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Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by CimonJorr(m): 6:48pm On Jun 25, 2005
hot-angel:

Ain't no Nigga gon raise his hands up on me. Infact raise your voice, and heaven will know some people are fighting. Seriously it's just total abuse when someone raises his hands on someone else.

Personally, if a guy raises his hands on me (better yet, not my husband..just a fucking lover), OH me gosh, he's gon regret doing that (Noo....noo, I ain't gon beat him back, I am not as strong as that). When he slaps me, I will look at him and walk out of his house, pick up my cellphone and dial 911. The police will come and get him, and then he can start bailing himself out. Between that's the end of me and him. (I could go behind him and break the galsses of his car)tongue.

americana.... grin wink
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Greatpeter(m): 6:56pm On Jun 25, 2005
No, Great Peter! The right man has not showed up yet o! Join me and fast grin Abi you no be my brother in Christ and for Nairaland.

Dont worry! When he shows up, rice and stew will be too much for every member of the forum, including 'take-away'


I pray Mr Right will come it could even  be on this forum. Me too still dey shine my eyes ooo.
So we be same same.
Dablessed God dey.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by dablessed(f): 7:40pm On Jun 25, 2005
Thanks Greatpeter,

Abeg shine those eyes well well o! Its worth the wait! Certainly, God dey!

Did I hear anyone's AMEN?
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by pkrix(m): 8:15pm On Jun 25, 2005
If she does? That will be fantastic unless I do not love her. I will simply tell her to do it again cos I love it.

But subsequently, I will go on pouncing strike until she apologizes with a sincerity as true as tears rolling down her chicks
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by dominobaby(f): 1:44pm On Jun 26, 2005
dablessed:


Did I hear anyone's AMEN?

A M E N
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by love4ever(f): 1:47pm On Jun 27, 2005
na what are you guys saying amen that was the truth
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by IAH(f): 1:55pm On Jun 27, 2005
If my boyfriend slaps me, he will see HELL. Of course that's the end of the relationship, then I will arrange for some thugs to go and beat him up, leave a huge scar somewhere on his body(preferably his face) so that he will always remember.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by legry(m): 6:34pm On Jun 27, 2005
tell her ,o freakkyy baybeee gee mee some more of that sugar hit
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by IAH(f): 7:29pm On Jun 27, 2005
legry:

tell her ,o freakkyy baybeee  gee mee some more of that sugar hit

You remind me of somebody that said he finds it "sexy" to be slapped by his girlfriend. Imagine that!
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Pinky(f): 7:42pm On Jun 27, 2005
IAH:

If my boyfriend slaps me, he will see HELL. Of course that's the end of the relationship, then I will arrange for some thugs to go and beat him up, leave a huge scar somewhere on his body(preferably his face) so that he will always remember.
if u can do this to him then he was probably nevr ur boyfriend or u never felt a thing for him...girlie, wrong+wrong=very wrong dont try such a thing my dear, & if he's a guy u love, if he comes begging for forgiveness i bet u will forgive him unless u've been looking for excuses to drop him off sinceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by mamba(m): 7:53pm On Jun 27, 2005
Pinky:

IAH link=topic=276.msg8059#msg8059 date=1119876943:

If my boyfriend slaps me, he will see HELL. Of course that's the end of the relationship, then I will arrange for some thugs to go and beat him up, leave a huge scar somewhere on his body(preferably his face) so that he will always remember.
if you can do this to him then he was probably nevr your boyfriend or you never felt a thing for him...girlie, wrong+wrong=very wrong don't try such a thing my dear, & if he's a guy you love, if he comes begging for forgiveness I bet you will forgive him unless you've been looking for excuses to drop him off sinceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Well said.....

Most people, after realizing that it was wrong to have slapped their lover will come back to plead for forgiveness.
If it's a first slap then it's worth forgiving.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Pinky(f): 8:21pm On Jun 27, 2005
mamba:


If it's a first slap then it's worth forgiving.
so mamba, wat if its the 3rd?
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by IAH(f): 12:24pm On Jun 28, 2005
tayotina:

But really there are times when you men deserve to be slapped.

Yes, this is very true. Some men deserve to be slapped hard! I'm not talking about your boyfriend o, but some men other than one's lover really do deserve it.
For ladies who say they can never slap a guy, just put yourself in a situation where the nastiest and most disgusting guy on this planet taps your ass with his rotten hand. What would you do? Won't you give him that resounding slap and let your fingers mark his face?

@Pinky, My love no dey tey. If I love you and you do something to hurt me, all my love will turn to hatred quick quick! So I could have felt something for him before but the moment he slaps me, I will hate him to hell and he will get the beating of his life and know how it hurts to be hit.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by mamba(m): 12:40pm On Jun 28, 2005
Pinky:

so mamba, what if its the 3rd?
I don't expect anybody to wait for a 3rd slap.
After the 2nd one just bail.....
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by bolasho(m): 1:13pm On Jun 28, 2005
@Pinky, [I]My love no dey tey.[/I] If I love you and you do something to hurt me, all my love will turn to hatred quick quick! So I could have felt something for him before but the moment he slaps me, I will hate him to hell and he will get the beating of his life and know how it hurts to be hit.
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Ha! IAH, well its obvious that you have not been inlove before. And lets put it this way, you guys are married with kids, you will leave him(pack out of the house) and still arrange thugs to beat him (the father of your kid(s)). Lets be more realistic here ooooo
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by tayotina(f): 3:07pm On Jun 28, 2005
IAH:

@Pinky, [I]My love no dey tey.[/I] If I love you and you do something to hurt me, all my love will turn to hatred quick quick! So I could have felt something for him before but the moment he slaps me, I will hate him to hell and he will get the beating of his life and know how it hurts to be hit.

IAH, then you don't know what love means. I tell you, even if he beats you to a pulp and later begs for forgiveness, if you truly love him, I tell you, you would forgive him and forget it. That is how love works. It's like magic.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by IAH(f): 3:18pm On Jun 28, 2005
Not everybody is capable of falling MADLY in love. Especially people that their hearts have been broken before.
Gone are the days when love used to be blind, now Love has eyes, nose and mouth. It sees, smells and tastes the stuff.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by tayotina(f): 3:47pm On Jun 28, 2005
Then maybe you can just say, when you like somebody. Don't call it love cos love forgives. I have ever been heart broken. It was so serious girl, I thought I was going to die. But that doesn't mean when my boyfriend slaps me now, I have to develop a strong hatred for him. Then I don't love him at all. Am I making a point?
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by legs(f): 3:55pm On Jun 28, 2005
love doesn't dish out slaps very easily either so maybe we should check the boyfriend [or girlfriend... grin wink] that appears to have such brutish tendencies!
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by IAH(f): 4:04pm On Jun 28, 2005
legs:

love doesn't dish out slaps very easily either so maybe we should check the boyfriend [or girlfriend...  grin wink] that appears to have such brutish tendencies!

Thank you! grin Great point!
@tayotina, maybe you didn't learn from the previous heartbreak. If you learnt, you won't take nonsense from any boy again EVER!
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by tayotina(f): 4:10pm On Jun 28, 2005
C'mon let's get real here, it might not be a deliberate act. I mean no man in his right senses would lift up his hand to strike a woman. It could be a mistake. Anything could have led to that slap.  It could even be that the lady pushed him so hard.

Do you think it's easy for a man to slap his woman just like that? You tell me.

IAH, I have never been slapped by a man and what actually led to our break up, you don't know.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by bolasho(m): 4:59pm On Jun 28, 2005
tayotina:

C'mon let's get real here, it might not be a deliberate act. I mean no man in his right senses would lift up his hand to strike a woman. It could be a mistake. Anything could have led to that slap.  It could even be that the lady pushed him so hard.

Do you think it's easy for a man to slap his woman just like that? You tell me.

IAH, I have never been slapped by a man and what actually led to our break up, you don't know.

Thank you so much Tayo, I have said it before Life is not a play/film where there is script whereby everybody plays to the words in the script. He/she may never had dreamt of slaping you before but as human as we can be we can do things we never thought of doing. so if he realised he's done something wrong he should be forgiven. I have seen couple (married) who were best of friends and something lead to an arguement btw them and the wife slaps the guy, somehow they settled the issue and they have been living together (stonger than b4).
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Motee(f): 7:36pm On Jun 30, 2005
Well if that is the way to shut you up then not too bad but it is wrong men.. Watch your temperament. Do not give what you wont take
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by nike4luv(f): 3:37am On Aug 20, 2005
i think evry1 is walking away and i agree that that is how it should be cos if u fight back its gon lead to another violent encounter
if my lover slaps me in which he would never think about doing, i'm gonna hold the spot for about 20secons and am out of his face
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by angelmike(m): 9:08pm On Aug 23, 2005
Allah kiayie! i will so abandon her that even the sovereign national conference will not be able to come to a compromise over the matter....seriously speaking it will take more than "I'm sorry" to bring me back to my normal self.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Greatpeter(m): 10:45pm On Aug 23, 2005
So what will bring you back?
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by Latoya(f): 3:36am On Aug 24, 2005
haha,i dey like this type of trouble.u slap me,i will turn around and slap u twice that is left and right and harder,that is it.
I wont take shit from a so called lover.That doesnt mean we will braek up,it was just a misunderstanding,when we get together again and he repeats the same thing then i will give him an everlasting mark,i will make sure he always remembers me and he will learn never to hit a woman again,that is just the final stage of our relationship.We just gonna break up.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by gina34(f): 10:00am On Aug 24, 2005
well if mu guy slaps me .
i will sipmle walk away.
and i will never go back to him unless he apologies to me.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by tega4tj(m): 5:20pm On Aug 26, 2005
Dis on strong oo!!! Wel if my partner slaps me due to lack of self control, do you know what I'll do I'll remain motionless for some minutes, smile the devil out of me and leave immediately, for the devil in me, might come back to take charge. For the next few weeks, I'll be a spirit before her as I'll ignore her every move, but then she has to pay the ultimate price for reconciliation...... shocked
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by layi(m): 7:50pm On Aug 28, 2005
I've said this in a previous thread. My lover slaps me. Men the love isnt there. I'll simply walk away.
Argument is just misunderstanding.It doesnt warrants slaps for heaven sake.

Once that happens. I'm off for good. i dont need to slap her back. Its achieves nothing.
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by spicy4real(f): 5:55pm On Sep 02, 2005
if he should slap me over an arguement i would use that opportunity to leave him alone because if we finally tie the knots he would use me as a punching bag and it won't be nice
Re: Your Lover Slaps You During an Argument by twinkledew(f): 6:39pm On Sep 02, 2005
slap him back grin
Just kidding

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