giving sex, partying and following trends.

Reiyvinn:
Sex sex sex! That's the topic breaking through ethers of the romantic atmosphere across the globe.

In all ramifications, it can be drawn that the act of Sexual intercourse can indeed change a relationship for good; either to the right direction or otherwise.

The bond that Sex creates in relationships shouldn't be overlooked because even as it could strengthen relationships, it could keep you emotionally attached to the wrong person.

WAITING till after marriage for sex seems religiously appealing at all fronts, and to be honest with you it really is a beautiful thing to behold. However, let us not pretend to be unaware of the numerous disadvantages it holds. (few of which will be treated here)

Thus, before taking a "purity pledge" (i.e. No sex till marriage), let us be realistic at the following levels:

1.) Your Future Sexual Satisfaction is not guaranteed:

This is the major disadvantage of not having sex with your partner till after marriage.

It is true marriage isn't entirely about sex but we can't deny the fact that sexual intimacy makes up a huge part of marriages.

When you haven't had sex with your mate before walking down the aisle, your partner's sexual capability is entirely subjected to guess work which is really a huge risk and if your guess turns out wrong, it most often than not leads to.....

2.) Infidelity:

We're humans. It is in our nature to diversify when our long term investments yield a loss.

Oh yes, that's the word, it's a big loss! Imagine having spent two decades (or more) of your life waiting for your wedding night to have that long envisaged pleasure of intimacy only to be met with an ill-performing partner. It's a huge loss!

At this point, one party or both begin looking for alternative means to attain that long yearned satisfaction. At first, it starts with masturbating and porn addiction, and when it gets out of hand, infidelity sets in.

Body no be firewood you know.

3.) Risk of Impotence:

There's absolutely nothing worse than discovering that you've been entangled to a partner that'll never be able to procreate with you till death do you both part.

What a nightmare that is!

No wonder some people choose to get married only when the wife gets pregnant.

I even recall a neighbour back in Abuja who had an impotent husband. She had to have children with his relations and name them after him just to keep the marriage strong.

Some love strong sha!

4.) Sexual Chemistry:

Supposing everything goes fine and both partners are fit, capable and fertile, they will most definitely be one thing missing: Sexual Chemistry.

For couples who have had each other before walking down the aisle, pleasing each other won't really be difficult because they already know where ticks and how to get into each other's cloud nine. That's the understanding they took time to build. Mind you, everyone's different. That which works for Obi may piss Alhaji off.

It's really hard getting married to someone you don't fully understand and some situations come up where one partner wants MouthAction and the other detests it, or where one partner seeks to try out other positions and the other won't just get any of it.

These could lead to both insatisfaction and infidelity which aren't really good for a lifetime bond.

So, guys, that's it.

[s]I'm not encouraging you to lose your "sexual purity"[/s], I'm rather highlighting the disadvantages of what you're getting yourself into and being real about it.

Please don't get me wrong, your purity pledge could come out as a tremendous success (which would be awesome) but assuming you find yourself in any of the situations stated above, know it's because of the decision you took.

Wish you well.

Gbopemi0:
Dem Dey test beta good for supermarket? mtcheeeew

ADOGBEYI:
Everything God asks us to abstain from is for our own good; you can never be wiser than your Creator.

Sex is a very spiritual activity; in my opinion, it is 90% spiritual and 10% physical. If you listen to your conscience very well, it tells you it's wrong to indulge. Unfortunately, it is sweeter to indulge in it than otherwise; hence, people allow the lust of the flesh to overwhelm the sense of judgment (conscience) given them by God. While everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, the bad sides of indulging in premarital Sex far outweigh the good sides, if any.

My prayer for everyone is that God gives you the grace to get married on time so as to avoid the trap of premarital sex and while you wait for marriage, may He grant you the strength to say "NO" to devilish advice as posted here in this write-up. Again, this write-up is satanic and those that will heed it are not wise.

braine:
I concur.

farem:



Yes the article doesn't ENCOURAGE premarital sex at all.

The article just ENLIGHTENS them- the singles, unmarried, divorcees, teenagers etc of the 'evils' of not engaging in formication!


Even Satan parades himself as an angel of light!!

raayah:


They're also issues like vaginismus which cannot really be detected by the doctor ( vaginismus is severe pain in the vagina during sex).people with these problems can't have sex.

Even premature ejaculation is an issue, the man won't know he has until having sex.
There are also thing's like Micropenis ( even though the man may feel like he's endowed.) its a major problem during sex

there are various advantages of waiting till marriage but there are also several disadvantages and there is Nothing wrong In discussing them.

He is not encouraging pre-marital sex but let's not pretend that pre-marital sex is all bad or foreign. It happening right now and will keep on happening as long as humans are on earth. No amount of preaching will reduce it.
Besides not everyone is a Muslim or Christian or religious in general...

I personally, do not see anything wrong if two people in a committed relationship have sex (remember personal)

queenfav:
GBAM!I know the dissatisfaction and contempt you are bound to feel when a man can't satisfy you in bed.Love cannot cover that one for long o.Because you would just be frustrated.Better safe than sorry IMO.

queenfav:
GBAM!I know the dissatisfaction and contempt you are bound to feel when a man can't satisfy you in bed.Love cannot cover that one for long o.Because you would just be frustrated.Better safe than sorry IMO.

ADOGBEYI:
Everything God asks us to abstain from is for our own good; you can never be wiser than your Creator.

Sex is a very spiritual activity; in my opinion, it is 90% spiritual and 10% physical. If you listen to your conscience very well, it tells you it's wrong to indulge. Unfortunately, it is sweeter to indulge in it than otherwise; hence, people allow the lust of the flesh to overwhelm the sense of judgment (conscience) given them by God. While everyone is entitled to his/her opinion, the bad sides of indulging in premarital Sex far outweigh the good sides, if any.

My prayer for everyone is that God gives you the grace to get married on time so as to avoid the trap of premarital sex and while you wait for marriage, may He grant you the strength to say "NO" to devilish advice as posted here in this write-up. Again, this write-up is satanic and those that will heed it are not wise.

jascon1:
if sex is ur religion, then am a firm believer in abstinence. I won't mince words. I have daughters n if I have no belief, then is woe for them. Would be heretic for me to try to see the other side of sex without conjugal blessings. I begin to wonder how Christians view homosexuality as loathesome, but turn a blind eye to fornication. In my mind, we are being hypocritical. I condemn sin, even if I'm sinful. Where is our conscience at all? It just ain't right sharing pre-marital bodily fluids and yet feeling good that our bodies are temples of God.
A full grown man in his late twenty or late thirty is still testing kitten, while in most places in the world his mates are raising kids. If you can't hold on, then Get married.
You got no money, you're not ready for marriage, but you ready for sex. I'm not lamenting here, cos is a Sign of the last days.
But, am sorry my faith got no compromise and I see clearly

beylinko:
@OP..where did you get ur inspiration from? You just sat down and you thought it wise to string one or two things together out of your perverted mind?
If you know what Marriage is you won't thought it wise to write this. In marriage you walk in faith not on what you thought would be or should be. If you remove faith, then where do you put God.
If you have to test drive xex before marrying, then why not test drive financial challenges , health challenges , Happiness before you marry?
If you no fit hold body till you marry, then don't lead others to trade your path

jascon1:
I can't believe I ended reading a trashy piece of sheet like this. Sex guarantees nothing in a relationship. If your mind isn't there, no amount of sex will keep you. We fake things that aren't real. In a few years to come, you will confirm that holding on saves a lot of headaches.
That's why blacks keep feeling marginalised, coz they spend precious time looking for and giving sex, partying and following trends.

queenfav:
lol..na we be the ones wen dey defile the marriage bed na.Nigerians are the biggest hypocrites on earth.You find pastors preaching about no sex before marriage, yet they are straffing fresh choir babes and even married women behind closed doors.Many are not even convicted deep down in their soul that they want to toe that line.They are just doing it because it makes them seem "holy".Wheras you still lie and commit other sins.

Fearcom:
I'm not an advocate of "no sex before marriage" but I'm a die hard advocate of SEXUAL PURITY before marriage. Which lady (who isn't a virgin and is probably sexually active) will open her mouth to tell me 'no sex until wedding night' ?

There's no honesty, purity, godliness and truth anymore. Only lies and deceit and 'fake external packaging'. All the sexual excitement is gone; and like the liability they have become, they will look for where they can 'land'.

jascon1:
if sex is ur religion, then am a firm believer in abstinence. I won't mince words. I have daughters n if I have no belief, then is woe for them. Would be heretic for me to try to see the other side of sex without conjugal blessings. I begin to wonder how Christians view homosexuality as loathesome, but turn a blind eye to fornication. In my mind, we are being hypocritical. I Condemn sin, even if I'm sinful. Where is our conscience at all? It just ain't right sharing pre-marital bodily fluids and yet feeling good that our bodies are temples of God.
A full grown man in his late twenty or late thirty is still testing kitten, while in most places in the world his mates are raising kids. If you can't hold on, then Get married.
You got no money, you're not ready for marriage, but you ready for sex. I'm not lamenting here, cos is a Sign of the last days.
But, am sorry my faith got no compromise and I see clearly

AVRecruit:
marriage today seems not a wise choice. girls in their most attractive years r enjoyed by their bfs. the mumu husband go come carry after. mschew.

young damsels no longer want to settle down. they want to be 'free'.

in our parents times girls got married much younger im talking 17-21 so it made sense to wait. today they get married 26+ while their bfs de hammer t hem. who can actually wait those years? whose the idiot?

craziebone:


when i called you hypocrite in the first post, yo think i was lying! I wonder why you, who is claiming to b pope and assistant chineke, cam utter the word punnani! Don't you see the hypocrisy already?

And what on earth made you think everyone is a christian, or that everyone who is christian subscribes to that which you are saying or believe? Why don't you just open your mind and see the diversity we all have in this world already! What made your idea about sex and sexuality an absolute truth? Infact, i see sexism and misogyny in your post. You mentioned your daughers only, but what about your sons? This is another classic case of oppressing female sexuality!

Our body being the temple of God? Again, when exactly did we all make that pledge to 'God'? And why must any christian and anyone for that matter understand that scripture the way you understand it? I wonder why that scripture doesn't spring up anytime you commit other sins like lieing, extorting money from worshipers in form of tithe and offerings. Why must it always be mentioned anytime premarital sex in the topic? And whatmakes you think that just because sex is in marriage, you are not defiling the 'temple of God'? What about when sex is offered by one partner out of 'obligation' and not true and genuine desire to share something with ones partner?

Why don't you just show it to us already why people have to have money before they have sex? Why don't you just show it to us, fool!